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Day 91 Tuesday

Pickup wise I have made progress ! Confidence wise too! Lets go chronologically

Sunday

Today I went solo as I couldn't get hold off any of my wings. I noticed it took me a little longer to warm up than usual and I was more aware of what people thought about me.

A few rejections later , I spot a cute girl :

Me - hi , I saw you walk past me and I thought you looked nice
Her- * takes off headphones* sorry ?
Me-what's your name?
Her-my NAME?
Me-yes
After this small talk about where she's from , a little banter. I then straight ask her to go for coffee , she complies. On the way we just have a two conversation really. I so a lot of compliance tests , use sexual in Inuendos successfully (made her blush ! :D ). I do a lot of EC and get her to REALLY open up. She gets used to my kino and I think it's time...

I try to bounce but she says she has to go home ( she's a nanny) and that she is already late. Since the weather was fuarked ( note , it ALWAYS is here !! ) I decided to atleast accompany this woman to her bus stop as its the right thing to do. When we reach the bus stop , first thing's first, I try to number close , she doesn't have a phone but gives me her e-mail since her fb is set on private. We make rough plans to meet the next day.

Since even I was getting cold , I make the initiative to cuddle and we do a nice cuddle in the weather. I melted inside to be honest , it was so nice...

At the end of it , the bus comes and I say " wait , 3 kisses " and go for kissing each check , she's receptive and I try to do the "and one in the middle" trick but she just turns her head smiling and says for me to enjoy my walk.

Honestly I was smiling stupidly and was laughing by myself a day after this. This is what I wanted (and enjoy ) so much- the sweet tender cared of a woman.

Monday

Two things happen today. One funny , the other , not so much.

Funny

As I was walking with my wing , we spot a SUPREMELY hot girl gets out of her cab. Makeup and everything done. You know one if those retardedly hot girl that make you wanna piss your pants just looking at her? Yeah that kind. I open-

Me- hey , I just saw you get out of cab an-
Her-sorry
Me-LLOOL!!!

I really don't know why but I found it so funny that I didn't even get to complete my sentence and she just leaves. As I continue walking I see a FUCKTARD ( I don't usuall swear in this journal but he genuinely is) giving me a funny look like "why would you do that" kind of thing. I honestly wanted to slap he bejesus out of him. She was hot. That's it. Why WOULDN'T I want to approach her ??? It is retarded of people looking down at me for attempting to talk to girls. There's one thing to look and stare but a whole another to look with disgust ( ESPECIALLY another guy) when they should be doing the same or atleast respect those that do. Yeah , me and my wing were cracking up about this for quite a while.

Not funny

I messages the instadate girl with no reply... I ry don't get it , so far we got on the MOST and I genuinely wouldn't even mind just being friends. We are so alike its crazy. Same hobbies , interests and taste in stuff. It's also pretty rare that our sense of humour was almost IDENTICAL. She wasn't a sheep like Swiss girl or an incel like Italian girl either. She genuinely wanted to spent time with me at the time. This did make me kinda sad and mess up my day somewhat.

Tuesday

So today I was served for literally an hour so as I had to jump into my work right after. I meet my wing and some other wings I met a couple days back. It's like I'm building a bro-system of wings here. It's also funny that I seem to have an abundance of men instead of women at the moment LOL !!!
Anyways I do a few blowout sets to warm up. I then spot the most beautiful girl I've ever laid my eyes upon...

Two set Asians

So there was a two-that Asian that walked past us and since their Asian it pretty much goes without saying that I'm forced to approach them. The one on the right is full Japanese and the one on the left is half English half japanese....SHE was literally the most beautiful girl I've ever laid my eyes upon. I open.

Me- hey guys , can I just stop for a second , I'm doing a bet with my friend about where you guys are from. I thought you (points) were DEFINATELY half English half Japanese.
Her-OMG that's exactly right !!!
Me- and you...Japanese??
Her-yeah (flat , bitchface)
Introduces wing and we exchange details and small talk. Japanese girl still has that FUARKING but bitch face on... Eventually she just says sorry we have to go and pisses of with her. Thing is dream girl was very sociable and being open all the way through.

