Ill try make this really short. I met a HB9 the other night, plenty of flirting laughing etc. then got her back to mine. We fucked. Next day, didnt get a good vibe from her at all, I initiated flirting, she was laughing but stressed and eager to get out of my house, saying her friend will annoyed since she was in the city visiting her friend. I drop her to her friends house, say goodbye, ask for a kiss, got a peck. Then she phones me to say she found her phone which we had been trying to locate in my house but couldn't. All this time I felt like I was chasing her, although I was making her laugh etc I wasnt getting that same vibe as last night.

Day passes and I text her an in-joke I knew she'd find funny as an opener, she hasnt text back and Im sure all attempts of getting in touch with her now will fail. She lives 1.5hours away so probably doesnt see the point in staying in contact, however im aware that if she had a good enough time she'd go out of her way to contact me etc but hasn't.

I am going to try one more and last time to get her to meet up. Im going to where she lives this weekend, (have to go there anyway) and I want to ask her if she wants to go for a drink since Im around. I can either call her, which for some reason i know she wont pick up, or I can message her on fb, so i can see when she has read my message and may be under more pressure to respond.

Not really sure how this distance has happened, cause i really felt we clicked that night....What's the best way to handle this, what do I say, and how? I feel it may be a lost cause.... don't plan on ringing her/contacting her at all now until the end of the week.

It's good that you won't try to contact her again, except for 'till the end of the week' part. Why would you contact her? You already did, the ball's in her court now (mistake) but don't make it worse by throwing more balls in there. Be patient, don't focus on just this one girl and move on. If she contacts you, great, keep doing what you did in the first place, it got you laid. Maybe she was just in it for the one time and feels bad about it now, maybe your skills only worked that particular evening. If she wants YOU, she'll initiate, if she doesn't, find another who will, you know you can do it

Cool man, thanks. I know thats the right advice. I can get laid often enough, just i really clicked with this girl plus she was really hot. Hence why I want to see her again, sometimes I can get a bit clouded when I get with girls like her simply because it will be a while before i meet another that I clicked with while also very good looking. I know the balls in her court but id love to chance it anyway.....either way ill leave it till the end of the week till i decide what to do. I dont mind rejection again, but i just need to know if she'll pick up!!

So good news, she eventually replied and I've organised a meet up

There you go, now have at it while playing it cool my man, don't hesitate to pm me if you have any questions. And let me know how Day2 went