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Dated a lil sweetheart for a few years and got engaged but ended due to circumstances beyond our control (Visa). I have a criminal record see which resulted in jail time which would affect said visa but i never even tried to apply fearing the dreaded ineligibility which probably would have ruined us sooner. She began to drift slowly over a 6 month period and has now met someone else and claims she feels nothing for me now when i asked for one last chance. Is this just a case of finding something new and exciting and a local guy she can actually be close to more than 1-2 a year plane flights for comfort and shit? She used to beg me to promise to never disappear from her life no matter what happened and would cry about the thought. Prior to her revelation about someone new she landed a new job which meant relocating and that night she cried to me saying she was in a position where she'd have to say no due to financial problems. I literally gave up the new house i had settled in, moved back to my mums and sent her all the extra $ i had available from this so it would work out for her. She's never been one to use someone or ask for money and she has always been the one to spend a shitload coming to visit me so i'm at a loss as to why she has become so distant and cold towards me. Is it time to move on or can i find a way back to her if i can secure that visa?
Man, that's fucked up.
However, these things happen. Time to move on.
I say this, not trying to sound like a dick but that's how it comes out... cause I am lol but there are 7.2 billion people on this planet right now and that number keeps on climbing. Don't allow yourself to get hurt because you lost something that is replaceable. Every relationship we have in our lives serves a purpose, be it long term or short term, with friends, girlfriends, acquaintances, whatever and we align ourselves with these people because they help us get to the next phase in our lives. See it as that phase of your life is over and time to move on to the next bigger, stronger, faster, better version of the man that you are. Continue evolving as a man.
CHAT