Hello everyone. I am Mr. A, and this is going to be my story.

I have thought long and hard and I have come to the conclusion that I was a natural at some point. Then I do not know how I was exposed to the PUA community but it happened. I was going through a tough time in my life and once I found this community I just got embellished in it. I just ate it all up. You guys may have had the same experience but I am creating this journal to write out my path to being me.


Background history:

My name is Mr. Assertive, 2 years ago I was the typical bad boy with a decent heart. Over those two years I went through a depression phase and lost my identity. The old me would leave if someone said something I didn't like, laugh at things that weren't funny, go after a girl relentlessly, and overall just live life. Then as the years went by and the hard times came, I started to become conditioned by society and lost all that assertiveness that made me into the man. You guys are aware of how the community is pervasive and can take you over, well I am done with that and have seen the light back to the old me, the real me.

Today is a prime example, I decided to go all natural on my approach today. I went up to a girl in Tops and told her she was cute and I wanted to talk to her. She blushed and it was a good feeling to see her turn that red. I didn't plan any routines and just winged it. Usually, I would use routines and whatnot but not this time. I asked for her number but she replied that she had a boyfriend, but I let her know that I will be seeing her around. She said I made her day, well at least I know what the truth is and can work with what I know.


Later on in the night, I met up with a girl I have been seeing for the last 6 months. I may have inserted a jealousy plot line the day before by accident by mentioning to her roommate that I have been hanging out with new people. The roommate interpreted as playerish and I stood my ground because I have to deal with the consequences. Tonight, "this girl texts me that she isn't in the mood for sex now if that is why I want to come over".

This is my boundary. So I went up to her apartment and flirted with her. I tested the waters for sex because I wanted to prove a point. Later I called her out on it and she said something about people having hidden agendas. I gave her the silent SPAM and got up and left. It really gets on my nerves when a girl I like says shit like that so I told her I would talk to her later. She tried to get me to stay and talk but I wasn't having any of that. I left.


Conclusion:

I am on my way to becoming a natural again. I lost my virginity before PUA and I will continue to do what I used to do before it. PUA gave me a lot of insight however, and I will still remain on here to give advice and try to help others. For now, this is my journal #1

P.S. I believe things will be going in my favor. Once I got home from this girl's house, I got a knock on the door and it was my cute neighbors . Ha, they needed to get to the front of their apartments and I was more than surprised. Now, I have an situational opener to use when I see them again .

Take it easy, Mr. A Feb 17

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Cool. Sounds like you are getting more opportunities. Keep it up.

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FEB 21, 2013

Day Journal #2:
I believe my inner game is coming back into place. I have been reviewing my past history (thank you Facebook history messages) and am looking at a few girls that I closed before getting into PUA and hitting rock bottom state. Before I get to the good part, I will explain what happened today.

Today, I just socialized right from the start. My class had us socialize by writing down each others signature on a paper and I used it to my advantage. There were character traits on the paper and we had to write down our initials next to a trait we thought we had. I wrote down next to the trait of being bold. It was a like an affirmation drug. Anyway, I just started going into bold mode and told girls to hold still while I wrote my signature on their papers using their backs and initiating some kino . They all had a laugh and I had a one little shy girl place her paper in my face as if to say "notice me". Lets say, Mr. A is getting his natural groove back.

My posture today was pretty solid, I got great receptions (e.g., eye contact, seductive smiles, and proximity from girls) and I know my inner game must has something to do with it. I have the mentality of "been there, done that" and am doing well with my nonverbal. Another thing that happened today, I nonverbally pinged another cute girl from my class by walking behind her and pulling her hoodie over her head. PLAYGROUND HUMOR is a way to open girls you know or know as acquaintances, guys. Great ice breaker. She turned around and gave me the most innocent smile. My ass gave her a sinister grin, so I have another prospect.

All in all, I didn't number close anyone but I did ping a few girls on campus. However, I did message a girl I haven't talked to for 2.5 years and we are now meeting up this weekend. Mr. A is on the move.


P.S., I am starting a secret movement at my small school and hope to leave a little legacy. For now, I have talked to two other people who I want to join me on this journey. They said yes.

I will post again during the weekend so don't cry too much.

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My friend, I was in the same shoes as you. Took me getting my dumped by girlfriend who I used to have wrapped around my finger to realize it.

What you said here is key for everyone: "I started to become conditioned by society and lost all that assertiveness that made me into the man."

Society fucks us all up. I envision a state of nature where man did not feel any shame or embarrassment and just simply did what was natural -- which was to approach attractive women and have sex with them. It is in our natural state to do this, but once we enter society, it pumps us full of worries, anxieties, and fears about what other people think of us which is so damaging. The more you think about what other people think of you, the less they will think of you.

