Hello,

I recently did my first day game approach in a shopping mall. The girl was working in a clothing store. It went well.

Now there is another girl in another store in the same shopping mall i want to do my next daygame approach on.

She is working in a watch shop. There is just a cafe in front of the shop and i have been checking her out from that cafe. The cafe is just a few meters away. We have got some eye contact. So i figured up with a funny wordplay opener that i could use. Since she works in a watch store i came up with this one:

"i was watching you earlier from the cafe, so thats why i wanted to come inside here, to look for a watch, maybe you have "time" to take a coffe some day? i mean you are working in a watch store. u always "have time"

Either i go in and tell her that or i just write this down on a note and then go in leave this note including my Facebook and phone to her. Then i go back to the cafe so she can see me and i wink and see how she reacts.

What are you opinions about this?

how about NO. don't do any of that.

just do typical mall game.
go in to the store and request her help in picking out a watch. it could be for you or someone you know. you don't even have to buy one. add kino into your equation and some funny (not corny) things to say and you're all set.
before you leave, get her number. txt her later and set up a meet.
this worked well for me the very first time i did it.

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Not a fan. Corny jokes for opening are lame unless you somehow know the girl prior.

Just walk in, pretend you're shopping for a watch either for yourself or your sister/female relative, and go from there.

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For the love of God, NO.

Corny lines, leaving notes instead of making conversation like a normal human, and winking are all horrible ways to get a girl's attention, and you've managed to combine all of them into an absolutely dismal routine that will almost certainly sink any chances you have with this girl.

Instead, go into her little shop and look for a watch. If she doesn't approach you, approach her, nonchalantly, and ask for her opinion on something watch-related. Tell her you're looking at watches for your mom's birthday, and that you're not quite sure what to get. From there, make conversation.

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This what I've used before and had great responses. I just did this with the clothing but you can turn it into anything. Come in there and she will say how may I help you, etc. Tell her you are looking for watches but don't have anything in particular. Then ask her, which one of these 2 watches makes me look more sexy (2 you like the best) She'll smile or laugh and choose one. Then you say, are you hitting on me? Where is the store manager? I need to file a complaint, isn't that against the policy to hit on your customers? Don't be too serious, have that fun vibe to it and see where it goes from there. You can change things around to suite you better. Good luck.

Easy.
1) Make direct strong eye contact with her.
2) Walk straight into the shop.
3) (for the girl who has made several eye contacts with you) and say. Hi, are you going to continue admiring me from a distance everyday and try to get my attention or are you going to say hi to me?
( for the girl that didn't notice you ) Hi, I just saw you from outside the shop. and I just had to come over and tell you how gorgeous you are. I just had to get to know more about you. What's your name?

P.S Ignore the fact that you are in the shop and she's working. Unless the manager looks really screwed up. In that case. Wait for her to leave the shop.

Advice from - I work in a mall and I have approached nearly the entire fucking mall within 3weeks.

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I think most of the advice above was bad. (except the NO don't do it stuff)

The advice given here works at mall stores.

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Just do as a normal costumer does, as a saleslady it is required to them to assist a costumer. Ask her on what is the best watch to give to a sister or a mother. And every time she assists you, make a way to have another conversation with her. Us guys, we know if the girl is flirting already and if she does, ask her number or ask her out. Simple, right?

Heed the advice of the majority....no corny jokes. Just act natural and see where it leads.

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Thanx for the advice. I have not been in there yet. She is not always there and there is often another worker inside this store. The store is not big so her co-worker could hear our conversation. Im passing by every other day and when she is there she is together with her co-worker. Im waiting for the oppurtinity to go in there when she is alone in the store. I have seen her alone sometimes. Im thinking it could be her manager or something standing there also. Im planning to do an early morning visit on a Sunday or any other weekday. Just do natural game. Actually it was a gold store with gold chains etc for women and not a watch store. My plan is that i will go in and ask for advice on a necklace for my sister and then go on from there and ask for number at the end.

Personally I would go indirect(And not situational which is what the "gold for my sister" opener is), just as a personal rule of mine. I don't ever want to talk with a girl about her job, cause I sure as hell don't want to talk about mine.

But! an easy way to stack into comfort building is to try and explain to her what kind of person your sister is so you can get her the right necklace. To do this, you run an ESP routine after you're opener(Like palm reading), as if you're trying to compare the Hired Gun to your sister in terms of personality. If you can get the target talking about herself and who she is as a person her comfort with you will rise. And once you think she is comfortable enough with you, exchange numbers and you're good to go.

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