Hey, I'm 18, studying in college. I got dumped by my ex-girlfriend 2 months ago after a 4 month (boring) relationship. I told myself that she was trash and that there is much better out there. So I decided to become a player and get myself the girl I want.

In the past weeks I've attemped to approach girls I found cute in college. The farthest I've gotten so far is getting a female friend.

My goal in the next 3 weeks is to kill hesitation and approach anxiety.

It starts tomorrow. I'm going gaming to the mall.

I'm going to shut my mind the fuck down and disconnect the fucker so it doesn't affect me and so I don't give a fuck about anything that happens. No matter how awkward it gets, I won't give a fuck and will move on. No matter what happens, I will still end up beating the mast to porn at night, so I might aswell get the fuck out and approach some hot bitches.

Today the snowstorm prevented me from going to my daygame mall location... I went to an alternative location next to my college (a bigger mall, but little to no girls).
There was a huge difference in my mood from my previous attempts. I was really calm and it felt like I was really close to approaching now and then. My mind was calm and no longer freaking out. I'm almost there. I think I found a way to shut my mind up and concentrate on the moment.

In fact, I'm setting myself a goal for this week: approach 25 girls, say that they're beautiful and eject. (Mostly at the mall, maybe at the campus)

What's the point? Eliminating hesitation and developing a careless attitude towards the outcome.

Once I get over this, I will actually try to # close next week, or perhaps even this weekend.