You are doing all the right things now, man. Do what you want. Say what you want. Laugh loudly at your own jokes. Flirt with the hottest girl out of nowhere in the most inappropriate situation. Women love balls. You have 'em, but society tends to take them away from us. Take them back and use them.

I will post more on this topic later in a separate thread. It really is the key to everything.

Friday 22nd

Day Journal #3

I woke up at 2oclock in the afternoon, which is not something I am proud of. I missed class and missed workstudy, which really got on my nerves because it is irresponsible. Then again, I am in college so I can get away with it. I got to work straight away on my home and cleaned it up as much as possible. I was very happy with the effort 2 hours later and rewarded myself by buying tequila and two bottles of wine. It was going to be a good night.

NIGHTIME

I texted my new acquaintances downstairs and let them know that I will be over at night to hang out with them. I wanted to expand my social circle and this was the way to do it. Then I texted this girl I mentioned in the last journal, who I closed 2.5 years ago and she was texting me the whole afternoon-night. Whiplash texts = you better get on that shit. So I suggested that she come over and enjoy a night of fun. At first she gave me slight resistance and was talking about how she didn't have a car to get here and I played it well and suggested she come here by transportation. A few more logistics and she was on her way to my place being driven by her dad.

PARTY PARTY
I got her comfortable to my presence again and started leading her as soon as she got here. The mindset of "been there done that" helped me get accustomed to being my natural self and after attraction and comfort I just went for it and kissed her. She was very receptive and showed no sign of hesitation. I was in.

We went downstairs and socialized with a few other dudes. I gamed her there as well and we all had a grand old time just like college should be. At the house party I ran into some of my potential targets but I didn't want to seem sleazy and only said Hi and pinged their interest while I gamed my girl some more. This house party was the perfect opportunity to exercise my social skills and I opened about 10 people. After awhile, more people came and ran into another old same night lay who was trying to game me and take me away from my cute little 22 year old woman. I gamed her back and got the address to another house party. She gave me an interesting shit test of "Who are you taking home tonight" which I replied "we will just have to wait and see" and gave her a cocky little smile.

Next party was bumping and there were soooo many girls that I wanted to game there. There were also other dudes who were on the prowl and it was hilarious to watch them eagle vision the room. Thank you PUA for giving me the tools to not look like that. As I disregarded the wall of dudes, I went with my girl into the crowd and social proofed myself with some of the people i knew there. Using my instinct I knew that my girl was ready to go home and I told her we should get out of here to which she replied sure.

THE CLOSE

+ older women + sexual prowess=


Mr. A out

P.S. I need to close those other girls or at least start looking to build my sexual harem some more.

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FEB 24TH


Saturday was fun as shit. What started out as a tranquil but relaxing day turned into a sloppy fest when night time came around. I was looking forward towards going out and sarging and meeting new people that I reacquainted myself with the people downstairs again. They are actually decent people but in my personal opinion they aren't the most suave. But they are fun to hang out and they know how to party. So, I prepare myself by going out for a run and doing some last minute review on this PUA stuff. Now, I know I said that I was pretty successful before PUA and all the mental masturbation but I can handle it. I just use PUA knowledge just to get the results in my favor or to get out of undesirable situations. Basically, like a cheat code/sheet. However, I am still on my way to being a natural, just a more lethal natural.

THE NIGHT

I knew we weren't going out once I rolled into my friends apartment. There were people there to socialize with and I made it count. I introduced myself to 3 new people. The biggest surprise was yet to come. I was just minding my own business, trying to look for an escape plan or to ask if we were going to leave the apartment when two other girls came into the room. One of the girls is a former friend of my ex...HA. Instant IOI from this girl the second she saw me. Unfortunately, my right eye contact lens was bothering the shit out of me so I just peeked at her for a bit and held in my surprised look. Nonchalantly, I walked towards the bathroom area where I fixed my eye contact lens and performed a mini celebration dance. After fixing the right eye lens, 5 people and myself included played kings cup the whole nigh. I got dragged into the game by this girl. I made sure to make the game as kinky as possible by asking naughty questions when the never have I ever card came up. I was going to show these people I was a cool guy and comfortable with these questions to encourage a fun time.

The whole game, B, who we are calling my ex's friend, was touching me on the leg and just touching me in general, lol. I was pretending to not know what was going on and I was being a challenge and smacking her away. I did not want to hook up with her yet, because I made plans with another girl who was coming over later that night. However, I gamed her and made her know who I was. This went on for two games of kings cup. I made sure to talk to both girls to not make it seem obvious that B, was going to be my intended target. I managed to get her FB (should have number closed!) but I am 100% sure that I will see her over the next four days on campus. If I do see her, I am going to go direct and number close then. So, yeah kiddies, I didn't close her that night, but I am determined to take that ass to town.

