Yeah i doubt shes crying at work unless you are there to witness it.

If she sent it in a text message, she is pulling out all the stops to get an emotional response out of you.

Yup, she's a goner.

Negging a girl, or shit testing her, as you call it, is for when you and a girl have a great conversation going or to open a girl up to you. If you are already to the getting-to-know-you phase and you haven't been constantly negging her and giving her funny answers to her questions, then a neg will be thought of as rude. If it's not already established as part of your playfulness then it will just be seen as a weird, rude remark. Sometimes reading these forums and not really understanding how all this works can screw a guy up.

You seem a bit hurt and defensive about all this, which is a normal reaction to rejection, even if it is because of your desperation to make it work with her and trying a technique that you don't really know how to apply (of course, I don't know you, but that's what it seems to me).

If you are still interested in her, maybe try this. Give her a week with no contact. Then send a text that seems like it is intended for someone else that says something about how much fun you had with her this weekend and how you are excited to blow her mind again next weekend with a surprise you have planned for her.

See if she bites. Then get back into it with her being more fun and playful.

In the meantime, maybe spend some time working on being completely fine with not having any women in your life.

Mehh this case is closed. She's too young and it's too early on for her to care about building a relationship. One could say I screwed up for sending the text, another could say she's not even worth it and insecure herself.

Simply, if she was ready as she claimed to be and into me as she claimed to be (yes after only one date) it should have been easy for her to work it out if she even tried, but nope. The thing is in addition to that text, I called her out on a couple things and I'm pretty sure they were true, so her being female and all would rather move on than admit she was wrong or lying to someone she barely knows.

Thanks for all the advice though, I've always been a natural game kind of guy (went out with a chick Saturday night, banged another one Sunday), but it's always with the chicks I am really into that never works. But will definitely do more research on PUA because surprisingly a lot of this stuff is seemingly legit.

But yea she's gone. It was a learning experience and am licking my wounds as someone else here put it.

The bad news: Miami chicks are fucking nuts.
The good news: Miami chicks are fucking nuts, and sexy.

And let's put it this way, her profile says she was looking for something real, yet she still lives at home with her parents (although they are super wealthy). part of the reason we couldn't talk on the phone and she "doesn't like confrontation" is because she's a 23 year old baby....a very sexy one lol. so she doesn't even know what she wants when she says she wants something real. by sending her that text I had hoped she would be more open to communicating, but apparently as into me as she claimed to be, that wasn't the case. if I saw her randomly out in public, she'd be all smiles, but she just doesn't know how to build a relationship and deal with "drama" is her deal.