Now she's gone and in the three months I've never seen a girl like her , she was literally perfect visually wise and she had a bright cheerful personality. The only way i can explain her looks is that she looked western and Japanese at the same time...a unique charm. Though this is given since she was both. This is the motivation I need to push myself EVEN further to get that dream girl. I had to leave shortly after this to to to work

Work

Work as quiet as always , I websurf it out as usual. BUT there was a two-set who kept complimenting me. They first ask where I was from and they reply:

"He's got really good genes" (I do look different as to sure I'm from originally)
"He's so cute"
He's adorable"
"I wish my son looked like that"

Thing is I only took the first one as a compliment as the other two just pertain to my boyish looks and doesn't have sex appeal in it. Nevertheless , since they were in their forties I was even more flattered. I mean they've seen thousands of men by now , so they would really have to mean it to say that right ???

They were the feisty type though with lots if banter so I felt myself shying away and them picking up on this and bombarding me with even more compliments.

Later , their was a 4-set I which one of them said "I like your jumper"(it was pink )and looked at me with seductive eyes. I'm not used to girls being SO direct with me and I was still recovering from my las one's chode-fest. I politely compliment her back and basically attempt to do my job as soon as possible as it felt to awkward to be gazed at in that way.

The night ends with me feeling super flattered , but awkward.'i was grinning like an idiot on the way home after this ! :D

Objective wise I'm going to continue to push for kiss closes so ill be more comfortable and more ballsy with it.

Thanks for reading guys :D

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Congrats, every time I read, your getting better and better!

I was reading quite abit of nlp lately and I realize the minds power over your reality. You don't have the full on deal that most hardcore womanizers have, which is usually an ego, not giving two shits, women are just women, Im soo charming and fucking awesome etc

I didn't realize I had this down till recently and can't see why this isn't elaborated on more often. These mindsets are usually achieved by success with women or in life. Often we tend to mimic people of the same mindset (eg Success in life = strong social actions naturally, the mind programs the bod, which in turn is sub communicated to another person)

So when you sub communicate mindsets of the girl being beautiful, it is good but it puts you in a lower place if you know what I mean.

It seems your doing good mostly, your motivated and when that dude gave you a look you were pissed which are both awesome mindsets.

Try this out. Think your fucking awesome. Forget about any girl being too beautiful to approach. If she flakes, she missed out, not the other way around. You are fucking awesome, how many guys can say they've even TRIED to do what you have done. Think of this in context, that person giving you that look is just someone who doesn't understand, who couldn't understand. Is he important in your life? No, then why even care what he looks like

Girls are easy and your the fucking shit! Keep up the good work man :wink:

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Congrats, every time I read, your getting better and better!

I was reading quite abit of nlp lately and I realize the minds power over your reality. You don't have the full on deal that most hardcore womanizers have, which is usually an ego, not giving two shits, women are just women, Im soo charming and fucking awesome etc

I didn't realize I had this down till recently and can't see why this isn't elaborated on more often. These mindsets are usually achieved by success with women or in life. Often we tend to mimic people of the same mindset (eg Success in life = strong social actions naturally, the mind programs the bod, which in turn is sub communicated to another person)

So when you sub communicate mindsets of the girl being beautiful, it is good but it puts you in a lower place if you know what I mean.

It seems your doing good mostly, your motivated and when that dude gave you a look you were pissed which are both awesome mindsets.

Try this out. Think your fucking awesome. Forget about any girl being too beautiful to approach. If she flakes, she missed out, not the other way around. You are fucking awesome, how many guys can say they've even TRIED to do what you have done. Think of this in context, that person giving you that look is just someone who doesn't understand, who couldn't understand. Is he important in your life? No, then why even care what he looks like

Girls are easy and your the fucking shit! Keep up the good work man :wink:
Thanks man , that's an interesting angle your coming from. I would say right now , it's easier to think the girl is beautiful as it isn't dependant on MY state if that makes sense. Whereas if i was to think "im the shit" and "i'm awesome" type of mindset it is dependant on my state.

Thing is i'm not so confident in myself enough to convince myself that and STAY in that mindset. Is there any ways you go about to stay in this mindset?


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My guide to game

I'm going to write exactly what i do , so i can be criticised and see just where i go wrong. Here goes !

Warm-up sets

Usually i just do blowout sets and try to push each warm up as far as possible to open up. I actually do better in my warm-ups if i think about it as i am not aiming to close or get results.

