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practically every girl i meet im becoming the nice guy that they know, ill talk to them on nights out, ive got them on fb, they go to my gym, but in these cases first impressions are already made months, even years ago...they think im funny, a lot even tell me im good looking, but they dont take me seriously and nothing escalates!!, is this just me not pulling the trigger soon enough?, like i said theyre not really my friends but i know them...because obviously first impressions have already been made here, do i sort of need to rewind it some how with game, or do i just literally need to build comfort by talking to them more, getting theyre numbers and pulling the trigger beacuse im past so many stages with them as regards to a natural game, this is hard because im not in the friend zone but im not out of it either if that makes sense
Sounds to me like you aren't pulling the trigger at all brother. You say "nothing escalates" of course it doesn't nothing ever escalates until YOU actively do so. If you know these girls and they go to your gym, escalate there, its perfect. Make sexual jokes and use push and pull on them, keep them on their toes, make THEM look like crazy chickens by being what they already think of you: Funny.
Walk up to one of your kittens and go "You're so sweaty, after the workout we hit the shower together!" when they start laughing you go "I'm dead serious" with a straight face and when they tense up you go laughing "You're so silly, you'd have to pay me for that"
Shit like this has worked wonders for me, sexual, funny and oh yeah, KINO ESCALATE while doing this.
Yer good point , I wanted to add as well you need to look at improving your inner game.
Have a look at this David DeAngelo's 77 Laws of Success on youtube its a bit lengthy but it has some good stuff for inner game and laws of attraction
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