I wasn't going to include this but another girl came to the room and I just went natural with her and gamed her for a bit. She gave me a few IOI's and started gaming me and asking me if I knew her. Of course, I didn't. At the time I was leaving, she asked me once again to remember her this time, and I should have taken her phone number down but my friend was gaming her and I didn't want to do that since he supplied me with fun. I pick my battles wisely.

This reminds me, I recommend that you guys increase your sexual prowess. I can't explain it, but girls are way more receptive to me. It was probably due to the past few days where I really honed in on the two girls I slept with and made sure to be in the present and to have complete dominance over them in the bedroom. My confidence is through the roof right now and it shows. GREAT sex leads to so many benefits. The girls you give great sex too are more willing to do a lot more crap for you and take more crap from you. Once you know you dominate these girls, they are yours for the taking and have eyes only for you. You remember the moaning and the lovely looks of pleasure on their faces and that image sticks with you for a long time. Even better is the silence when you finish and they are exhausted and don't want to move for awhile. There is no greater feeling for man and no better satisfaction for a woman to know that she has a man that can do such a feat. Other benefits included are that these girls will start to game you and hard. One girl who knows I am into casual things and not girlfriends has asked me to dinner.

Interesting.

Thanks for reading, until next time
Mr. A

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Feb 27 Journal 5

Main points: Texting and leading, solidifying frames, setting up dates, and currently reading a helpful book: 7 habits of highly effective people


Day 5

Not too much to report today in terms of sarging but here it goes... I am establishing my confidence and everyone has taken notice. Everyone seems friendlier to me and as I have no problem with that. I like making people happy and am getting over the me vs them thing. I am getting used to the "we" and why not! I will probably write out important points from 7 habits because I feel like these are the types of things people need to learn. It is a book that hit home and I had a mini revelation just a little while ago.


I did a bad thing today, I didn't number close .

I was gaming my group –me and two girls– today in class and got a few IOI's from the girl I wanted. One of them is strictly friend material because I don't feel any sexual attraction towards her...weird to say, she is just not my type. However, she is a cute girl and I love talking to her. Then there is this other girl who is an 8 (got to get rid of this scale) and for the first time in a few days I started to feel anxiety. Fortunately, I kept my cool for the whole hour of class time and managed to ping some other girls in my class. I even maintained prolonged eye contact with my professor (female ) because I knew it would challenge my comfort zone to sexually eye contact my professor while she was lecturing.

DAY GAME

The whole class the girls tried to frame control and make me answer questions right away, but I displayed aloof body language by telling them to figure it out themselves and I wasn't going to spoon feed them lol. I teased them both and made them laugh. Bingo! The HB 8 was giving me some looks and this was the girl that I suppose to number close. Unfortunately, having an outcome made become anxious throughout the whole hour. As I checked the clock and saw class time was coming to a close the anxiety started to creep in. My chest felt deprived of air and I felt uneasy. I stopped talking too much at this point because I didn't want to blow my cover ;p. Once the bell rang I assumed the 8 was going to walk in my direction towards the main building on campus. However, she said goodbye and walked the other way. The only reason I didn't run after her is because I already was walking one way and was walking with the cute girl. It would have been obvious if just turned around and walked with the other girl.


Thinking clearly now I could have made up an excuse or just would have grown a pair, but everyone makes a fumble here and there. Next time I see her, I plan to execute the plan and invite her to a party Friday night or hopefully some other little dude who wants to get in her pants has already told her by now. I am banking on the average joe, come on buddy you can do it!!!


The girls from last weekend !

I am seeing the girl I haven't seen for 2 years again this Saturday. She tried to get more information on why I don't like relationships but I started to dick around and not answer her question. Eventually she gave up. I just told her I was Jesus and I like everyone. Frame is set. Her frame is sexual and I love it, she sent me a booty pic today which I was not expecting, but looking over my texts I can see how sexual I was being without really trying too much.

I have arranged for B (read the journal before) to come over Friday to come party with me. I messaged her on FB and kept the gaming there brief and number closed the same day. I texted her Wednesday and she double texted me which I interpret as interest. I sent a few more texts and then set up for the meetup. I kept it ambiguous and told her to wear red or white because the party was themed heaven or hell . PERFECTTTT. She is on board and I can't wait to rock her little world. She has a tongue ring and a nice little body on her.

In smaller news

My ex girlfriend just broke up with her boyfriend of a year. I am considering hooking up with her again and keeping her a fuck buddy. This girl is no bueno for me and I plan to keep her this way. The other option is not to hook up with her which is also fine.