Opening

I usually fully stop them these days and go direct. Either they have a time constraint or-

Mid-game

I would say usually maybe half stop to talk. I gather basic details open endedly and try to be cocky-funny with the info dished out. I focus on tonality and body language in particular. Since i usually speak quite fast i REALLY slow down and try to speak a little lower.

End-game

Usually after some comfort and rapport i number-close. This usually comes after i try to to push for instadate. If successful-

Instadate

Here i try to get her to REALLY open up with EC and kino. Though i haven't been on many of this, usually i push for kiss close , hasn't happened as of yet. Maybe i need to be more leading ?


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it's easier to think the girl is beautiful as it isn't dependant on MY state if that makes sense. Whereas if i was to think "im the shit" and "i'm awesome" type of mindset it is dependant on my state.

Thing is i'm not so confident in myself enough to convince myself that and STAY in that mindset. Is there any ways you go about to stay in this mindset?
Well then take it up to change that confidence. I never realized how strong I was mentally, but there are building blocks in my life that show confidence is not a state, but more of a byproduct. These building blocks require a change in your life.

The obvious ones which are always said(Hope Im not repeating anything)

-working out
-Goals+values
-grooming
-enjoying your life
-friends

etc etc..but where Im going is, you have to become stronger through the life that you want to achieve. Find out what is you want say 10 years from now, it can be a ridiculous goal like I want to become Donald trump or one of the greatest thinkers to ever exist (just examples)

You have to find your passion, your ultimate goals, what do you want in 10 years time? What are your goals, values? How can you achieve this?

Then all it takes is to have that picture of you in 10 years or whatever, maybe successful as fuck. Picture it always, enjoy that moment in your mind as if you've already achieved it.

Then work towards it keeping that picture in mind.

Your confidence will come naturally as you do the things you really want to do, to go to places you really want to go to.

(I saw Vincent tried to explain this concept earlier in your journal - hope this isn't a repeat. But maybe you need to hear it again in a more easy, how do I get there, okay sweet, type of plan).

Now truthfully this won't get you laid alone. But it's the proper foundation NEEDED to get laid, the mindset is more important than technique, fo sure.

To comment on your game. Thats the perfect structure, you don't have any problems technically there. It's being able to act on your logic that seems to be the problem here. Maybe you do have some unattractive qualities or things that are weird(I used to do this random thing where I cross my leg mid leg etc)

(For the issue of flakes, it's more of a selling a product type of deal. Think of when someone sold something to you and you enjoy buying it, that's whole story in it's own. Short answer, aim to connect)

I would say just keep practicing, you will find the answers in time, you got this. I have faith :D

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Some of your goals are a bit vague

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Day 93- Thursday

This day 2 thing happened pickup wise

The naturals

Me and my wings were in a shopping mall sarging and we saw a group of black guys walking around too. We spot a hot group of friends walking together and before we could even make out moves we hear a shout-

"OI , come here"

One of the black guys called them over and gesture with his hands. To my dismay they obeyed like sheep and with a nervous smile and looking as if they were about to go on the first date EVER thy approach the guys. They totally hooked them...

Really I was mind fuarked. The only way I could imagine this being pulled off was due ti how dominant they were being. I was distracted the entire day from this , it was those kind of guys that I lost my first one-itis too( see my first post).

Asian girl

I closed this Asian. She looked like one of those power bitches that gets hit on daily. She's in university , I actually thought she was Malasian or something but she is Chinese. She has legit big ass and Boobs too. I tried to push for an instadate but ultimately it came down to her phone being switched off and since she was waiting for her friends , she had to wait at the meeting location. These things happen I guess. I closed and said I'll seduce her later if I bump into her. She agreed lol.

Right towards the end I see her and I open her again and I see the naturals walk past me and really looking at what I'm doing. I sincerely hoped hey would think about me since they messed up my thought patterns LOL! I tried to push for an instadate but she had Ito somewhere so we ran checked.


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Day 94- Friday

Pickup wise I have improved today! :D

Today I had a job trial for a charity job. Basically I had to open people for 6 hours asking them to donate to the charity whilst holding the bucket out.

Seriously , this was gold. At the end of it , I was literally singing at the top of my voice asking people to donate but I noticed people were trying VERY hard not to be noticed by me as I would open them. Really I think this was the turning point where I began to care less about what people think. I defiantly approached atleast a thousand today and I really just didn't care anymore. I mean what was the word that could happen? Approaching is no big deal at all.

