I am writing all the way from Thailand with a very curious problem. I am young, in high school and

I've been with my girlfriend for about seven months. She is an American model and is 17. It has been passed

the honeymoon phase so we have been arguing a lot. However, I have just proposed to her the idea of spending

the night with each other. We have had sex for about three months now, on a weekly basis, but she is not keen to

spend the night with me. She says that she feels weird about spending the night, but she says doesn't know why.

She tells me her best friend pushes her to do it, but she just can't. It's been plaguing me. She dropped some hints

before that her and I always fight if we don't have sex and that our relationship is built on that. I feel that it is an

incorrect assumption because all couples fight. I feel that she thinks if we ever go into a hotel or a bedroom, sex

MUST happen and if it doesn't the whole night will be ruined. My friend, a PUA, has been telling me to get her

to a hotel and not have sex, to show her that her and I can have fun without sex. Thus, I ask this question, how

do I get her so that she is comfortable with spending the night with me. Do you agree with my PUA friend?

Your follower,

ScarChest

I agree that you should try what your PUA friend said, only if you are somewhat certain that you can MAKE that night be fun. If for some reason you two end up fighting, or that night end up being boring as hell, in her eyes you just be confirming her assumption....

Best of luck man!

thx man. I'll try doing that and get back to u