Not making this sh1t up... still not sure exactly how I did it, but I just n-closed a perfect 10 Stripper at a high end club in town. Got it at the very end of the night, place closing down so no more $$ in it for her, unless she is trying to pull in a new regular.

I figured she was gaming me the whole night, went total DGAF and I think that's what helped. I'm still skeptical though. Spent a little over 300 on her (not bad compared to some other nights out, you don't want to know my record high) and at the end she was even asking if I wanted to keep going / she didn't want to just take my money. She also claimed that I was the first guy that she's gotten in trouble for (which did happen, not buying it that I was the first) and the first time she has closed out the club with a guy. Again, still don't know what is real and what is game with this kind of girl. I guess I just see them as professional liars.

I fake number tested it (came up with this on the fly, not sure if this is already a strategy out there)... after she entered her (supposedly real) name and number in my phone, I remembered the last two digits, and then hit delete twice. Went back and said, wait, what are the last two? She grabbed my phone and entered back in the right digits. My buddy I was with told me to just call it real quick and hang up to save it, I did. Not even thinking it went through, my phone rings a min later and sure enough, it's her. I'm in shock at this point... I just play it cool, tell her I hit call instead of save and I'd talk to her later.

Ok, there's the executive summary, but now what the F do I do? I can't believe I got a real number off a smoking hot stripper (and I wasn't drunk), but I'm still a beginner at this. I want to close this deal, and while I can't see myself dating a stripper, a FWB would rock.

Well, seeing how my girlfriend is a stripper and I've been with a few in my life, I think I might be qualified for this one. She seems like she was probably bored and thought you were kind of cute, so decided to give you a chance.

The truth about all the strippers that I've been with, they are very in the moment. SO if you don't act fast she will lose interest, especially with a guy she met at work. Honestly, all the strippers I hooked up with from their job, were just booty calls, nothing special. However the only one that I've been in a relationship with, I actually met at a bar and am still with her.

So back to your stripper, I would text her something like hey this is so and so from last night. Hope you enjoy your day. Then leave it at that.

All you can really do is wait. If she is interested then she will get back to you. If she is trying to make conversation via text or if she calls, then I would suggest getting together for drinks or something.

Choose a quiet secluded place within 45 minutes from your place.

Keep the conversation short if she calls. Set up a date and once you do that, then tell her you gotta work on something and that you'll talk to her later.

When on the date, if she doesn't flake, then I would suggest asking her mainly about herself, making statements like: "My buddy from High school/ College was in town last week, I haven't seen him in years. We partied the whole time. It was good to see him, It seems like just yesterday that we were still kids."

Keep it light and positive. Get drinks and hopefully she's a drinker, most likely, because it will get her horny fast. That is, if she likes to drink.

Oh and don't be needy, Most important thing. Read up on some of skills360's stuff, 'on here' about that, if you're wondering what exactly that means. Also Warped Mindless has some good stuff, here, for escalation. So search those two PUAs and brush up on not coming off needy and proper escalation. I'm not gonna type all that out because it would be like reinventing the wheel.

Rest is in your hands, so Good luck and game on brotha

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Well this one took an odd direction...

I started texting her (probably some of my best text game to date, still not great through) a little after 2 pm the next day... She texts back saying she just woke up / worn out from last night, blah blah blah.

Cutting to the chase, after some decent sexually tense exchanges, I tell her she owes me a drink sometime b/c I was dragging at work this day and it was her fault. It starts going something like

HB (stripper 10): "well how is this going to happen?"

ME: lets meet for coffee sometime this week, what does your schedule look like?

HB (stripper 10): Well, what are you doing right now [was about 5:00]

ME: right now I am working and banging my head against the desk

...back and forth a bit more... SHE finally straight up asks me to meet her at a coffee shop near by once I get off work.

I walk in, dressed fairly formal coming from the office, huge IOIs... flips her hair back, big smile, etc., compliments on how good I look. Goes well for about 5 minutes.

First of all, HB (stripper 10) is actually a HB 8+, still not bad, but dang do they have some good lighting at the club!

Second, I tell her to tell me something real about herself... awkward pause,

HB (8 in daylight): I have a boyfriend... but it's an open relationship.

... as the convo continues to derail and I lose attraction, she talks about how she moved here less than a year ago to be with her boyfriend who got a job in town, she lives with him, etc... I try to change the subject...

ME: What do you enjoy in your free time? -- something like that, was a better transition, I swear

HB (7 after talks about BF for 10 min): I like to try to save the world.

[ great, even I use that line, something I can work with ]

ME: Oh yeah, me too. We should join forces and take over.

HB (7 after talks about BF for 10 min): No really, I am an environmental rights activist.

[ fark ]

.... and more awkward. Turns out she has even been in protests against a company I once worked for ... and yes, we make fun of them for being insane when we see them outside the window. I couldn't even pretend to be interested anymore and it was obvious. She turns out to be a complete hippy (not exaggerating).