I also messaged an athletic girl on FB who I met last weekend. I am not pushing for a close with this one because my buddy is trying to get at that and I don't want to be that guy that takes all the glory, besides I have enough on my plate. Just trying to have my team winning!


BY THE WAY I DON'T ENDORSE ANY OF THE GAMING BELOW, I AM JUST SHOWING YOU THE CONVERSATION. SO FEEL FREE JUST TO READ AND KEEP IN MIND THERE ARE OTHER FACTORS THAT CONTRIBUTED TO THE QUICK NUMBER CLOSE.

FB convo with B:
Me:My alcoholic angel. Thanks for moderating my alcohol intake!

B: lol ummm your welcome and i was just realizing the proof different in beer and your shit

Me:It's what separates the adults from the kids

B
lol so im an adult?

Me
funnnyyy. At least you got some wit.

6:46pm
B
wht does tht mean?
6:56pm
Me
your silly. it's a good thing!
8:43pm
B
Lol ok as long as its a good thing
8:52pm
Me
You can't take me. Even if it wasn't a good thing
9:29pm
B
Lol maybe if u drank enough
9:42pm
Me
Ha, then next round of drinking. I am getting off this, give me your number I can't do this IM thing. Too old school
10:02pm
B
*number*


FB Convo with the athlete:
Me
now I will remember you. Hahah, country girlll
HB
lol. Awwww shucks
Me:
I get that a lot, don't mention it :p
HB
Lol. I'm sure you do


Future goals:
Keep up my mindset.
become organized and start making shit happen more often
become more persistent and ruthless
Increase my sexual vibe even more
LEARN TO DANCE


Conclusion: That's all I want to write down for now. Don't want to make it seem like a big hurdle. These are my main priorities.

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March 8

I NEED YOUR HELP WITH THIS ONE

Background story

Invited one of the girls that is friends with my ex to watch a movie. My ex has a social group of 5 girls...I slept with two of them and if I had slept with this one, it would have been three.


The Night

We watched some dumb movie called stake land and it was just so bad. I was actually interested in watching the movie because it got decent reviews on some hosting website. Halfway through the movie I was borrreed and so was the girl. So I decided to increase the sexual tension . I started tickling her and wrestling with her. The first few times I just amped up the sexual tension and placed my face close to hers and backed off. After 3 more times in total of doing that I kissed her briefly. Next thing you know, I tell her I will be right back. I went to go and get some water and come back to her. I proceed from where I left off. I go for her breast and she smacks my hand away...uhhh, okay. I back off. I kiss and kiss and go for more sexual spots. Mind you I am caressing ALL of her body and not just her breasts. I knew something was up.

THE PROBLEM I NEED HELP WITH

I am apparently tooo cocky or have too much of a big ego. These were her shit tests. At first I dismissed these tests and she was shit testing me while kissing me and grabbing me. I knew she wanted me but her anti-slut defense was on high alert. She gave me the shit tests of "oh, I bet no one ever turns you down", I felt like this was a double edged sword but decided to answer with "I think it is sexy when you deny me" with a cocky smile. I don't know if this encouraged her.... Even with the high attraction, I could not touch her breasts?! So, I dive in a little deeper and calibrate my cockiness with genuine curiosity. I find that she is aware that I have slept with my ex and another girl in the same social group and that she and this other girl were not interested in being considered hoes.

More shit tests. I told her not to call the girls I slept with hoes and she then came at my ex. I defended my ex by saying that she should not call her a hoe and that the relationship between my ex and I just didn't work out. That ended that. Next came the other barrage of shit tests, she started to try to control the situation, by asking me who the real me was, blah blah blah, and sarcastically saying there is another side of me. At this point I stopped talking. I told her to lay down with me and we did. Laying down calmed my nerves. We started talking about other shit besides what was going on in the moment. She was digging it. My poor roommate was outside waiting for me to finish up and I may have killed the moment of being a "nice" version of myself by groping her and I guessed it pissed her off.

She was a little annoyed but I figured she wanted to suck me into a frame of being a nice guy and a potential boyfriend. Hell no. I escalated again. I told her that I wasn't going to lie to her to get into her pants. I am a genuine nice guy but don't expect this shit all the time. I wanted her to see me as a lover and a guy to fuck rather than a potential partner. So, I walked her out. She was annoyed but I knew it was for the best. I sent her a text afterwards telling her it was great talking to her and that to handle those kids back home! (she was working a charity event over the weekend).


Any tips guys? I became genuine but I felt that she was trying to push me into a role that I didn't want to play. If there is a next time ( I assume it will happen ), I think I will gauge her expectations to make for sure that she doesn't get the wrong idea. She is a good kid, but I am not in it for relationships right now. I want to look for the right one and test the field.


