whats up everyone? New to this board and making my first post. I have been in a up and down relationship since the get go. no doubt alot of this has been caused by my part. In the beginning I was very independent, had a small sales business, and was actively pursed by many girls, which was noticed by my gf. However, after years of being unreliable, too crazy, too drunk, I found myself trying to turn over a new leaf and become this 9-5 type of guy that is not really me at all. Its almost as if I didnt know it was happening to me. It just happened. The girl I have been loving for so long through it all has been decreasing the frequency of our sexual sessions while having an ugly attitude about many things. I feel as if their may be someone else. Wanting what I want, this will not discourage me and has brought me to this site to better inform myself on how to increase the wetness of her panties by self-improvement. I believe that I have become the safety net and am too dependable for her to raise her 'interest levels'(i believe thats the phrase). what are some ways to shake her foundation and make her find me irresitable? Please help me with this. I am ready for the breakup( got back ups so no oneitis) but I do love this one and just want to make her want to please me with the same ferocity she did in the begining. DId becoming too dependable somehow cause her to relax and take me for granted. I will post more information. Thanks for all the help.