Hi guys

I got a small issue that I find very frustrating at moments. It is when im in a group of people or with friends, I have no problems socializing with them and having fun with them. It's about the ability to ignore and own them, to show them that i should not be played around with.

Right now, I just cant get them to come down to my level, they are always above me, and it does not feel right that i give up so easy just because they dont get what they desire. For example;

My roomate just told me to close down my download just so he could play his online games, at first I said no, but he just went in my room and closed it down.

They also swear alot at me, but i ignore that as if they were not even there, but they still continue with it.

My issue here is; it didnt feel right that he just did that and its my fault for not being authorative. I live with two roomates, and they both come along togheter so they usually blame me for everything wrong that happends in the appartment (its never their fault, when it acctually is). Does not feel right, and at some cases i just want to smash their fucking faces to the ground, but I know, that i should not, im not like them. I feel that there are alot of these situations right now, and i want to be able to deal with them.

Im coming here to ask you if there is any other way to do it? In a way that they listen to me and understand that "im fucking serious, or else im going to kill you"? Is it okay if i go Gordon Ramsay on their asses?(Because i would)

Regards

Really good answer and i'll keep in mind everything you wrote and said. Thanks TonyKing