Hey guys,
so i come here ocassionally when i really cant find an explanation:

The following happend this week:
Invited a girl over to my house over fb, i knew she liked me, we met a couple of times. that night i f-closed her in the pool. two days later i took her out on a date. after that she took me out on a date. everything went perfect. then she invited me to her summer house over for the weekend. with her parents! i declined and told her that i would take her out on the best dates ever is she stayed.
well she stayed.
the first night we went out clubbing. and thats when things started turning out a bit tricky.

my clubgame was super, high rapport, almost f-closed her again in the middle of the dance floor. however two things are important to note. she had friends with her and i felt like they didnt like me (jealouse, all single girls). Second thing. a friend of her came, who was clearly into her... she even told me that he had a massive crush on her since youth and she dumped him at that time. while telling me this she continued making out with me like she didnt give a f**** he was watching.

Well to cut things short i slept over at her that night. we had breakfest and dinner. and then this friend who had a crush on her was supposed to come over to help her with a present with a common friend. i left when he came.

then i didnt here from here the next day and finally recieved a message: thas she was sorry that she just got in touch with me now, but everything was a bit to much for her. she would be happy to meet up with me. to explain.

the message was equivilant from the tone of her dumping me. i have no clue what happend. we did meet up a lot in that short time since we first met, maybe i was a bit to pushy in seeing here and staying with here... but she was the one inviting me to her summer home.

i responded with: however you like, but you dont have to. regards...

any clue what happend there?

anyone?

I think the first time, she just gave in to the attraction, the second time, she was trying to make the other guy jealous.

I'm guessing you didn't build enough rapport with her to make her see you as a potential mate. Try to build more trust and comfort before you seduce someone.

Oh, and if the friends didn't like you, your clubgame was lacking, clubgame is about the friends first, the girl can wait.

If her friends don't see potential in you, you can be certain she doesn't either.