P.S. I am back on my A game. Been out of it for the past month but my motivation is back!

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Disregard that last journal. I don't need help anymore. I thought I would keep this one brief to address that I will be over my "the one" very soon. I spent the night at her place after coming from a party full of young girls. Some of them were not of age and I was not going to risk it. I went to my "special girl" and we had sex in the morning because I seemed to have called her when she was sleeping and was groggy. I fluff talked and we got into deep rapport, which was fine with me, nothing like emotional connections .

In the morning we had sex and the first time was okay nothing special. Then I remembered to challenge my "special" girl status and we got to talking again. I managed to somehow get her to say that she had sex with another guy during the time she was having sex with me. The biggest thing is that I wasn't butt hurt about it . Now, she did not say it directly but I just had a feeling. My "special" thing was shattered completely, in a good way of course! The second round of sex was even better, with my belief challenged, I gave it to her without thinking much. My immersion was complete (Read sex god guys).

Cool things:
I will be reviewing past messages from 2011 on my old phone. I have an excerpt from one of my text conversations before signing up for this forum...I wasn't too bad .

After number closing and generating attraction same night
Me: Lol lil one (this is callback humor, something I did without reading PUA)
Hb: You are little yourself!
Me: 5'2 munchkin
Me: Cantvreach the cabinet (Double text here, but I was a natural and I guess really good at these things, usually you aren't suppose to double text: the rule of thumb is a text for a text)
HB: You are a dwarf
Me:Well nice to meet you too
HB: Haha you too
Me: I'll see you and your full gatorade of alcohol at the next party?
HB: Yes
Me: Hopefully you will finish at least a third of it.
HB: Stop that nonsense I took a million shots before I made it so its okay lol
Me:Well you didn't look like you had alcohol poisoning. But Ill believe your words this once.
HB: Haha ok maybe not million but if you touch my brita again without my permission its gonna cost ya. At least I think that was you?
Me: Innocent until proven guilty. Wasn't me though. But now that I know it's yours...
HB: Haha watch your back lil boy...


Conclusion:
Not bad for a natural...I will review what I did well before and see if I can somehow get that kind of flow back. I was pretty boss, not trying to sound full of myself. Time to do some more self reflection!

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Update March 14 2013

NOT SEDUCTION so you don't have to read it:

I am going to get the bad news out of the way. My grandmother just died. I got off the phone with my mother who called me. She kept her composure on the phone but I could sense the sadness in her voice. I told her I heard the news from my cousin and that it is okay for her to let it out. During the conversation I told her that she needed to go to Mexico and attend her mother's funeral. God bless my mother, she did not want to go to the funeral because she did not want my little brothers' to miss two days of school. My mother's dedication to the well being of her kids is inspiring. It reminded me of how much effort and love someone can give to another person. It also reminded me of her unconditional love for me.

In other news during volunteering I met another kid who's father isn't around. I was conducting a session with other members and we were sharing stories. The kid did not even seem to be troubled. At one point of the conversation he shared how his father isn't around and he fleeting rush of emotions and let out a little cry. He laughed it off. God bless this kid, too. Kid was only 12 years old. I took 19 years to get to the point of sharing and dealing with the fact that my father wasn't involved in much of my life either. Today was a reminder of how life is short. Too busy dealing with your own problems you don't realize how others are going through the same thing and everyone needs love and attention.


Related to seduction

I have given the green light to my oneitis. We are on the path to a relationship but I haven't given her a time frame. It is only a matter of time before she makes or demands the official title. I have prolonged it by telling her that "I am not 100% sure where this is going but I don't mind the pace at which is progressing". I will be intensely gaming for the next few weeks or whatever time I have left as a single man. I can use a relationship. I don't have much experience with them. However, I don't think I will stop sarging. I will probably do it on a social level. Get at least to midgame with each girl and stop right before seduction. I am off this. Take care everyone!


Mr. A.

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March 16
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Totally owned the usual college bar. WOoooo. I met new women, reconnected with old ones and had a great time! I was actually helping out some of my brodies to have a good time as well.

THE NIGHT TIME


I got in social mode very early on in the day. On my errands I made small talk with the cashiers and bantered with them about being so polite and how they just want me to keep me coming back and spending money more money in their store. It was great.

I went to a house party before going to a bar because I knew I needed to keep the momentum going. So, I walked into this house party with my roommate. Key note here is that whenever you walk into any establishment, how you walk in is important for how others will treat you. For example, I walked in like I have been in that house before. I wasn't anxious, I wasn't looking around trying to feel there were people i knew at this party and I just went straight into the kitchen giving people smiles and handshakes along the way. I was introducing myself right from the very beginning.


