I recently moved to a campus school, first weeks were great where all the girls were shy and didn't know anyone, had sick time, now however, I feel that my game has lessened a bit. I feel like I am very bad at social circle game because it is different than meeting a girl from a club and having a ons or day 2 from that point.

I feel as if I am trying to get out of the friend-zone when I am doing social circle game, does anyone have any insights on this?

Really confusing situation as I don't really understand much, sorry to give so little info. I am willing to explain if given specific questions its just such a broad topic hoping there will be some good answers.

All in all, my question is, how do I game in my social-circle(s), both isolation is difficult cause of other friends, and I don't want to ruin my reputation in the long run.

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I understand where you are coming from, I had the same issue. Here is what I have learned

- The only thing that cold approach and social circle game have in common is you. You are still the same cool you, it is just that you express your personality differently. It is ok to go out dressed outrageously and do some crazy risky shit. In social circle this looks fucking weird and you cannot get away with this.

- Be one of them. When you push yourself in cold approach, you expand your views on life so fucking much, and sometimes when you are in social circle, you are temped to "help" them expand their views. Or reveal something that is normal for you, but is outside of their reality. Recently I told my friends that I go out alone and they were freaked out.

- Calibrate and handle the logistics. The gaming part in social circle is in my opinion almost non existent. The conversations are almost lame. But there is always a window of opportunity which you must exploit and push things forward. Here is an example: I was at a friend's party and there were these girls who dance folklor music. After regular chat I ask her to show me some moves and we go from there. The point is even in full crowded environments, with your friends around, you can still create "It's on moment" with a girl. And it takes a second to do this. Next you go with date and regular shit.

- You don't have to deal with bullshit. Cold approach girl can flake on you anytime, and until you sleep with her, you have nothing. And you always have to deal with her tests and shit. With social circle girls, there are no shields, there is just normal conversation. Which can sometimes be a good change.

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You have to create drama.
By this I mean, give girls on campus a full range of emotions. You know how they say be nice to a girl one day, then the second, just treat her like crap. It drives a girl crazy because she doesn't know if you like her or not. You can do the same with any other girl, but if you let them feel curiosity, fascination, connection, indignation, validation, laughter, embarrassment, happiness, sadness, and fear of value loss, then you will have them hooked to you for life. To envoke sadness, tell them a really sad story that just keeps getting worse. For example in the movie snitch that came out (SPOILER ALERT) you keep finding out that the rock son goes to jail, gets beatin up, gets a black eye, then gets another black eye and a busted lip, then has to go to the infermary..

This girl sarah I went with was crying her eyes out be cause she felt in touch with the emotions. To envoke value of loss, just say "you know what, that's it we're done. I never wanna see you again" she'll be like "nooo," but you still talk to her, lol. You're just hitting her on that emotion. Best way to learn more, I would check out RSD Julien' videos on youtube. Good luck!

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