After this I went to the mall with a wing and since I was fearless as hell from the job trial I wanted to try out be concept of polarisation by Simple pickup.

I see an English girl and I can't remember the interaction well but I remember at some point she even said "I dont know if I should stay or go away" in a funny way. I was being myself to the extreme. The weirdest jokes and clownish behaviour was maxed out. I tried to push for instadate but she had to meet her dad so I number close her.

Later I FUARK up the text game with the Asian from last week I closed. Atleast I know where I'm going wrong. Before I would ask for a day and time right off the bat in the first text. Now I'm trying to polarise through text and THEN propose a day 2 when I'm actually free , not planning for like a week later.


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Day 95 -Saturday

Today I meet my wings and we sarge a little. I practise two-setting some more and I'm finally beginning to "get it"

Then , later were in Chinatown and I approach a hot Asian. She time constrained so I number close. After this , an Asian dude comes upto us and he said " I was about to pick up that HB!" I cracked up!! He was using pua chat language in real life!!!!

We bond and stuff and he's hilarious !!! We open a lot of 2-sets and group sets and its really fun! I really had difficulty in this arena but atleast I'm enjoying myself whilst learning!!!

Bars

We try to move onto bars and the first security guard was a total DOUCHEBAG! He didn't even let me in and when I showed ID , looked at it and then just said no... So many guys were just walking through with any hassle and here I was being emasculated by the security. My wings try to help me out but it's no use. We go to be next bar and the security try the same thing again. We manage to convince them and they hesitantly let me in. I really felt annoyed with my baby face here as It caused me all this hassle.

We go in and I really felt scared. This was a world I was not used to and a world i feared. My wings know I've never properly been to a bar before so we don't sarge. Thy buy themselves a drink and me some coke. We just sit and chat...for two hours. Just getting to know each and stuff and helping memadjust to the environment. By the end of it , I reply didn't mind it at all. I liked the music and it set me in a good mood. Drunks weren't all that bad either , just kinda retarded lol.

Later I approach a hen party 9 set ( no I'm not on drugs LOL!). Seriously what happened to my AA?? I opened with

"We'll this doesn't look like a singles night out"

They absolutely ate it up. They were asking me all sorts of questions and tellin me how they were all married. Thing is one of them was really cute but she told me she was 52:shock:. Wow , what is my preferences turning into LOL. I just flirted fr the fun of it anyways.

French two set

I open a two set by joining their picture taking and just flirt right off the bat. One was really cute , the other was quite bad , she was very spotty. But good potential if she uses clearasel! :D the cute one was being cold and stuff so I just kept talking the spotty one. At one point were both making fun of the cute one and she finally opens up. Thy say they are both waitresses from Paris and that I'd get free drinks if I visited them. They ask me good places to hang out. I introduce them to mytwo wings. They were being douchebags and not helping ( I later realized because they said they didn't wanna take the ugly one LOL !!)

Then we reach crossroads , I dot really know where to take them and they wanted to spend the night hanging out with me before we went to Paris in the morning. Then they said they had to go to their hotel hinting tome.In the end my stupid brain messes up. I could've easily just went back to their hotel with them and got laid...lol. These French girls clearly wanted a little adventure before there flight and saw me as an outlet for that. Again...I mess up. My wings also thought it'd be a smart idea to tell me that I could follow them to their hotel AFTERWARDS...damn this is literally like the 10th time I've missed an easy lay.

After awhile it gets late and we number close the Asian pua (LOL!).


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Day 96-Sunday

Today , me and the Chinese wing sarge together, main things that happen are:

Kazakhstan HB 7.5

Ignore where she's from and imagine a Chinese girl. There you go. She looked Chinese but was from there. I research at home and realise Kazakhstan people can have oriental looks of some form. Borat really killed that country LOL! Anyways into the interaction.

I had to neg this girl so hard because she found out she was 21 and 3 years older than me. I say the oldest girl I've ever dated was 29 ( true , Italian HB). She asks why I don't date 16 year olds and I say it's because their far too immature and dumb. I then say "

"Well are you dumb or not?? Cuz that's what this all boils down to".

She immediately began to qualify herself and FINALLY began to open up.'i try to push for an instadate but she's in a hurry and we arrange for sometime next week.

