I got pretty frustrated last night because girls were outnumbering guys on the dance floor by a lot, and dancing in groups of a few girls. I tried to join a couple of groups but was shunned for reasons beyond my comprehension. A couple of times I got into it by dancing with the least attractive one which I'm sure they all liked to see because they are friends, but transitioning to the target proved difficult. I found that it helped also to keep distance to mask my intentions while on a "stranger" level with the girls. Is there something that any of you have done or said to make this experience more comfortable for the girls, enough so that they want to dance with you? :?:

dancing? are you a scissor sister?

i think the dancefloor is the wrong place to pick up.

different puas has worte this alredy several times if i'm not wrong..

i made the experience when girls dance in groups they want to be among themselves...

better whait until they have a drink... and game them at the bar...

If you like to dance, try doing the "Robot" more often. Girls just love the "Robot"! LOL!

Seriously, if you do like to dance, make eye contact w/ your target and smile. Nothing more, nothing less. DO NOT hover around the girls if it's a group, they'll giggle and laugh, but they're laughing at you for being the "Creepy Guy".

I was a dancer in clubs and got paid (No, I wasn't a male stripper). I danced at clubs in NYC, Philly and Atlantic City. I would observe the dance floor from on stage and seen soooooo many failed attempts from guys walking around with boners dry humping groups of girls with their faces looking like they are having an orgasm and creaming their pants!

Be laid back chill, don't break out into freestyle. If you seen the Movie "Hitch" in the scene when he shows "Albert" how to dance. (Exactly)

There is a 3ft rule on the dance floor. A friend of mine told me this
(also a professional dancer). Freestyle is for on stage, on the dance floor the rule is 3ft. Spread your legs approx. 3 ft and thats where you should lie, otherwise your going to be bumping into people and pissing people off.
pretend you have a 3ft platform and keep rhythm.

Back to picking up a girl on the dance floor, it's tough but there is no conversational approach, you have to go directly after your target on the dance floor.

Follow the rules now:

1) approach dancing from the side

2) smile and say "Hi", If she turns to you and starts dancing back with you (She is interested) if she turns away (Forget it)

3) If she does turn to you and stat dancing with you, hold eye contact and a smile and mimic her body movements.

4) After you have her attention, tell her you are going to give your feet a rest, would you like to join me? Give it 2 minutes. (Do not go any longer)
You want to talk to her. If she says "No", say: " thanks, for the dance, maybe we can catch up later" (hand on upper part of the back, leaving from the side). When she is done dancing she'll be keeping her eye out for you (Trust me)

And take it from there. You know what to do.

I wrote on this earlier, this still works for me. But as far as I'm concerned Inacid is correct in his statement, there are far better places to pick chicks up than the dancefloor...

I find in the club, its easier to undermind the alpha male structure that nightclubs are infested with. If you look around in any good nightclub worth sarging, what are you gonna see? A bunch of motherfuckers walking around with their chests blown out and their alpha male attitude glaring to the maximum. Yes, I know that not everyone in the club is going to be like this, but a large percentage of them will. All the rest of the men will be the awkward "im gonna come and dance with this random girl from behind and really creep them the fuck out" guys. I have found time and time again almost without failure that when I approach any good looking girl in the club with good eye contact and a cool and confident mannerism, it leads to a dance without a word being spoken. Here, all you need to do is show her some dancing skills for 15-20 minutes. By doing so, you have eliminated the opening of the pickup, and already broken major ground with kino. Offer her a drink/bottle of water from the bar. Sit at a quiet table to rest, run with the pickup from this phase. (showing an intelligent/mysterious/confident alpha male who is dominant mentally and is physically confident will pay off more than an alpha male who follows the normal behaviors of physical dominance.) It's almost too easy. Just requires dance skills.

As far as the success of the alpha male who knows the bouncers and tips the fuck out of everyone for attention, these types usually end up with the kind of girl that loves to fuck every one of these alpha males that she meets. Which means your dick might be burning in the morning and you just lost a lot of money in tips. These girls tend to be the 10's of the club, but I have also found that most of these girls don't look as good in the morning as they did with lbs. of makeup on the evening before. But you still can and will find better, cleaner, less used girls by following the mysterious, laid back, intellectual alpha male method. Again, this is all from my experiences through the years as a club promoter, small time E dealer, and someone who enjoys the nightlife and clubbing scene.

