I lost my V-Card finally . Yes, it finally happened on Friday night but there were complications.

The girl that I had sex with was super into me. She said it herself, and I know it. We did it on the first actual date. This is where things got farked up. Well we started smoking the leaf and drinking wine while we were watching Cloud Atlas. Of Course, we did not finish the movie and we left to my bed. Now, as I was high as a kite and crossfaded, there were some problems in the hardening department. So, sex did not actually go as planned and both of us ended up not being satisfied. Then she told me just to finish off, me in my crossfaded stupidity thought I did and realized I did not have a condom on. She told me to stop and stuff got weird and she left after an intense makeout session after that. The thing is I did not ORGASM, it was just some residual urine (I just went to the bathroom, 2 minutes earlier) and I was too high to comprehend that. So, that is how my first time got wasted. Now, I like her, but she is saying that she feels “weird for coming onto me so quickly” and she needs some “time to herself” as she is still “transitioning into being single”.

Now, the questions. Is she a lost case? Do you guys think I can get her back? If so how? How long is long enough for before I text her again? She made it clear that she doesn’t want a relationship, neither do I. I just want to fark her brains out when I am not inebriated as sh1t. I just didn’t feel anything from that night. Please help.

Anyone?

Just do fun, high-energy things with her. It'll help take her mind off of her previous relationship AND increase your value to her. After a few high-energy interactions, you can take her up for a bottle wine and a movie (avoid too much drugs unless you want another disaster).

Try to take it a step back and make her realise why she wanted sex in the first place. It's often as simple as going one step back on the ladder. Failing that, move on the next one m8.

Well I fucked up. Since I did not get a reply for long, I texted her back saying "Hey! I know you are taking your time but I want to see you again . I actually liked that you did what you wanted to do and not over think". She did not reply back to this. I sent it on March 11th and today is the 14th. I will be going away for spring break tomorrow and I want hook up with her tonight. So, I am thinking of sending this one again,

"Hey, botanist! I still got that IPA you wanted to try. Come over tonight, lets finish what we started - the movie of course ."

Please let me know if this is good or do you guys think I should just wait till the spring break is over, which will be a week from now. The more I think of it, the more I am liking her, please help!!!

If it isn't imposing, can you guys reply before its too late. I live on the west coast so its like 9:30 am here.