Club- 4 sets - I approached the group and looked everyone in the eyes and gave my hand to hottest one (waiting for handshake) she didn't go for it so I didnt said anything and smiled and waited 10more seconds so she shakes it. They were sitting so it's hard to touch her. She was really shy and I was yelling nonsense stuffs like I like blue colors, I love u, don't cockblock us blah blah... She was smiling with anime eye. But her asd or group think was active. So I bailed saying I will come back for you. Later I reapproached the group but she was same before, but her friend second hot one was trying to qualify me like how old are you ? U must be young. Blah blah she was into me but I didnt wanted her I wanted the girl I approached so I talked her friendly. And bailed again game other girls. Than night was goin rough and I desided to leave so I said goodbye from far away and she burst in laugh and looked away so I reapproached again and said "how dare u? Say goodbye to me!" "hope we will meet again.... Just the two of us" then I left.

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I got her name from her and that night I added her on Facebook . She was tellin me plz go away in club while smiling. I didn't left and resisted so much . I can say she's attracted to me. When she added me on Facebook I messages her

"haha u couldn't resist not to add me right!? Btw ur really different on picture."

She replied

"picture is a picture"

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My online and MSG game suck so hard.
I was thinking abou goin for the kill. Next time i c her online I will msg her something like this.

Fuck it....You know what HB8, I could msg you friendly and funny things like "who lies more? Man or woman?" or "Ur so adorable! I'm gonna adopt u" then I will tease u when u replies for 3 days and we will talk personal stuffs and I ask about ur dream and childhoods. Maybe in 1 week on tuesday or Thursday afternoon I will ask u out for coffee and u will answer YES so we go to XXX coffee shop and have blast... Why all this bullshit? Let's go get coffee right now ?

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Honestly bro, doesn't sound like shes attracted to you. I've never had a girl tell me go away... playful or not. She would want you to stay in the set if she is attracted to you.

And if her friend said "How old are you? You must be young." sounds to me like she was trying to blow you out and make you look like a kid. If she was legitimately giving you an IOI, friends will do that, she would let you answer the question. That is a logical question. If she lets you answer, she is depending on you triggering the proper emotions.

And with out attraction, if you have comfort, you are in the friend zone. Or, you have neither and you are now just another guy who added her on Facebook.

You reaching out to shake her hand, or anyones hand for that matter, shows neediness and you are also immediately showing interest in your target. Don't do that. And if your target is shy.... Personally, I take advantage of that shit. Don't start yelling like a goof lol this is an art man. Say "Shit, you're really talkative" and crack open her shell. All acting like a goof is going to do is maybe pump up her buying temp a bit, but it is ultimately not going to mesh well with her mood or personality. If you focus on winning the group first, the girl will want you attention. Then, personally, I would again... use her shyness again to isolate her "damn, I hardly hear you when your talking. Lets go outside/inside/over here/over there" and move her. The group will already like you if you won them over and won't mind you taking her shy friend off to the side for a few seconds. Practice good game bro. Don't be sloppy.

Tnx for ur wisdom . But I asked for NATURALS. I used to GAME girls. I know what I'm doing and I know when girls attracted to me . Trust me bro, nothing beats naturals in high mood (god mod).
Her friends attacked me first but later they become cheerleaders, trying to hook us up.

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Natural game is all your ability to read people. It doesn't sound like you are doing a good job of that lol that's what I was trying to tell you to do... Learn to read people the right way.

If you want to be a "natural" then you need to understand and be aware what type of images and emotions you are sending off to other people. Acting like a loud fool around a girl who is shy is going to be wayyyyy to extreme for her. She is going to feel awkward, like you are some guy who is trying to get her attention or impress her. Your energy level should be SLIGHTLY above the group almost the whole time until you pull her away, then balance her world with yours.

The easiest way to develop true natural game is to FULLY understand YOUR value in life and portray those values in the right way. (You wouldn't see Denzel Washington yelling out what colors he likes and I love you around a shy girl... maybe a girl who is already loud herself. But you being that high of energy, probably scared her and you lost attraction.) Girls can spot a bullshit artist pretty quick.

She gave you her name to add her on Facebook to avoid the awkward situation of having to say "no get away from me" infront of her friends.

The message she sent you back with a bland response somewhat confirms my statement of you lost the attraction, you have to fire it back up. Being a natural isn't about being a goof and not giving a fuck and expecting to get quality women. It is about having a true understanding of yourself and why you really ARE the shit.


As for her tho, next her ass. Stop wasting your time. Good luck bro!

Theres something I wish I could forget- body language and micro expressions. I used to make move only depending on good reactions. But now I realized no matter girls telling me fuck off in first 5 minutes can attracted even wet in 5 minutes later. If I hold my coolness and humble.

Yeah Denzel Washington wouldn't yell around, but I'm not him. I don't compare myself to him!? I love yelling non-sense in club. Why so serious? I'm there to have fun and that's who I am. I don't care if she's by or not (probably she's horny anyway)

If she's not interested why bother send blant MSG back ?

Sorry but I gotta tell u man... U have so much limiting beliefs. Be Wataaaaaa. Watch some real social dynamic videos.. Especially julien and Owen cook aka tyler

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Unless you take body language into account, you will continue to creep girls out and lose them. Trying to help bro. not bash you.. I imply pick up to my game but rely more on the way I am natural. I strive to actually become a high value male and it shows through. girls can pick up on your bullshit fast...

I do not know if the 4 set was dancing or not, if they were dancing you open dancing, if not, you open the 4 set read their body language and then at that point you introduce yourself and then is when you shake hands... You started in reverse, and you were not calibrated, you were creeping them out in a bad way, coming across needy, uncalibrated. A good opener is Whose birthday it is? most times they are celebrating a birthday, or if not, does not matter, you open... Or you girls look like party! Anyways, you need to open, if the body language is negative eject, maybe re-engage later, or open other sets. The friend was not qualifying you, she was disqualifying you, calling you inmature, how old are you? at least that is how i understood it. Learn the proper way to do this, follow some of my stuff.

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i agree.

personally, i like Brazilian girls. Clean up all my stuff. Do my laundry. Make me food. and expect to get dicked down afterwards...

My Spanish is that of Martin Laurence in Blue Streak so body language is key for me. Acting like a clown never got me Brazilian girls. Acting half way sophisticated yet playful has and still does. To each his own tho... Just a suggestion.

Limiting beliefs.......

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LOL

the definition of insanity is repeating the same thing and expecting a different result

yeah im insane then. I approached hundreds of girls same way. first hundreds were awkward as fuck. but now its natural, it suits me. and it is smooth. haha thanks for the comments guys. btw we are gonna grab coffee today .
i ran into her yesterday at club, i was in god mode. almost had threesome...haha but it didnt happen. so i lost 2 sets both into me. haha but totally worth it.

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lol..... repeating the same thing.... expecting a different result............


Use what you know about pick up AND your natural game. Being a goofball won't get you anywhere.


Being an assassin with each move calibrated towards your next step AND having that natural "fun to be around" personality will.

Try it