I'm glad you're seeing success with it, Frecks.

At first it looks like she's trying to flip your own frame on you, but in the end it's clear she's just using some self-deprecating humor and giving you a blatant IOI ("it will be easy for you [to hold my hand]"). She is very interested.

I would say something like "Oh good! So I can just show up in my sweats and Cheetos-stained wifebeater. See you Thursday!" or whatever. It's not a big deal. Just keep the flirty, funny vibe you have going. You're on a roll.

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Well well, it would seem that I've made another accidental discovery. In my question to improve my situation, I've decided to abandon messaging random women, and have instead decided to target women in a specific demographic which seemed to respond best. Ironically these women were ill whom I expected, but given that the ratio in my mailbox was overwhelmingly "x demographic", it would seem that my best shot was to contact them. In doing this, the number of responses I have received has exploded. This is shear awesomeness baron. Just gotta let you know that.

Instead of scaterring my efforts, I've decided it best to channel these efforts into a singular effort. I will write of my results at a later date. It is much too early to celebrate, and to do such would be premature, but I think I've finally found what I'm looking for. I should be able to tell with in a month or so.

What you are doing is called target marketing. You are going after a certain demographic that is most likely to respond to your product (you). Sounds good man. Lets see how this turns out for you.

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I am new in this community and i met this girl few days ago... i already texted her and set a date with her for next week but i just want to maintain the interesting tension between us so i wanna send her few text to keep the attraction...

I thought what kind of text suits the best my personality since i dont want just coppy something i saw and its not even me and i came up with this:

Hey i just wanted to make your end of the week great by saying hi... so hi... and you are welcome.

You think its good??

EDIT: Seems good she liked it and got a funny text back.

I feel I should include a dicsclaimer here, based on my own experience:


When running attraction, DO NOT FORGET to run comfort as well. I've been making this mistake for 2 months and only recently realized that was why I was getting so many fucking flakes. In terms of seduction, attraction is potent but very weak on its own when forming any kind of relationship with someone. On the other hand, comfort is weak regarding seduction but very resilient; the girl will be more likely to stick around.

What we call 'comfort' is simply the process of getting to know someone, which is the foundation of kind of inter-personal relationship. Attraction is like steroids for that... it bumps up the relationship from platonic to sexual. And if you use steroids w/o exercising, your results will not be anything close to optimal. I learned that the hard way.

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Again, this stuff is gold for me. I managed to get myself in another little pickle though.

This girl. Came all the way to being my pretend Internet girlfriend and te banter was solid for a bit. Then I was frozen out by her for 4 days .

Read below:

Me:(after getting frozen 2 days) yeah it's over. You were the best I've never had.
Her 4 days later: that's too bad. I might've thought you were cute.

I don't know how to come back from this. Thoughts?

I am the girl in the above POF conversation. These "techniques" aren't exactly fail safe since I am on pof JUST to talk about sex and sexuality openly in the first place. Why I kept talking with this guy is because he played along with my ridiculous banter, every girl on there has some way of testing whether or not she wants to talk to you any further, just go with the flow of what she is saying, be perceptive and you will have your "in". My husband is involved in my online chatting as well, so these responses are not mine alone. Also, some of the conversation seems to be altered ...AND pressuring someone to text, IM or SPAM can end the contact all together, which it did in this case.

Lol she smelled it. But honestly it's awesome to have a woman on the forums. They help us to gain very unique insight into attraction based interactions. But your really the "girl" in the above interaction? My only question is why you went through all the trouble to find this website? I'm just a bit confuzzled.

No trouble at all, I just googled my profile headline. I like to keep tabs on my words periodically.
Glad to interact in the name of seduction research anytime.

Now this thread is getting interesting. I'm curious to see the original-not-alternated version of this conversation.

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I'm sure it is not extraordinarily different. I am, honestly, very sexual and open in my interactions... that is the whole point, is it not?

Hey, nice to hear from you. If the convo is altered at all, it's only the stuff I put in parentheses.

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Those lines are boss, thanks for the share. I can see my self utilizing them after a bit of optimizing

So I gave that "I don't kiss till date xxx...." a try. It worked out great, however I do feel that it's only effective if you really like the girl and want to go for something more than just casual dating and SNLs with her. As for me, it backfires since you can't break out of that frame and sexual escalate properly. Just a head up for those that are looking for casual sex 2-3 dates max like I do.

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I just used a few of these lines in an example in my WoW thread... check out the short excerpt here post770404.html#p770404 ... By the way this thread is Epic.