As much as I wanted to come back here and say I f-closed a stripper, we will never know, I couldn't do it. I shut down and smiled and nodded along. Wasn't rude or a jerk but I just couldn't carry on a conversation. Walked her to her car, awkward hug and good-bye.

In the end, I can say I successfully n-closed a stripped while on shift. She turned out be a HB 6, however she may be the most physically attractive HB 6 I will ever meet.


I did text her again today, realizing a friend on the inside of what most people view as the best club in town could be an asset. Had a pretty good dialogue to be honest, so we'll see if at least that angle has some value down the road.

Awesome game, seems like you are really getting the hang of this, being cocky funny and getting girls interested. One thing though, don't expect that a stripper is going to be something special and blow your mind. They usually carry so much baggage it's not even funny. Of course there are exceptions to the rule. But in generally you should have sexually escalated, banged her and moved on. Girls in general have a lot of baggage they can't handle and now you add stripping for money......

Good job for the most part. It's a start. Rome wasn't built in a day.

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I can't help but chime in on this having dated strippers and been in a LTR with one for years.

This girl was probably genuinely into you (like the above poster said, for the moment) but the thing with strippers is they all have pretty short attention spans. Most of them have some kind of issue. I'm not saying all headcases with daddy issues, though that is a sterotype for a reason. I'm sayin each one always seems to have one specific deep rooted issue they just can't get over.

In most cases this is a big reality check from the perfect sexy kittens dancing on stage making us believe they are thinking about fucking 24/7. Strippers, porn stars, escorts are all just regular people that do irregular things for work.

I think all the guys on here that haven't seen behind the curtain who think hooking up with a stripper is always a pornoflick without the camera crew should realize that with that sex crazed maniac comes a human being with feelings, dreams and flaws. If you aren't "down" with the real side of people, don't bother really, it almost always ends up in dissapointment on both sides.

On the other hand if you can appreciate people despite their flaws, and love them for the real people they are, then strippers and other sex workers can be some of the most interesting and charming people you'll ever meet.

Just a little bit of perspective. Game on, just learn from this and go in with realistic expectations.

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Eheheh funny how her rating kept dropping as things kept progressing .

Anyway, little random observation: I've noticed that many in the PUA community have a big thing going on for strippers..

You sound insanely superficial and very AFC.

If this were me I would have actually turned her into a comerad and FB, probably another open relationship. I would have befriended her boyfriend and turned him into my wing man. And then gone sarging with both of them and then probably ended up having orgies with them.

She sounds like she actually had that thing called "inner beauty", which is a rare find. Being an environmental activist she was obviously a very good person, again, a rare find. A lot of women like strippers and models and such are users and gold diggers. You were lucky here and let a good one slip by.

Also hippies are a lot of fun, she would have made a good friend and person to hang out with while also getting to have super wild sex with.

And an open relationship? Helloooooo!!! where the hell was your head? Obviously shes very sexually mature, and you could have had an open relationship with her too...

Also, the fact that she was very eager to see you, and a little awkward when you met...I mean YOU were the one in control here...SHE GAVE YOU CONTROL! Your problem? You didnt know what to do with it! YOU were the one who let the conversation become dissatisfying for yourself. You were the one who didnt take charge and make things exciting. You could have taken her on an adventure and then banged her but you didnt. Instead you both sat there like a couple of AFC's loosing interest in each other.

This is a shame man. A god damn shame. Youll learn soon enough how rare women like this are and youll regret it. You have some serious work to do on your game. YOu gotta buckle down and get serious about this shit and start applying yourself and structuring your game because coming into a PUA forum with this is just pitiful.

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Hah, I like this guy ^

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Wow n-closing a stripper is amateur (when i clicked on the post I thought n-close was some new slang for some sexual act, not a phone number lol).

Yeah I've n-closed quite a few strippers and f-closed one last fall. Had a chance to f-close in Montana (was there on business for month) with this petite red-head that worked there (I got a 30 minutes free in the VIP room and let's just say the unmarried, undrug-addict, worthwhile men are slimpickings, gotta have a baby's daddy right!).
She got jealous though when i got a lap dance from the other stripper haha

Read your day 2 FR.

What happen at the end?

Basically you didn't capitalize on the day 2. What was your gameplan to get her to your place or a place to close the deal?

You were going into some Emotional Connection stuff which is good for strippers, because most of the time they have guys going Sexual right away. Use that Emotional Connection to your advantage to solidify attraction. Get investment form her in forms of Qualification & compliance. What was your childhood like? Are you close with your family? etc. Then reward on her investment by telling what you like about her for more than her looks. Make sure it has to be implied.

You had enough compliance to meet up which is a good thing, but need to build more to bounce to your place. If you had a game plan to bounce to your place it would had been much easier.

Along the way I would have done Sexual Tension especially w/ kino to get her turned on.