So, today i was at a school exam ant there was a LOT of hb7.5+ so, i finnaly started to aproach (not the first time, but the first time i do it without ANY problem).
So i opened,negged(a little to much negs unfortunately ) and then i made DHV and, after that i isolated the target and i could get her number but i didn't wanted this.(Becouse her class is near my class and i had no intention to call her back). But she was an HB8.
But now the problem : how much i need to neg ? (i usually go too far) and one more thing, if there is a two set, i should DHV (like stories,magic,ESP) to the TARGET or to the other girl ? What if the other girls starts to like me, and the girls are friends?

If in a group there are an hb 8 and a hb 2, i mus dhv to the hb 2 or 8 ? (8 is the target ofcourse )

Thx !

Whats this obsession with negging girls? You only neg if you HAVE to. You neg a girl who already likes you then it's going to decrease you chances of a successful game.

Deep down are you negging the girls so that if you get rejected you can preserve your self esteem by blaming the negs for the rejection?

No, i don't like to don't assume the responsability. When i make aproaches i try to see what i'm doing wrong and then, i repair my mistakes next time.First time my tone wa not ok, and neither the body lenguage was. the second time I made this things (tone and bl) well, but i focused on the target, and i didnt say a word to the target friend (so i lost the set ).But this time i was close !
The third time,i think i negged too much becouse there was a moment (like 20 minutes) when he was sort of depressed, but not so much, she was like sad (but it can be becouse she was wayting for the exam answer).
Btw all my neggs were made in C&F way, she did'nt seem offensed.

BUT, on the way home ,i walked with her till the bus station, and we talked,we laught, kino, i got IOI's and I think i could even #closed her but i thinked that this wasn't a good idea becouse our classes are nea one to each other, and i would't call her, etc... (not becouse i didn't like her,but just becouse she is not really my tipe, im an energic guy, she is more a beautifull dork (kind of) )

My question was, when there is a 2 set, should I DHV (routines,ESP,cube,5lies) to the TARGET or to ANOTHER girl ??

AND if I'll ever see that i'll lose a set becouse i negged too much, i will certanly STOP negging so much Or, what are mistakes for ?

"Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results." - Albert Einstein

No one can help me ?

Go to the one you want. Don’t be so confused about it, you are a guy, and a guy doesn’t have hesitations, when it comes to girls. If the other girls like you, it is up to you if you like to get that girl too.

Last time i did this i lost the set... and the girl, after that told me that the reason i lost the set was becouse not talking to the other girl, i was talking just to the target...