So I met this girl at my highschool (Both grade 12s). I've hung out with her 3 times as of tuesday and I wanted to know if i'm doing this right? (Still new to game) aha here goes a semi long read!

First time we hung out we went for a drive around the countryside, her friend was in the car with us so her friend was driving and we were in the back seat just cuddleing, no kiss or anything else just arm around her

second time we went snowshoeing, went well but no kino at all other than just minor stuff like bumping into each other on purpose and stuff

Tuesday we watched a movie at my house and was cuddleing again except a little bit more than the first time, still no kissing or anything..

She always seems like shes having fun with me no matter what we do but when the next day comes around and were at school she acts kind of awkward and stuff (normally when I pass her in the halls ill give her a playful poke)

Were supposed to hangout on Saturday afternoon, Any tips that I should use to get the kiss close and then turn this into something more (going for dating) ... I've heard something about landmarks, could someone also explain those?

My opinion you should have K closed while watching the movie at your house. I think she's waiting for you to make a move, seems like it anyway. There's no real "trick" to it man, next time you guys are cuddling up just turn her head, look into her eyes, and move it for the kiss. Good luck.

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I agree with sparoww

you need to escalate, otherwise you will get into the friendzone or she will lose interest.
but don't be needy, do not poke her next time if she keeps acting awkward.

Ya I was considering that, but how do I go about that? Just grab her head and turn it or what?

side of your finger under her chin, turn her head towards you. That's what I do. Obviously make sure the timing is right, don't just grab her.

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That's really important to get the timming right, that's what the escalation is for.
don't grab her out of the blue

When you have the feeling you escalated enough, you could look into her eyes when she's talking.
then keep looking into her eyes and talk slowly ( very important ) and make the distance between u 2 smaller ( in a way she doesn't really notice) , than you could go for the kiss. Don't worry, make it go naturally

Go for it, i'm sure you can do it

Thanks alot guys! Ill let you know if I go for it next time we hang out!

I fixed that typo for ya.

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Thanks alot for that! hah! Let me know if you have any more tips for this situation!

So, went cross country skiing today with her, Went really well. Alot of teasing and holding hands and stuff. Wasnt too comfortable with touching her before but its alot easier now, I know going slow with things isnt normally a good idea. But I'm trying to turn this into something more than just a hookup. Had a good vibe going on and I deffinetly could have gone for the kiss close but I pussied out. *Slow boo* Overall though I felt today went really well and we got into some deep conversation while I was teaching her how to skii up hill. Said she had a ton of fun and couldnt wait to do it again. Hopefully next time I dont pussy out again.