I realise I fuarked up my last 2 number closes. I forgot to call them to meet for today and now I have to wait a whole week and the iron will be cold by then. My text game is t strong enough to hold them for a week and I fear I may get needy as always.

Jeremy Kyle girls

For those of you who don't know , Jeremy Kyle show consists of a bunch of fuarked families who are trying to prove to the lie detector test if they cheated / are the parents of their children. You know the kind where there's 20 year olds with
4 kids and missig half their teeth?Yeah that's I mean.

I spot a half naked HB (or so I thought) at the end of the mall and I sprint like crazy. I reach for her and pant out-

"Hi, I saw you at the other end of the mall and I thought you were really cute"

Instantly I hear a whole bunch of girls cuss the shit out of me , no joke. All sorts of swear words were being throw at me. I take a good look at what I was dealing with and they were... Underage half-naked slags... One of them's accent was so crazy I genuinely didn't understand anything but fuck off LOL! At the time I actually thought they worked at the nearby shop when they were threatening to call security so I ran off getting in as mucj swear words as possible. Yesterday told me not to trust those bishes. I actually saw the girls try to chase me so I wounded up sprinting for real!!!

This sh!t was so crazy , I couldn't even believe it!!! Is it really so bad to compliment a girl??????!?!!! My wing told me afterwards that it looked really brutal.

I felt emasculated. Again. I could t help thinking that surely a MAN wouldn't have reacted in the same way I did. I mean no doubt the law is always on the female's side , and the security was probably a white knight fag so I had to do what I felt was best at the time for my safety.

We change locations to leave the bad vibe and we two-set around. I eventually get back to my fun self. There was this French two-set that I really bonded with. I was polarising to the max and I have her my number at the end. She had no credit and doesn't know her number. We even went on a little quest to find the number from the settings but to no avail. She says she will top uo and text me. We part ways.

We do some more sets until this set

Romanian two-set

We opened the two set and since I opened I chose the hottest girl IMO. She looked seductive and smoked her cigarettes in a disinterested fashion. My wing's one was pretty hot too. She had a model face but was kinda short. Make no mistake though , any given AFC would drool over either of them.

Early on in the set my target was being disinterested so I polarized to The extreme. I said a REALLY bad joke once and she disk respond. Then I took out my ipodtouch and said

"This is so funny I'm gonna write it down so I don't forget it! OMG!!!"

She finally cracked and gave into me. We build comfort , rapport. I negged and bantered here and there. Eventually I began to apply 60 years of challenge stuff. I asked open ended questions and escalated the vibe by closing proximity holding eye contact and sexual visualisation. I talked a whole lot slower and with a deeper voice too. She was eating it up , being sexual , eyes dialing like she was on drugs LOL , showing vulnerability( exposing her neck , upwards , open body language.)

At some point I was jus centimeters away from her lips but her cock-blocking friend interrupted lol. It wasn't so mn cock-blocking , it was just the convo between my wing and her was dying down so she focused on us. The. We just ended up number closing. Well she number closing me and calling to confirm its mine. We make soft plans to hang out and she even wanted to go clubs with me next week!

Me and wing call it a day and its all good! I realized "being the shit" must mean I have to be having fun and really enjoy myself. I must thank Bingoberry for his help. It really has pushed my game to the next level. I mean we even got opened a few times just because of the amount of fun we were radiating. Now I must match my game to actually make use of these opportunities LOL!!!!


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Day 97-99 (Monday to Wednesday) - the cause of my flakes !!

I'm not sure i mention this but I work 12 hour shifts from Monday to Wednesday. I don't do much on my job other than take the occasional phone call. I usually browse the Internet and stuff. But I get bored and eventually wind up mass calling and texting all my numbers and being needy aswell. This is what's being causing my flakes....

I had about 8 solid Lead till Tuesday when I fuarked them up... Oh well , atleast I know now. From now on I'll just leave my phone at home so I so I won't be tempted. Literally I can't believe this , the answer was right infront of my eyes. I also called NikAFC today , we caught up and stuff and he basically got rid of all my limiting beliefs so far LOL! It's one way to read it and its another to hear it from an EXTREMELY chill dude.

