Okay, so I made out with this girl at a party last friday. She and I kinda works the same place, but she's in another department. We were both drunk and the kissing got very handsy and kinda dirty. It was cool.

The next day (saturday) I added her on facebook, and she was fairly chatty, talking about herself and asking me about stuff also. I then asked her: "When are you gonna give me your number" and she said something along the lines of "Maybe I'm gonna give it to you "

So the morning after (sunday) I initiated the conversation again, and she was very chatty yet again. I then gave her:

Me: I know how I can get your number! You can give it to me when we'll hang sometime next week

Her: haha, I'll think about it


Alright, so yesterday (monday) I just cut the chase:

Me: So do you wanna get together this week? I can pretend that I can cook, and you can pretend that you like it.

Her: This week is pretty crowded, but can I get back to you tomorrow?

Me: You do what ya gotta do.


So today (tuesday) was the day that she said she'd get back to me, and I haven't heard from her all day (I'm about to go to bed). What do I do next? Should I just totally ignore her, or should I reinitiate the conversation, even though she said that she would?

You're making yourself too available and honestly sounding a tad bit needy.... Women want what they can't have.

And if all you were doing is making out with her and you really didn't have an emotional connection with her, she is going to assume you just want to make out and fool around with her again and that is the only reason you want to hang out with her. Give her a few days and see if she hits you up. If not... NEXT.

Actually she did write, but it was not the answer that I was hoping for. She said that she had thought about it, but didn't wanna meet up because the work situation would get complicated.

I know for a fact that she slept with some other guy from work, so I guess that I'll just be moving on. I'm learning!

What was it about my actions that you think sounds needy, TheMajikalMethod?

Thx for the reply!