That is true. I agree. Just a strategy to try if you like to dance.

Rizor, everyone is right though. It's hit or miss on the dance floor.

The dance floor is one of the best places to "seal the deal" but to open a girl on the dancefloor shows very little effort, especially when you start dancing with a complete stranger...

I use to do this in high school, we would all go out to the clubs in Providence and I F-closed a few chicks, but being older now, those arent the girls i want to F Close anymore.

I prefer going to more upscale places, where the focus isnt the dancefloor, instead the focus is more at the bar and getting to know people there. Im taking salsa / mambo / tango lessons. My ex gf is a Dance Major at a very established Dance school she taught me ballroom and some hip hop.

I feel getting to know a girl at the bar then bringing her out on the dance floor can create awesome kino, especially if you really know how to move. However doing the oppoiste is lame.

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Hey Rizor,

I think in my entire life of sarging I've never picked up any girls on the dancefloor. I personally find them too noisy. I think you'll find that you can spit the same game in a quieter venue and get so much better results than on a dancefloor. Even the best dancers look like they're trying too hard to impress (DLV) when trying to pick up on the dance floor.

So my advice. Stick to the battlefield... and away from the dancefloor.


Respectfully,

M

nice

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Here's the best way to pick up a girl on the dance floor, but you have to be somewhat of a seasoned dancefloor clubber. While you're dancing chances are that you will be constantly monitoring the dance floor, if you see a hottie getting molested from behind from some random drunk dude and you can tell that she's not happy, walk (or dance) toward her from the front, try and make eye contact, smile at her and put out your hand for her to grab and pull herself to safety.

I have done this many times, and they always appreciate it. Problem is I've always been to much of an AFC to seal the deal afterward.

Another good idea is when you have a friend that's being molested by some fattie, and you go find a hottie in close proximity and ask her to save your friend. I had this hammered 30 something chick jerking me off on the dance floor with her hands in my pockets, and a buddy found a girl to save me. trust me they will do it because they will feel bad for you, or your friend.

Other than that:

1. clown around on the dance floor (don't be too serious)
2. I always mouth lyrics to girls that I'm dancing with, obviously the sexual innuendo lyrics, but is there any other kind. Look em in the eye!
3. NEVER HOVER! you just look like a tool. think of it like the 3 second rule, but more like 3 minutes for dancing.

Any of that help at all, I could be full of shit. I enjoy dancing but I would agree with everyone else, stick to the battlefield

Simple cure, DONT DANCE! Dancing will work a sweat and in turn make them firsty. Intercept when they hit the bar.

LMFAO...THE ROBOT...OH SHIT...

Dood, you never, ever, ever, pick up a bird on the dance floor, if she on the dance floor, that means she wants to have fun, so let her be...

If you pick her up prior to the dance floor then take her to the dance floor and do the ROBOT!!!!!!!!!!

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Hey,
only been on this forum for a short time, and im no where near being a pua, However before using all the usuall lines i used to do all my pick ups on the dance floor. Me and a buddy would find the largest space on the dance floor with no one there. Then just dance crazy, maybe even do dead fish(lay on floor and flap your arms about). Yes you do look like an ass but girls seemed to love it. Thinking these guys must be fun and aint trying to crack on to us, Everytime i swear we would be surrounded by girls. Then just say simple line like "hey i cant dance with you lot in my space" it got the converstaion going and the rest is done to thew usuall line. As i said im no pua but i can be a professional ass and it works for me. :lol:

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There is one line I use on the dance floor that has never failed me once!
All the time I see groups of girls dancing with each other and a hundred guys trying to dance with them being rejected. What I do is approach from the side with a high energy level and say
"Are you girls just having girl time or can I join the party?" and then smile.
This works so well for me it feels like cheating.. Its all about your attitude. And then from that point you can lead the group to safety from other guys trying to dance with one of the other girls in the group, the girls will really start to love you at this point.

But the best way is meeting them before the dance floor.