Ok well I had a thing with a girl for over a month. We would hang out and do things like a couple would but never had a title. She was a virgin (we are both 18) and I am not. The furthest I could get is fingering her so that wasn't bad without a relationship

Things were going great until a few nights ago when her ex texted her that he wanted to get back together with her. She was madly in love with him and he broke her heart back in the fall, perhaps september or august. She told me that she liked me but was confused and overwhelmed with everything from university to family. So I was a bit pushy and we both told each other we liked each other. Then I asked if she wanted to be committed and she wanted some space so I was fine with that (I have an abundance of ladies but really was starting to like this one.)

So after she said she didn't want commitment, I asked her if she wanted to keep seeing each other, she said she needed to think about things and said sorry. I responded with "Don't worry, I am glad we are just friends " She replied with "ok I'm happy"

So from here, I know that she is attracted to me, thus why I put her into a "superficial friendzone" and I figured it would be reverse pysch on her. So I have regained my game before her ex boyfriend messed with my head and game in general on her... This all happened at about 1pm.

Lots of chicks have been hitting on me today on Facebook and Twitter and she obviously sees this. So she has texted me a few things today without my reply of course.

5:30 pm HB9: Was your day good today?
9:45 pm HB9: I've made a big mistake haven't I?

So from here, I LIKE HER, but how do I go from here? I haven't responded at all.

You're fine. Your reverse psyche worked. You're in the driver's seat.

No need to ignore her for too long though. I would reply to her last text as follows: "No, you didn't make a mistake. You're just confused and not sure what you want. Which is okay... Take the time to figure it out." Basically downplay it. Don't give her too much. Eventually she'll start telling you how she feels. Even when she does, you shouldn't mirror back her feelings until you're really convinced she's in the bag. Just give her crumbs. And in the meantime, escalate and try to pop her cherry.

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In regards to this, how should I respond to her, mirroring her feelings is showing that I am not sure what I want, so do the opposite and tell her I want her, or just play it really cool?

No, I said DON'T mirror back her feelings. If she says something like "but I really like you and I want to be with you," then say something like "yeah, but you're confused and you might want to be with your ex so I guess we can hangout and stuff but I'm not convinced about a relationship yet -- maybe with time, who knows."

Basically, if she gives you something, give her something divided by 3 in return -- some crumbs and just a small glimmer of hope. She will keep wanting more, and she will push you to say you like her in return. Don't succumb to the pressure.

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Ok! so keep her guessing for a while until things have settled after a few hangouts, and keep escalating as much as I can sexually! Sounds like a plan, thank you sir.

Yes, exactly.

And needless to say, since you seem ahead of the game, don't ever be the first to discuss your feelings. That's up to her. And it's almost guaranteed she will be the first to make the first moves considering the way she's been texting you. And even when she does, give her back "something" divided by 3.

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Yeah the last week or so I got way to predictable and before she never knew what I was thinking or going to do. I figure that is the best type of game I run based on my personality, so this will help for the future. Thanks mate.