Eventually I did see some people I knew and went and talked to them for a few minutes. I WAS HAVING FUN. Due to my social savvy, girls were checking me out hardcore. Some girls were hovering around me talking to other guys but once those guys left, the girls stayed and I was very aware. Yes, I opened them. Along the way, I saw my ex girlfriend at the party and her ex boyfriend. Her ex boyfriend was giving me props. I was laughing inside at how far I have come and how my ex girlfriend was giving me indicators of interests. I acknowledged a few of them but I wasn't here to game here. I was here to game the whole room and game everyone before going to the bar.

After an hour at the party, I left and it was game time! I gamed a few French girls on the way to the bar to add more social momentum. Once at the bar, I started having fun straight off the bat. There were a bunch of dudes but I was not going to let that slow me down. I made sure to have myself a good time. After a while I went and opened a few sets which were receptive to me. Good, good. I then spotted a 3 set and opened them. I basically told them that they are clearly the funnest people at the bar and after a few more minutes I was dancing with all of them lol. I eventually told one of the girls to tell her friend to dance with my bro. She complied and my bro had a dance partner .

I number closed one of them and went on my way. I kept on gaming and danced with a few more girls. None of them really struck my fancy so I just smooth talked some more and number closed some more. Eventually, I sat down and wanted to relax. Next thing you know, I am opened twice by girls telling me I have beautiful eyelashes...Okay. Ha. So, they forced me to get up and I danced some more. I number closed them all. To top it off a girl came up to me that and told me I was soo cool and all these other compliments. I guess I was giving off the right vibe . The only reason I didn't try to game this girl is because one of my good friends was trying to get her and I was trying to hook them up. My friend is a little timid so I was rooting for him the whole time.


THINGS THAT I NOTICED

I am pretty sure this has been repeated by other members and by other players but since i was having fun I had the ability to use my peripheral vision and see how other guys were doing. About 90% of the bar was full of guys just looking for pussy. Looking around, looking all uncomfortable, and making fun of other guys who were at least trying. I remember these two dudes making fun of my bro for dancing with a few chicks or at least trying. Hey, at least my bro tried. He got rejected but he tried. Even some basketball players from my school were out of their element. Some of them got opened because of their status, but it wasn't anything special. They still were part of the 90%

Mr. A


Notes:

Work on your body language and vocal tonality
Open everyone and start early
Make sure to use a direct opener at some point of the night
Have fun and make women your second priority
Number close once you got everything down pat
And game the whole room. People will love you.

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Eh, bunch of number closes but I will put a direct approach report here. Pretty brief but this is how it's done when a girl is clearly showing interest.

I am in class just having a grand old time, it might be my inner game and fashion sense that has been coming together nicely that has made me a lot, a lot calmer and more challenging but IOI's from 4 girls in my class. I am this close to gaming the whole damn school and I can feel it. No biggie. I made eye contact with all four girls and gave them a smirk, it messed with their heads sooo much. They glanced every few minutes. I obviously could not close all of them so I chose a cute little one with black hair and a nice bust . While I displayed indifference to my group (this class is a group class) with the only male being myself, I gamed my target for the whole 45 minutes.

THE DIRECT Approach

I had to wait for her a few minutes after class since my group finished early. I sat on a bench patiently, just smirking at how I am going to make her day. Next thing you know, she walks by, and I get a sudden ah, it's showtime feeling in my head. I walk calmly behind her and eventually catch up with her and bullshit for a bit. I knew she checked me out the whole class time but I have a bad habit of playing with my food .

The indicators of interests were offff the charts. Jeez, I knew she was feeling a little overwhelmed and i felt it so I decided to take the lead and direct the conversation.

Me: Hey you
Her: Hey...
Me: I might as well introduce myself, I am Mr. A
Her: Oh, I am G
Me: Where you heading off to? (my bad habit of playing with my food)
Her: Oh I am going to the library. Are you done for the day (She is investing)
Me: Yeah, for now, I am walking your way as well, lets go. (Lead)
Her: Oh okay,

More fluff talk for a few minutes until we finally arrive at the destination

Me: Okay this is where we part ways. (I am just amused at this point)
Her: Okay...well it was ---- (I cut her off)
Me: You know why I am here, right? haha
Her: Whattt ? haha (cats out the bag)
Me:Now, don't get nervous. You look cute when you smile. We have been checking out each other for awhile now and I want to talk to you. Listen, I got run but I want to get your phone number so we can continue this.

At this point she is literally throwing her number at me, before I even get my phone out. I get it done and tell her that I will text her soon. So, for now I got a potential lay. Only problem I see happening is the fact that she is aware of my preselection so she may perceive me playerish. Eh, I'll take care of it and write you guys a lay report soon. Later!

