Hi guys, first of all, my english sucks so i hope its ok.

So i met this girl, took her out. She mentioned, that she dont want to have sex with me and i shouldnt expect sex within next few times(i dont know if she ment take it slowly or i just want to have a good time). Still i managed to kiss close the day, with heavy kino(like almost sex).

Next morning she actually called me, told me she wanted to see me. I met her at her place and this is where i failed:

She gave me extremly mixed signals(just like the first day). Its like, we are just about to have sex, but she suddenly backs off emotionally. Some times i initiated, other times she did, but it never ended up with sex. And ive done things i regret, like being needy and frustrated, which screwed everything up i guess.

And right now, shes telling me that i have abused her feelings and im a fucking idiot etc. and she doesnt like the way i am(was AFC, frustrated, needy, but also a douchebag in a good way i hope?). Whenever i freeze her, shes still texting me with short msg. as she is trying to get my attention. But for whatever reason, i dont know.

And now shes telling me she had a bad week(she got heavy mood swing)and its not my fault? Also, im thinking shes hurt after the breakup with her BF(not sure). But this is just getting annoying.

She is 22 and im 28, she only had 1 BF and flirts rarely. Got huge amount of LMR. You know this type of girl, "i want to be sure before sex". Also, i start thinking im a cuddle bitch, thou not sure.

How do i fix this guys, please help. Give me the mindset! Thanks alot!

Thanks and impressive. Its corret - i was very beta(as i analyze this situation).

I called her yesterday to invite her out, she was with her friend, told her that i would call her another time instead, and it was complelty fine with her(surprised after all shes trying to dominate me). Is that a good sign or bad sign and how long is the freeze out time? I just need to a certain mindset, when ask her out again.

Thanks man, you are the best. I gladly take some other advice, aswell.

Great community, much shorter responds time compared to the others.

Thanks alot TonyKing. You are fucking crazy in a good way. You made me so happy.

Asked her out as alpha, ignored her shittests/crap, trustrelationship estb. once again and profit! I'll seal the deal this time.

Take care everyone and good luck.

Tony and others - HELP ME!

So convinced her to go out(we still need to agree on a day). Asked her out this weekend, but she told me that she got no time(which is fair enough i guess and one week ago since our date).

But ive noticed that the smileys and sweet messages are gone, she doesnt ask me back when i ask her a question, its just feels so empty, cold, distant. Im extremly frustrated right now(mostly because of my ego). Im usally texting her once everyday and she ends the conversation everytime(yes/no answers). It was much better before, when i could spot very clear IOI's. For some reason, i guess she will lose interest, before the meet up.

Shes gone from, "take me out please", to "i dont give a shit about you" alike within 48 hours. Still, she havnt refused me.

Anything i should care about? Any specific strategy?