He raised an important point too. When I get a number , I should get 10 instead so I won't feel needy. If I was to kiss a girl I should kiss 10. And so on. He kept reminding me of how lucky I was and how I could get laid in the next hour if I wanted to. Main thing he told me was to just go for it and not care about the outcome. Though I heard this of before , his unique insight and way of explaining things genuine my did help.

FUARK IT !! This week I WILL get a kiss close. I really don't know why I keep wasting away these opportunities I'm getting. I mean , from the very first month as an absolute AFC I could've already gotten laid , I need to take risks!!! Since I'm incorporating night game now , it will DEFINATELY happen!!!

Stay tuned for the next few posts guys, this is where the real reports come in!!!! :D


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Wednesday - a natural PUA

Nothing happened today other than I met a natural! I met this dude after his approaches and we spoke for a while. He basically already used to seduce women in social circles and bars. Pickup just widened his net to daygame and club game.

The way he spoke was very interesting too, everything he was saying was just straightforward no-nonsense. He was very humble too , intact he didn't mention any of this until I asked. After our nice convo , I wanted to see this guy operate. We open a two set and he COMPLETELY overtakes the set!!!! Thing is he was being VERY insider verbally but he kept eying them nth up and them as if be wanted to eat his prey on the spot LOL! He had a few dung lines such as-

"Oh , you live there? We're practically neighbors , maybe I could come round to yours and borrow some sugar you know?"

The girls would play along as a joke but the point was though he never EXPRESSED anything , everything was laid out indirectly : the girls knew what he wanted. Eventually the girls got confused as to who he liked since he was flirting with both so they ejected. I asked them about this and he just replied he liked them both and didn't know how to pick!!! LOL. We talk and bro-bonded a little until I had to go to work so we number closed each other (LOL :D).

I guess it will be interesting what happens when I next meet this guy , he'a very unpredictable!

Thanks for reading guys , stay tuned for the next post! :D


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Friday- importance of congruence

Main thing thag happened today was i made a convuemce mistake.

I made a congruency mistake today whilst closing a beautifully boobed 19 year old. It was all friendly and banter by I sent sexual text messages which made her flake even though she wanted to come initially -_-

Lesson Learned

EVERYTHING must be congruent. If I feel shy andI let a girl know , it's never ended badly so this just shows it. If I feel clownish , the. I should be. After the close I should CONTINUE the vibe where I left off. This not only creates familiarity , sometimes it's just shocking to be sexual if she doesn't expect you to be.

After all this , I walked by this club in Travalgar Square


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Saturday- blowouts and escalation fun!

Today I actually wanted to try some night game so I met a wing. This was an awesome day! Awesome post ahead! :D

I don't get to meet my wing so I decide to visit the London lair instead. I've never actually visited these guys before as it didn't fit my schedule. I meet at the location and introduce myself to everyone. There were some easily recognised yourube PUA's aswell here.Everyone's really welcoming and chill so it's all good :D. I should stop name dropping in my journal but there's some very recognisable faces in UK's PUA community here.

A dude who looks VERY similar to chris brown approaches me. Turns out we're the same age and he wanted a sim of same age!!!:D he's a cool dude and after a good conversation we split into our twos.

He has a very similar clownish personality to me so our winging adapted to each other very quickly. We meet some other PUAs on the way to the club and after some introductions , we go on our way.

Basically I think bouncers hate my wing LOL! We've been refused entry to all 3 clubs nearby so we decide to bar/street game. We do maybe 5 warmup a to feel each other's style out and open up and then we head to our first bar.

Bar one

There was only a 3-set here and my wing opened , I made a mistake of leaving the ugly unspoken to , and whilst I was flirting with HB 9 about how too hot I was (LOL) , ugly HB just comes in and says

"No , just no , to whatever you just said"

I suddenly lost my confidence as I still hadn't quite fully worked HB 9 making her side with ugly HB saying "have a goodnight" with a smile that I can ink translate as " goodbye chode". I was seriously irritated by this as this girl was no more than a 2 at best and SHE insults my looks?!?!

We leave the bar and keep the momentum going talking around until we reach bar 2

Bar two

This bar was cool , a big hen party set was there were I basically get trolled (they pretended to be American) and my wing flirts a little with a couple of them and we keep moving to the bar. I spot he opens a two-set and I talk to the other one immediately.

