I'm sure it's possible that club girls may be slightly easier to game thanks to alcohol but I'm not a club guy. The clubs in my area are not safe, it doesn't work with my time schedule or lifestyle.

So where should I sarge girls?
I just got back from sarging at the mall, book store and grocery stores. It went really bad guys, it really affects my self-esteem, that I walked away empty handed. I got rejected (which isnt that big a deal but its that I didnt get accepted either) and some girls seen me and possibly laughed about me to each other. I feel unattractive and upset that game works for everyone but me.
I just feel that no matter what I say to girls, I'll come off as weird or unnatractive and it upsets me that my sets never go right... Idk, what I'm doing wrong

P.S. I study A LOT, like everyday for hours. Just letting you guys know I'm not being intellectually lazy.

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it seems that your lacking a little bit of confidence. Here is how your should think, when a girl rejects you its her loss, you are the prize not her. Also you need to be an an alpha male in the way that you talk, act, walk, think, etc... especially when you are trying to pick up girls. there are alot of things to go through as far as being an alpha male goes but i'll give you a few

1. Walk with your head high, be relaxed and swagger a bit (walk like you just finished making out with a supermodel or how guys in movies walk away from an explosion without looking back)

2. when you talk, talk like a man, and like your talking to a long term friend. Don't talk too fast as this conveys nervousness, don't add "right?" or "isn't it?" at the end of your statements for example instead of saying "its a nice day to today isn't it? just say "its a nice day today"

3. When you sit down spead out and seem relaxed, sit down like you would at your house when your watching t.v.

I highly reccomend you get the book How to Become an Alpha Male by John Alexander it is available as both a .pdf, hard copy, and an audio book

Also, say what comes to mind as your opener.
For example, if I see a girl with a bright yellow hoodie, the first thing I say is, "you look like the fucking sun." Why? Because that's the first thing that came to my mind. You want to break past your comfort zone. And yes, you are going to fail, probably a lot more times too. But not many of us on here have started getting numbers and kisses right off the back. It takes time. You want to develop an attractive lifestyle. They say that we are an average of our 5 closest friends. Make your closest friends those getting women. And if a girl doesn't like you, don't give a fuck. Don't worry about the result. Learn from your experiences.

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Be confident man, you'll have good days and bad days.

Learn from every approach, whether good or bad. But go into each approach feeling confident, otherwise girls will sense this. Keep it fun too, you're meant to enjoy picking up chicks!

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I had a friend who wasn't much into clubs, I'm not a huge club guy myself but I do like bars. But one thing we realised over time is that there are other places that are like clubs and offer some of the benefits that clubs offer for picking up chicks (e.g. darkness, loud noises, lots of hormones & endorphins pumping around) we've been fairly successful at the lazer quest and at the all night bowling alley place. Also late night fried chicken shops are a good place to meet club girls without having to go to clubs yourself.

Like a few others have told you...it's ALL about confidence. Failure to exude confidence will result in a lack of success.

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In general, clubs are one of the most difficult locations to pickup chicks by far (but alot of them are usually there to be get LAID), due to their low approach success rate. Women in clubs are very selective and are used to drunk/needy/horny guys approaching them ALL the time- so they give them a hard time and ONLY the guys that manage to pass their 'shit tests' will get anywhere- and believe me they WILL test and test often. Your approach in clubs need to be extremely alpha/confident AND different in order to catch their attention- especially the hottest ones. Your body language needs to convey nothing but confidence AND indifference to them from the beginning to the end and you should NOT be focused on the outcome (non-needy), but just having a good time.

Day game needs to be much more natural than club game, but you also need to be just as confident AND non-needy. I am not really a day game guy myself- it is much more difficult for me (but I have been successful with it), because of where I live, women are very closed-off and suspicious in the daytime and I don't really like it in general. I much prefer club game, because it is much more socially acceptable- day game is not and most women just get 'weirded' out by guys hitting on them in the daytime, especially if they are alone.

Approach girls in more socially acceptable locations- NOT on the street- it is just plain 'creepy'. Some examples of places to approach them: coffee shops, stores, in bars, the gym (low success rate), libraries, at parties/social events or social clubs, but night clubs is where a lot of guys prefer to make the approaches. Put it this way, man...women WANT to be approached by guys who are BOTH confident AND non-needy...they just HATE it when needy/unconfident guys approach them, especially the hotter ones.

Good luck man!!