I just kissed goodbye with a beautiful girl I didn't know 4 hours ago.
I've been working on pick up on and off since November, but I didn't take it seriously until 3 weeks ago when I got friend-zoned for the 100th time by a girl I was seeing.
I've been working on day game for the last 3 weeks, going out every day. I'm still a beginner, but today was awesome.
I live in Kyoto, Japan, and the chicks here are absolutely amazing.
I went out 19.00 pm and hit the streets of central Kyoto. I really had a great energy going, as I'd been doing lots of visual training before I went out, so after a couple of approaches things started to go smooth. However, I went indirect all the time (as I've had very bad experiences with direct day game in Japan before), so I failed at transitioning from time to time.
After a while, I lost my energy and was about to go home. But then I saw three girls standing outside a restaurant near the train station, looking at the menu. I though "well... what the heck, what's the worst that could happen" and opened them in English. They responded well, and were actually able to communicate with me in English (rare in Japan!). After a while they started talking to each other in Japanese about some friend of them being late, so I decided then and there to change into Japanese, and gave them a big surprise. One of them got pissed, getting all bitchy about "why didn't you speak to us in Japanese to begin with!? Are trying to pick us up or something!? I hate Playboys like you!!" etc, but she wasn't that hot, so I just focused on the other two. I locked into the hottest one, and asked them all, while having strong eye contact with my target, to come with me to a cool bar. The bitchy one was, well, not very responsive, but the other two went with it, so I dragged all of them into a bar I knew around the block.
But then I realized I'd made a terrible mistake. I had told them a lie while asking them to come along with me. I didn't realize it until afterwards, but when I was on my way to the bar I remembered what I'd said:
"Yeah, I'm meeting a friend of mine at this bar, so join us for some drinks".
"Fuck! I don't know ANYONE at the bar we're going" were the only thoughts going around in my head while trying to act dominant and alpha with the girl group. When I got to the bar, I panicked a little, but all of a sudden a nice idea hit me. I entered the bar and yelled "Jake???? Where are you man!?", went around shaking hands with people I'd never seen (to give the impression that I'd been there before), and when I got back to the girls I just said:
"That jerk stood me up.. Well, Jake's usually like that, he always prioritize hoes before bros... Good you guys came along so that I have someone to talk to!"
I was prepared to get rejected hard. But they somehow bought it! Including the bitchy one!
It probably was a result of me going around being Mr. social in front of them right after entering the bar. I'd NEVER be able to pull of something like that a couple of weeks ago with my terrible AA, but today it worked!
From there on I just talked about crazy stuff, keeping them laughing, while kinoing the target. She showed a bit of resistance in the beginning, but after a while she got very into it and started to react back. The friends took the hint after a while and excused themselves after an hour or so.
When I got her one on one I asked her this question:
"Where do you live?"
"I live ...."
"Is it far?"
"Yeah, well, it's kind of far..."
"Ok, I guess we'll go back to my place then"
grabbed her hand and went out. I was TERRIFIED, my hearts was going crazy, but these Japanese chicks need someone to lead them, so I did that, and it worked!
And then I got the best confidence boost ever - right before we left the bar, one big-ass alpha-style American dude came over to me. I thought he was about to give me trouble or something, because he seemed very serious and a bit angry at first. But then he just grabbed my shoulder, and whispered into my ear:
"Good job man. She's smoking. Do her good, do her hard!"
I tried really hard not to laugh, and when the girl asked me what he said I just went something like: "He just told me what Jake has been up to - and... well, you don't want to know..." with a big smile on my face, making the girl laugh, but inside I felt like a king. Like a baws!
She came with me back home, we started fooling around, but then I met a WALL of resistance. I don't mean "We probably shouldn't be doing this" kind of stuff, but more like "I don't trust you. I bet you sleep with women all the time. I hate guys like you!!!" etc. Like crazy shit...
I just ignored answering back, listened to her, while kinoing her and smiling back. She kept saying these things over and over, and I kept going up the kino ladder like a gentleman, smiling, listening, saying some random jokes from time to time while keeping strong eye contact.
After 45 min. of doing this, I went for the kill. She started moaning like crazy and from there on it was smooth as silk. AND it was my first time - I can't believe my first time was an instant F-close!!
And the sex was actually very good - I lasted long (to my big surprise! I though I was going to be a 30 sec man since I haven't been fapping for weeks to keep my energy-level up!) and she seemed happy.
But to be honest, I just focused on being in the moment, having a good time myself and not caring so much about being good in bed or what-not. This made it a very chill experience, especially in the end when she was on top riding and I was just chilling watching the girl dance on top of mini-me!
Thank you guys for all the help up until now!
I'll keep on improving! Now I just gotta find a way to, well, not getting her attached... But let's worry about that tomorrow
Peace!
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