Two set

I can't even remember what I was saying but everything to make her laugh LOL :D. I first came in and introduced myself , then spoke and anything basically with strong bedroom eyes. I also progressively kino'd as I was building rapport. Towards the end I had my arm on her waist and had my face inches away from her whispering into her ear but they had to go home as they lived far away. We greet and we go off for some street game.

The important sets in the night game was

Set 1 ( Swedish set)

We were checking out the bar and we saw a two set seated outside of it waiting. I make a joke about how they are scouting out the bar so they have the courage to go in next week and they feed off the joke. We drag the topic on until we introduce and isolate immediately. I polarize and basically whatever the FUARK I feel like with no filters in my mind and progressively kino (usual strategy). When I notice she hooks I go past social kino and do a waist holding routine I just invented on the spot. I continue polarizing and waist holding until I try to escalate even more.

I sit down on the bench and tell her to sit on my lap and immediately take the focus off sitting on my lap and reframe it as "grandpa has a big story to tell" ( didn't want her to feel slutty infront of her friend ) and it worked like a charm. I was really escalating until I basically could grab her ass and boobs , I was literally going to go in for the kiss in the next 30 seconds but my wing couldn't hold his target's attention properly so his target kept conversing to mine in Swedish , constantly breaking the sexual tension. Eventually they have to go so we let em go.

I must say many people from inside the bar were watching the interaction and I felt kinda baws

Set 2

We were walking in the street and we spot some tourists taking some pics , I instinctively go infront and drag my wing to pose with me for the camera. We go to see how they turn out and I neg their camera skills. They take another and we check and I say that wasn't so hard was it? We introduce and we isolate immediately.

I wanted to test RSD Julien's "manipulative bad boy" style and oh boy...it works. From the very first IOI where she flicks her hair I neg her for copying the Lorial hair product and grab the hair and yank it ( aggressive and a turn on) she looks a little shocked and but her eyes dilate immediately. Then I crack some jokes and then suddenly pin her against the wall. Once again same reaction , but after this , she really began to engage and hook. She constantly wanted to ask me questions to break the sexual tension. Some I answered , some I brushed away. I think I got to grab her waist nicely within a minute or so.At some point I looked I smirked at her with bedroom eyes and say-

Me-You really like to talk alot huh?
Her- Maybe ( the IOS are too much to list at this point LOL. )
Me- I think I'm too bad for you , I don't know if you can handle me...
Her- Maybe I like it this way :D
Me-huh? You like that ?huh? (Up my forehead against her , really seems to turn her)

We keep the emotional roller coaster theory making fun of her and suddenly saying I love you as she's about to get angry. At one point , when she mentioned her university course I jus walked away by she grabbed me laughing saying noooo!

I made a mistake of not escalating on her body properly as I just butt-squeezed her so she backed off a little. I think the recovery was more important as I DIDN'T laugh it off being indifferent but slipped up saying " no no , please come back"

This could still have been recovered but as I was going back to creating emotional roller coaster but I over fuarked it up by appearing far too bi-polar at which point she thought I was crazy for real!!! My wing's target wanted to eject but I quickly spotted it and just shouted

"WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH!!!! None of that over you understand????"

Suddenly a random dude came in and went to my wing's target saying woah woah woah LOL! It seemed like all of central was on my side :D so she just gave up for a few minutes. I CONTINUED being far too bi-polar so I screwed it up.

We do more sets and we gotta go before all the trains go. My wing says I'm much more suited to club game since I kino and escalate alot. He wants to invite me out next week so we number close each other (LOL!). This wing is real cool and we'll be good buddies soon for sure :D.

Thanks for reason guys :D in the coming for weeks my game and this journal should really kick off with more content as I'm basically going for all types of game (day and night game , club and bar) . After reading a few guides I'm also going to try online game again. At the minimum my text game should improve from this so this should be good fun:D!

Afterthoughts

I realized I REALLY enjoyed this bad boy style of game. The girl would get turned on and it's just felt so good to be...bad
Is this style congruent to me? Depends. At the time I was slightly pissed off being told to fuck off by ugly girls after I sincerely was trying to help them get home. After being told I'm UGLY and a TRAMP by a 2/3 out of 10 simply for talking to her friends. Point it , I just didn't feel like being nice so it was congruent to my style. Since the charity job , I'm caring less and less about people who aren't my friend or family. In fact the last week or so just taught to me to never help ANYONE , EVER!


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