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when you're talking to a guy, just say:
"yeah girl"
"what's up girl"
"girl i know how you feel"
Those that laugh and play it off like "whats up dude" etc, recognize themselves as a girl to everyone else. So you're basically lowering everyone's value that you say this to! Funny thing is, most guys don't even care that you say it to them. And in the girl's mind she'll remember "he just called him a girl"
a.k.a. cock blocking a.k.a. What jackasses do.
DON'T DO THIS,
EVER
However there are other ways to lower someone's value without being malicious about it. I like to call it a "counter" or "counter attack".
Guy makes a statement intended to lower your value in front of a girl, yet his statement has a structural flaw to it. You counter by pointing out why what he just said is fucking retarded.
e.g. While at a club I'm smoking a cigarette and this guy recognizes me from my ex girlfriend, who's now engaged, that I am still interested in and trying to get over. He mentions he knows me cause I used to date her and we start chatting for a bit and then he keeps bringing her up and keeps talking about her and I say "This is a rather touchy subject for me, I'd rather not think about her right now. Do you still play guitar in that band you were in?" And he ignores the comment about guitar or the band and persists on talking about my ex instead and so I decide I'd rather not converse with this guy and wander off to chat with someone else instead.
Later I'm on the dance floor dancing with this hot chick and it's loads and loads of fun. I wander off and grab a drink and I'm sitting down outside of the dance room and she walks by and sits down next to me and we're chatting for a bit when the guy from before shows up. He's talking to her and consistently keeps saying put downs directed at me... Silly childish things one can ignore [argue with a fool and you make two and all that]. Then he tells her "Careful with this guy, ever topic is a touchy subject to him."
To which I respond "How many topics have you talk to me about in the short period of time you've known me?"
And he says "Just one..."
And I cut him off and say "Well, if you've only spoken to me about ONE topic and have known me for less than an hour how can you validate that EVERY topic is a touchy subject to me rather than you just so happened to talk about ONE specific topic that IS?"
And he had no response to that, just an angry expression while he thought about what to say in response when the girl says, while referring to me "We've been chatting for a while about lots of things, he doesn't appear touchy about any of it."
And the guy got up and stormed off.
He basically set himself up for that shit by being a douche in the first place.
On the other hand, cockblocking is a very ugly practice. DON'T do it. Don't diss other guys. Don't be a douche. Don't ever try to DLV other guys around you without them striking first. It's rude and disgusting.