Met girl online. Text for a month. One phone call. I couldn't meet up earlier due to my schedule.

First "date"/meet: I was late due to reasonable circumstance. Plans changed. Walked, talked, dinner, talked and talked. Hugged on meet and at end. Very light kino.

She asked me to hangout(2 days after first), a movie she wanted to see next week. We text throughout the week. I try to keep it playful with flirting. She called me a "big flirt." (What does that mean?)

Second "date"/hangout: I drive, she navigates. We talk, watch movie, dinner, and talk. Step up the kino. Hand on her back at times and arms around her as we walked at times. She didn't resist but she didn't return it either. She mentioned something about my hand and I grabbed her hand and held it... she left it there for a 2-3 mins and removed her hand. She seemed pretty sleepy too during the car ride back.

I didn't KC. I was a bit sick and didn't want to get her sick. Hugged.

Now before I ask her out again. I want to know how I should proceed. I don't label these as dates and I'm not sure if she thinks they're dates or just hanging out. She doesn't really return kino but she stays close and doesn't resist. That confuses me. I don't need another friend. I plan to step up the kino so she knows my intentions.

What do you guys think?

You know after dates, you can always think of better things that you could've done.

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^^^^ Good reply bro

Anyways, it doesn't really matter if she doesn't reciprocate man. Just hammer at it until she gives. If she is asking you to hangout and talking and accepting kino then she is down. Just up the kino faster. You didn't kiss her cause you were sick? What kind of bullshit excuse is that? If she would've said "Fuck me mister" would you have said "sorry I'm sick" Exactly.

Step up the kino.. Difference between friends and lovers is sex man.. To get there, kino is really important.. She is being receptive?? GREAT! It's your job to kino and not her.. Who is the man? You are the man

Add more kino until the kiss close is totally normal and didn't come out of nowhere.. That's why it's called kino ESCALATION! it's like an escalator.. Makes sense eh? Anyways, if you add up the kino and she backs off.. Stop back to the previous level of escalation and add up the escalation until she gives in.. Don't worry about consequences. If you don't try you will never know. About her calling you a big flirt, that is great.. she sees you a sexual person.

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Thanks guys. I plan to escalate and go for a kiss and see what happens. Possibly step it up to hand holding first and see how she reacts to that. I also want to make it clear that I have no intention on being just friends.

I'm literally pretty sick. I have been coughing for awhile which was a reason I didn't want to meet earlier. I couldn't complete a sentence without coughing. But I just had to meet her. She's a bit different than most girls in responding to my advances/flirting attempts so that confuses me. And her getting sick would only make it worst for me. She also mentioned she really can't afford to get sick.

Ill see her next weekend and hopefully get better by then. I can usually read girls pretty well but this one is confusing so I have to ask the pros thanks again.

Any tips on escalating to something more sexual? Or conversation topics?

Also... if she's friendly to everyone. Then could I be mistaking her friendliness as interest? I do flirt with her... she doesn't seem to "flirt" much but we talk often. I say "flirt" because everyone is different. Seems like she's interested a bit.... but not very? That's my take.