Right, a list of things to recognize an EMW, as early as possible:

- usually very vain
- insatiable appetite for sex
- it is always about how you made her feel
- she will remember everything she has done for you
- she will remember everything negative you have said
- will twist your words to make you out to be the bad guy
- she is always the victim
- crying comes naturally, even the tear is dropped on cue
- when you argue or she is upset, her way of working things through is to have sex
- multiple personalities; you might not see all of these but put her in different scenarios and you will know (eg. with her friends, at home with you, with your mother etc)
- suicidal tendencies, this can be triggered if you get involved deeply with her and she thinks she has got you where she wants you and then o shit you decide to leave. you will be Mr Fantastic Worlds Biggest Alpha Male with the biggest dick in the world and if you leave she can't live without you.
- are physical / have violent tendencies
- there is no real sincerity in her compliments
- if you ignore them, you will see the child in her that wants your undivided attention
- if she has your child, she owns you! even if you don't she will try to own you but this confirms it in her head
- she is rarely caught out lying and if she does she has an explanation that you cannot counter at all
- she analyses your face to recognize changes in emotions you display after she says something, then stores this in her head to know how you have reacted to other things
- she has a habit of spending money, hers, yours and just about anyone's. Poor financial control with shopaholic tendency. (I blame EMW's for the recession)
- she might have some sort of OCD


My disclaimer to this list is that a lot of women will show similar characteristics, however when you start seeing a handful then you know you are in the shit. Most women use the emotional card and games to get what they want however the difference with an EMW is she will not know any other way to achieve what she wants. Compromise is generally a difficult thing for them and even if she does compromise wait . . . . . . . . . . . you will find out very soon why she compromised - she wants something much more important in return!

Generally speaking an EMW will find it difficult to have a mature relationship as she will be emotionally disabled at a very young age.

I know some of this is repetition of what has been said before and it is a bit random but I think it is nice to have a checklist to compare against.

Thanks.for this summary cloaked. The situation personalities will be a dead giveaway.
She will appear to take on the personality of the dominant person in that group, then when on your own with her, she will be someone else.
Cheers
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Instead of learning how to prolong misery with EMW, how about learn how to attract females who are a positive influence on your life?


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raymunds02 - that's a good point, however what if you are the type of person EMW end up falling for, how do you know?

It's best to know the signs to guard yourself and stay well away from an EMW.

An EMW personality is ideal for a fuck buddy who you can keep at a distant. Knowing the signs helps you recognize who fits the bill.

Wow, I was with my ex for a few months and she fitted this section absolutely perfectly. I was doing all this shit and never realised it. She had problems with her father at home and always told she was an investment rather than her actual daughter sort of thing (they always forced her to study, went to private school and only went out on her fathers terms etc)
I feel i can do better, maybe because i have strong inner game, but yeah my confidence and self esteem got fucked up for a little while. If you're looking for potential relationship in between you're PUA journey, stay away from these chicks, and even keep the FWBS status moderate. Don't see her too often else she'll get attached and probably just do you're head in. When i first started having sex with my ex we was FWB's for 4 months then was together for 5 after that. The whole relationship was pretty fucked up to an extent and ended on a bad note, even though she was in love with me real bad she slept with someone else to get over me not long aft. This shit fucked me up considering i was pretty much in love with her. I've actually lost a lot of faith in relationships too consider how that one turned out, i was never insecure before but now i feel i am, and that i can't trust females like i could before.

I'd say fuck them as hard as you can, when you do. Although at the same time, try to not see them too often.

couple things i noticed that happened
- They take in everybody's opinions and judge the relationship on what other people say.
- They friend all of your friends to make sure she has you, even though she doesn't actually have you.

Could anyone give me advice on getting rid? My ex still pesters me now and this has made me realise how much i need to get rid of her so i can start as fresh as possible.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

does anyone know how to properly "punish" this girl if they do something bad. Like would no contact would be one or sex? Also, how do you deal with the fights, do you just stay calm and not initiate anything and act like you don't care?

Thanks!

You are a genius. Thanks for the great forum.

Thanks everyone for your encouragement, and feedback on this one. I certainly got a kick out of writing the OP, and if it managed to help anyone in their respective situations then all for the better.

As I persist, the best solution for an EMW to run, avoid her like the plague, especially when you KNOW that she's this kind of woman and is tugging at your heart strings. While it can be a great learning tool, personally it was a setback in terms of improving myself and PUA while it was going on. It's a basic psychology thing about why people get stuck in manipulative / abusive relationships. They are randomly reinforced by the times when their partner is sweet/caring/affectionate/attentive but this is polluted by the majority of the time where they are negative/abusive/dishonest/ambiguous/demanding/manipulative. This gets the victim believing that if they address all these problems and change THEMSELVES, then they can bring out the "positive" side of their partner.

Many times, these victims have been subject to their own emotional trauma growing up, and may be addicted to the chaos and drama. Anyone can tell you, "boring" is not the word anyone will describe when talking about a relationship with an EMW. With forums like these, hopefully you can detect and manage these relationships before you fall completely under that person's power, and discern promptly whether they are really worth having around or not.

In many cases, not.

If you find yourself continually attracted to EMWs, it may be in your own best interest to seek professional help. I've been in it myself, and discovered I have a strong "hero complex" (something the EMW preys on) to help people (especially women) I consider "in trouble". I'm working through these issues with a counselor, among others, identifying my irrational beliefs and stuck points and how to cognitively overcome them.

Best luck to all those out there who have been through or are going through relationships like this.

As I have stayed away from EMWs thus far, I wonder if anyone out there has put these principles into practice, and could post their results.