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Once a girl wants to see you jealous, she will do whatever until you are.
neo87, I've read your posts on other topics, plenty of them. I really mean this sincerely: I scoff at a lot of them because most of the time you're pretty much wrong. And it amazes me that anyone still gives you any credibility. I've just grown accustomed to ignoring your posts.
But this quote of yours is completely false. I was in a five year relationship and she knew I didn't get jealous easily. She'd make up stories to try to get me jealous. Did it work? No, because I knew she was doing it to get a kick out of me, and I knew the stories of guys flirting with her were made up. And when they weren't made up, she never acted on them, and she most certainly never cheated on me. And don't reply with "how do you know she never cheated on you?" Because I knew her for five years, and I knew her inside out. The whole jealousy tactic she used was to try to feel important and needed.
Please refrain from giving your opinion when you have no idea what you're talking about.
Kind regards,
Management.
Fly swatter, you have made me laugh twice today. Thanks for reading my posts and following me. I don't really have time to remember who is writing what, I give my advice from my experiences and don't go around dismissing someone's opinions while calling them names. I take time to post here when I'm working from home and stuff is loading. It's not that serious "Management."
Anyways, sounds like you're opinion is based off a completely different situation. I won't even challenge your trust of your ex because that would be childish and your relationship is your business. But as you've said, she TOLD you things to make you jealous. The OP's gf is DOING things to make him jealous. She's not making up stories. She's giving her number out and flirting with another guy then telling him.
Your ex: made up stories
OP's gf: Giving guys her number and texting them.
Regardless, your ex and the Op's gf were/are playing games, only a major difference is that the OP's gf involves physical actions. Combined with her being young, which 99% of the time equals unstable and immature, it's not a big step for her to cheat. I can assure you that the 19 yr olds who are mature enough for a serious relationship do not go so far for attention.
And to Pink panther: Sure it could be a shit test, but would you want a gf who goes to these lengths to test you? Doesn't sound healthy and if she would go to these lengths, what's the stop her from sleeping with the guy?
If you have ever hooked up with an attached girl, you know sometimes it has alot to do with her trying to bring drama into the relationship or get her bf jealous. Can someone who has slept with a girl in a relationship actually weigh in here?
You are wrong, if she would cheat, if she seriously wanted to hook up with this guy, she is never going to be like "Heeey, look at me, i've sended 3 texts to a guy already, look at me!!". If she really wants another guy, she's going to keep it a secret.
She tells him what she's doing with other guys... it's just a plain shit test. Nothing more, nothing less.
CHAT
