Hey guys,

I haven't spoken to my ex gf barely at all for the last 2 and a half years. We ended on good terms. She was a virgin before me, and to my knowledge, she has only slept with one or two people since our breakup.

I vaguely remember her suggesting something like fuckbuddies, but in a joking way, soon after our breakup, but I declined (I know...)

My question is, how could I get back in contact with her to set up being fuck buddies?

Thanks in advance,
Dbo

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i would contact her and setup a meeting somewhere, talking, hang out, escalate it to sex. And after the fact make the comment "let make this a common thing"

Not sure why you want your ex to be your fuck buddy. There're plenty of other girls for that and I'm damn sure about the thing that you have at least 5 times better chances for it to work out better than with your ex girlfriend.

But anyway if you want it just keep it cool. Krular gave simple but useful advice.

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I've had that, cannot recommend it. Although, in your case, it's been plenty of time since you broke up... Still wouldn't recommend it, you're likely to become stuck in a rut.

i do not recommend it, i did this i broke up with a girl and she started seeing someone else, 3 years later i ran into her she had just broken up with him and moved in with her mother anyway next meeting she came round my house and that night ha the wildest sex ever, sounds good right so we started talking about having sex with no commitment. in the end we have a night of stupidity as shes on the pill so no condom. guess what she got pregnant 2 months later she had a miscarriage, so we had 5 months of no sex at all then we started again condom only, so for six months she would come round and have sex anyways then she came round one day and as i was trying to get some play she declares we cant have sex anymore as someones falling in love and is gonna get hurt and if she gets a boyfriend ill get jealous (not gonna happen)

so guess where ive been put THE FRIEND ZONE....

so now she texts me and calls me all the time and sometimes comes round and guess what we do.... NOTHING she sits here eats my food, watches my tv and i get nothing....

heres my personal favorite thing she says i should be glad shes still in my life....... no i fucking aint.

now i ve become her emotional tampon ruining my sex life

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urm...tell her to fuck off?

To be honest the mistake here wasn't fucking the ex...it was getting her pregnant then continuing to fuck her after a miscarriage.

sadly im too polite to tell her to fuck off. i agree i should have stayed away to begin with, hence my point stay away from exes

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Thanks for the replies guys.

It seems like it's not worth it after some of these horror stories! So I think I will pass on rekindling the old flame this time.

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