Are you going to ask us what you should say after every text?

You just told us this girl is hotter than your ex. What do you think we'd advise you to do? Bury your bone and don't come back until you do.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Yes I understood, and tomorow i'm seeing my f*ckbuddy so I might REALLY be the happiest person in the world LOOL!

But yeah, I did love really much my ex and giving up like that would be stupid. I won't give her any chance and make her feel really bad so she'll have to do lots of efforts to step it up. Communication was VERY BAD on her side...

I'll follow your tips brother :p. Add me on facebook please so I can tell you what happens

Nobody can change in a few days. You are too hopeful, and not thinking objectively. If she wants to meet, tell her you need time to think. Tell her you need space. If you just go back to her so easily she will not think twice about doing the same shit again. Plus why in the world would you want to be with someone where the sex is not great, she walks all over you, and she does as she pleases, and then expects you to still be there for her.

You really think she will be better? Honestly? Come on, nobody can just change like that. Plus she hardly has been chasing you, wait until she is fucking begging. And if that never happens, who cares.

I have so many "down" moments while I just want her back...

But the "up" moments are when i'm telling myself there are so many other good girls out there. I'm just afraid of getting this kind of girl again and not knowing what will happen :/

Let yourself grieve.

When the one girl that I've ever felt like I loved broke up with me, I went out the next weekend trying to pick up girls, I was so focused on just being fine and not bothered about it. In the end I think I just prolonged the grieving process.

I can remember getting with a girl in a club and then just wanting to walk away and feeling utterly miserable because it wasn't her and I was just comparing every woman I met to her. So after that I didn't go out for a while, I just saw good friends and family, went NC on her ass and rebuilt myself slowly. I think it was important for me to just let the wound heal slowly, but we're all different I suppose.

Oh okok :p. And did she contacted you after all that?

Thank you guys for everything!

I passed the phase where I questions myself about all that, where I know I love her and wants her back, etc...

Now I know I could get much better girls and invest in real relationships in which I will be happy. Girls that look like me, girls that love to invest, girls that have a FUTURE!

Off course I still have my "ups" and "downs" but my friends are there to help me pass through all this :p.

Just go out and have some fun. Get a drink, get a girls, anything you want to do. Just make yourself busy, so that you will forget about her. I know someday you will meet a girls that deserves you and your love.