Long story short---she broke up with me 3 weeks ago following amazing 5 month relationship out of the blue. After LC, all initiated by her, went NC two days ago after she texted me that she wanted to cuddle with me and then didn't show up. Breadcrumbs, I know. She texted me tonight---are you mad at me? After I told her we couldn't be friends. I ignored it, what should I do next boys? I do love her and would go back, but it has to be for the right reasons.

It sounds like you are doing everything perfectly fine to me .

Tell her you need some space and time to think about everything. Then when you do finally meet up with her, when you see she is really missing you, and chasing you. Act cool calm and collected, don't mention the relationship. Be funny, tease her, but don't show too much interest.

Thanks man, not gonna lie, I REALLY wanna talk to her, but I know she's fishing to see if I'm still on the hook for her ego purposes. I'm convinced she sent me the cuddle text to see if I had somebody over and I foolishly played into her game. I HATE games. I really do. As a side note, I did fuck the ex wife tonight after she drunk dialed me . I am such a whore what should I expect from her after I ignore this text? I figure shes gonna get pissed and blow me off, or get desperate when her mind starts rightfully thinking I'm fucking other girls. she's an HB 8 BTW

She's not ready for a relationship. She is toying with you because it amuses her. She is probably seeing other guys too and doesn't want to commit to one.

I suggest not showing further interest. Answer her texts or calls but don't try to initiate anything, as though 'you also' have other options. I advise creating other options to keep her off your mind in the meantime.

She will eventually come back to you. It may take weeks or months but she will. Remember not to text or call her. Let her initiate it.

When she does, just keep it a friendship.(No Strings Attached) Don't invest emotions in her because she already showed that she doesn't respect them. Save that for someone who will.

I don't suggest trying to be in a serious relationship with a girl who treats you like this, again.

These girls are best suited for having a stable FWB(Fuck Buddy) relationship or having a chick you can use as a wing, for picking up other girls and having threesomes.

That's my advice. Good luck.

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Appreciate the response. Are you saying I should answer the text, or ignore it? I mean she did initiate, but I told her I'm not doing the friends thing. I don't know if I should wait for more signs of desperation before I answer? If I give her a one word answer, she's gonna know she still has me on the hook I think. I think an outright ignore is probably the best play here, don't you think?

Don't have to ignore her, just say hey. When she replies, if she asks a question, answer it. After that tell her that you're busy working on something.

Showing her that she isn't your top priority builds attraction. If she gets mad then tell her to relax. Tell her that you're busy and will get back to her later. I usually never text them back.(She will text you again later and this time be more desperate.) Keep doing this until she tells you she wants to see you.

When she wants to see you then tell her that if she wants to see you then she can come to your place, if she hasn't told you that she is coming over already.

Remember that when you are with her, just pretend like you are with one of the guys. Don't act needy.

Go to a bar, watch a movie and chill. Hit on other girls in front of her. Get her feeling comfortable letting loose around you.

As long as she still has feelings for you then the more you don't need her, the more she will need you.

Also, if she can have fun around you then she will want to be around you. Remember that you already fucked her so she has some feelings for you. That means you got one up on the rest of the guys.

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Thanks man! I answered her text of 'are you mad at me?' at like 230 am. I said 'no, not mad at you' and she replied 'ok at 230am?' And I said 'yeah, what are you doing up'. She replied she went to bed at 8pm and was just up. Remember, I had just got back home from fucking the ex wife.

Nice, you little player

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Haven't heard from her at all today, I'm sure her imagination is running away with her now. And it should!

Don't worry, she'll get back to you when she hasn't heard from you for awhile.

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From what I read here, your imagination is as well. Best thing you can do for yourself is forget about her. When you start thinking about the fact she hasn't texted yet, get busy. Call a buddy, call another chick, something. Anything. Just get your mind off her. You're not helping yourself by doting on how to win her back. If you really don't NEED to win her back, that gives you the best chance to actually win her back because you will do it for the right reasons, which is what you correctly stated you wanted in the first place.

Get over her. ASAP. If you go back when you're over her, it will be for the right reasons. If you go back before you are over her, it's likely for the wrong reasons.

Vhou,
That's about as solid advice as I can get. Working towards that goal. I know me, and the quickest way for me to forget about a girl, is to sleep with other girls. And that's not so bad.

A girl was flirting with me on Facebook today, and the ex deleted me soon thereafter. Think I blew this one up. Not gonna contact her though.

That's where you're wrong buddy. Her deleting you is good because you got an emotional spike out of her. Emotional = Tension which is required to lead to sex. Girls cuddle the guy that fucks their brains out, not the mushy loser wimp who tells her he loves her.

So what's my next move?