P.S. Sorry if this sounded arrogant. Just loving the surge of confidence I that I have now.

Mr. A

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Here is a nice little one night stand for you guys.


Scenario: House party.

Scene: I came into this party not knowing half these people here but determination can help you push through such obstacles. I arrived at the party around 11:30 AM and immediately made eye contact with every...single..person. I smiled and knew that I made a great introduction. So I am with my friends and one of my wing girls and we are just having a great time. I playfully matched my wing girl with a scrawny kid and she hit me. I talked to the scrawny kid for a bit and found out that he wasn't too bad. Just a nice guy :/

I kept on gaming the room and made small talk with every person. Think about it, are the other people going to ask you "how do you know so and so"? If you do get asked that, just lead the conversation. Redirect it. They might forget, they may not.

So, as I gamed the room I found a girl in a red dress. Attention? She got it. I went over to her and started spitting some game. I immediately broke the touch barrier and push pulled a little. My frame is that of a seducer at that point because I see that she isn't shy with touching back. Game on. Eventually, I knew this girl is looking for a one night stand because she is excessively flirty. Therefore, I just went in for the makeout. At one point I had to retract because I didn't want to get her too hot, too quickly.

So, I chit chat with her for a little bit but generally what you guys really want to do here is always push for the close. At least try. That's what I did, I ramped up the sexual tension to the point that her buying temperature is high. I barely did any connecting with the girl. Just focused on attraction and closing.

MY DUMBASS ACTING ON DUTY

Guess what though, I noticed that a cd fell on the floor that belonged to the DJ so I went to pick it up and told my girl I will be back so I can give it back to him. It wasn't even two minutes and once I turn around I see her dancing with another dude who swooped in, lol. At this point I am feeling a little amused and a little ticked. Some of the friends I made at the party made a comment to me along the lines of "I thought you were taking that home... he is taking your girl".

So, I acted on my dominance and a bit of my ego and went back for her. I interrupted their grinding, lol. Basically, I just extended my hand to the girl I was gaming and told the dude thanks for keeping her company and went to another area of the house. The dude's face is priceless. He deserved it though. These vultures need to get some game and get their own tension.

Ten more minutes pass and I know that the single act of dominance was enough to bring her home. So I started asking her if she has ever seen the rooms in ______ (I live in a dorm). And would she like to see them. My face is neutral at this point. She says maybe....I said, it's time to go. As we go and get her coat, her friend comes outta nowhere and asks her where she is going and tries to intervene. I am already high off my dominance so I just give her friend the look of calm and determination. She immediately got a submissive look on her face the instant she made contact with mine. Priceless.

So, ten minutes to my room and I am doing all crazy things. I do a bit of Vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder and the rest is history.

P.S. My winggirl recognized a few people at the party and acknowledged that I had found a lay so she let me do my thing so she stayed with them. Just in case you wondered what happened to her lol.

Dean A

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March 27th.


The missus went to watch a documentary called Missrepresentation so I decided to game another chick while she cools down from the emotional high. Basically, Missrepresentation is documentary that empowers women to stand out. The slogan is "you can't be what you can't see". I didn't want to deal all that, lol. But I am happy that she feels empowered. I love high self-esteem girls.


GAMED TWO GIRLS TODAY: NO SEDUCTION SINCE I HAVE A CURRENT MISSUS. BUT EVERYTHING BEFORE THAT IS FAIR GAME.

I was running on a treadmill and minding my own business and then I notice a little figure roll up next to me. She is a cute girl that I have seen around school and possibly at a bar at some point. But I don't open with that. Instead, I notice her, but she hasn't notice me, so I give it a second. She climbs onto her elliptical and reaches for a remote to a t.v. that was propped in the room. I wait for it...wait for it....she clicks it on and surfs through the channel. She had headphones in so I decided to speak loud and clearly.


Her: *surfs through the channel*
Me: "you better put something good'
Her: *takes of her headphones, she laughs* " What do you want to watch*
Me: "you have the remote, lets see what you put on. I'll make sure to judge"
Her: "haha, no tell me, i really don't mind"

So I made her qualify herself based on the shows she watched and she gave me a few shows to remember her by. I kept teasing her on the shows she watched, how she was a trouble maker because she got written up by the dorm police for drinking....She then reciprocated the questions and went on that for a bit. Then I changed the conversation talked about service trips we took for the school. She asked if I was puerto rican, blah blah, more fluff talk. I told her.

Eventually, she was about to leave and I told her that I am leaving also because I have to watch a soccer game with my friend (other girl I was gaming that night). First I asked for the time, then I got off the treadmill. Just so you guys know how it goes and not make it seem too needy. I number closed her on the way out.

Me: Lets continue this some other time. You are welcome to come pregame with my boys and I at their house. Let me get your number.
Her: Okay. Just letting you know I have a boyfriend (the cutes always do, shame).
Me: *i still haven't automated a response to the boyfriend response, hesitated for a slight second, but regained my composure* "That's fine. I don't get jealous.
Her: Oh I like your shirt!
Me: *hands her phone, give her a pound, and on my way*.


So, I did pretty well here. Kinda sucks that she had a boyfriend, but it's not like I could do anything, even if I wanted to because of the missus. However, she may bring her friends sometime to the house so no worries. My boys can game them.

2ND GIRL

Basically, I told her I was going to come and visit her earlier but since I ran into that girl ^ it took 20 minutes+ to meet up. I made her come down and get me from her dorm room. I will keep this brief. I basically friend zoned this girl since the beginning lmao. I don't know why, but I just felt like it. I told her she will be my new friend.


I ran a lot of cocky funny routines on this broad because I felt like it and it's part of my identity. My inner game practice has uncovered my natural ability to be cocky funny. We fluffed talk for awhile. i made sure to touch her every time she laughed. All touches were friendly touches. But everything starts with a touch. Better than not touching. Anyway, one of the routines I ran on her was the "good old your are asking me to many questions are you a stalker routine".


This went on for an hour. I made sure to run comfort game on her as well. I found out embarassing moment, yada yada. And that's it for me. I ended the night with forcing her to hug me. I wasn't taking no for an answer. I ruffled her hair and walked away in true Mr. Assertive fashion.

Well there you go. I am back to being a natural and it's been way too fucking long.


Mr. A

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So this past weekend has been something else. I will start by saying that I no longer have any inch of approach anxiety. I am leaning to more direct game because it gets my message across quicker. I still like to be indirect and social but being direct early on really makes it clear that I am not settling for the friendzone.


Back in the groove of things

Now, I know I can juggle around 2 sets with ease. Sometimes three sets but I don't try to stack on more than I can chew. My friend from Turkey met this girl online and I decided to wing him because who knows what kind of crazy girls come from websites. I also knew that this girl may bring her friends too, so win-win. I went to the bar and arrived there. Early, I made myself comfortable and walked around like I owned the place, it was fun. I opened a few older ladies and just made comments on their accessories. Just getting warmed up.

My wing finds his target and I tell him to open the set because this was his girl so it is only fitting. Quickly we introduce ourselves. Funny thing is, my wing didn't know his girl is pretty big around the waist . I start running attraction game on the other two girls and I indirectly game my wings girl lol. She tried to initiate conversations with me but I tried to ignore her and make her talk to my wing, which made her even more intrigued to get my attention. Shit. I tried though. I started DHV my friend and talked him up. I think the thing that was killing him was that he was pecking or leaning in to the girls. Don't get me wrong. My friend is a natural and he has shown me pictures of the girls he has hanged out with and let me say that there were a few cuties in there. So he has natural game. Just didn't go his way this night.


A natural is no match for a PUA or lets just say a person who understands the underlying dynamics to women and social interactions. I had one of the girls hooked on me, however, she was the designated driver so it wasn't like I could have taken her home. Other people started opening my set and there were a few girls who came over to talk to the girls I was gaming. I immediately introduced myself to make sure I stayed in the set and not get ousted. This is what happens when you are the party. People want to be around you. I left of course at some point to make sure that my girls know that I didn't need to stay around them all night. I talked to other people in the bar and they made comments along the lines of "oh yeah, I seen you doing your thing."



My Turkish friend was blowing himself out, I couldn't do anything about that. He looked around the room too much and made himself look awkward. I tried to be the best wing I could be and tried to include him in the conversation multiple times. The only problem was that he was leaning in every time he talked! Ah, well. Maybe next time buddy. Anyway, I number closed this woman who is five years older and will be talking to her again in the week. It was a fun night and my skills are getting there. Peace.


After the bar I went to a small party that my friend invited me too. At this point my Turkish friend went home to sleep. I arrived at the party and immediately social proofed myself. At one point I started gaming this girl from Kuwait. I do everything correct and this time I go in for the kiss. She states she doesn't do public affection. Ah, I lead her to somewhere more secluded but fuck, the door on the handle to get outside is gone. This killed the moment, and five minutes later after someone from the outside opens the door I think she started getting ASD. It didn't help that her friend then came over to cockblock hard. He plopped himself down next to a chair a where we were standing. He said "Oh, don't mind me". *Sigh*. I just Facebooked closed her and went home to my lady. Shame shame.



Dean A.

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