I'll give you all the basics...

The Good:

Single, 26, from Chicago, good job, good taste in women, food, clothes, and as a side gig I own my own record label, was blessed with the gift of gab and I guess you can say I'm artsy, but not like a hippie or a crazed prodigy, more or less I'm musically inclined, and I have an ear to pick shit out here and there...

The Bad:

Gained a ton of weight, started to bald when I was 23, and the last women I was with is prior to the weight gain...I've been too involved with my job and my music, that I haven't had a chance to fully exlpore my true self, or what I could truley be...

I've been with only 6 women from the age of 19...


What got me started on taking up this PUA challenge...

Neil Strauss's "The Game..."

I found this book one day at my current job like a year ago when I was cleaning up getting situated and what not, and well I've read the book 3 times since, but to me it was only entertainment, until one day, I was at social gathering, and I picked up on a PUA's game... Shit was interesting and entertaing as fuck... I mean this kid managed to kiss close, get her number, then I walked in on him and that bird giving him head in the mens bathroom...

This happened two weekends ago, so I dunno, I kinda felt, like I dunno, that should have been me... I was like that once, wild, not boring, not so uptight, getting head from some college bird... But I dunno we'll see for now... I'm here to observe and learn, and when I think I have the jist of it or at least some solid ground, I will hope to help others just like those that are here now, and those that will soon come...

So Whats Really Good People?

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I have a feeling you and me are going to get along very well.

I too am an extreme music enthusiast.
I've got an amazing ear for talent, and I'm very musically inclined.
I was also going to start an independent record label with a few friends.

I later decided against it, couldn't find anybody I trusted enough,
and I'm still in college.....
I suppose I'm a bit afraid going into it with my financial situation.
I decided to lay low for awhile.

I digress.

Weight will only hold you back if you let it.
The game is more in your head than anything.

If you have the "gift of gab", you should catch on quick.
You're a talker, and that seems to be something alot of people lack:
the ability to continue conversing after an opener.

A few quick, hard rules:
* Don't be afraid to be a man. In other words, don't be needy, don't get pushed around, and don't seek approval. You live in your reality, and she can be a part of it if she wants.
* Tease tease tease. Picture how you'd treat your little sister, or a friends little sister, when you were in high school. You knew you were cooler than her, and you knew she knew it too. It should show. Just bust her balls.
* There's no such thing as failure, only feedback.

Welcome to the forum.

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You can learn and learn and learn all you want... but until you go out and use it, it doesn't mean a thing.

Right on!! Got a few Rock N Rollers out there!

I'm a drummer and still keep the chops up by playing locally.

Try this: You're a "Rockstar"! Tell yourself that! Everywhere you go everyone wants to meet you because after all.....You're a Rockstar! Who doesn't want to meet a "Rockstar"?!

Go get em Tiger!

Thank you fellas!!!

I can relate to Elements lack of trust...

Let me tell you buddy, in the music industry you have two types of people, talented people and people who know how to use talent.

I hold high respect for those that play in a band, who play an instrument, and who actually preform live...

I started as a Dj when I was 12 and being a Chicago head as kid, I grew up listening to House, Hip House, and shit loads of R&B... When I was in High school I fell in love with Hip Hop, and well I got more into the production end of it, I did a lil rap here and there, this was a result of my upbringing as far as the neighborhood and the schools I attended. Mostly consisted of Asian and African Americans with a small Jewish community and well my family was the first Mexican family to join this new melting pot of life called Albany Park. From then on as I had my adventures in college, music was great way to attract women and meet women, and well I kinda found myself working harder on my music than actually closing with females... Which was good, because believe it or not a lot of women hung around me because of this so called "passion" I had, which I really did, for some reason if a chick got too close to me, it would bother me...
I dunno how I managed to sleep with 6 women in my short lived college years but it happened, but only due to my music abilities... They didn't really know me, but they did know about what I was doing and how I did what I did...

I have been doing music on an Indie level since I was 18 ventured out to parts of Cali, Florida, New York, and parts of Texas, and believe it or not, I couldn't fathom anything else but music... I guess that was my crack, my drive... All I really know now is my music theory, my history of music, my extensive cd, tape, 12" inch, and mp3 collection, and of course the many failed attempts to pursue this music on a pro level...Either way it has always been my love... This love of mine is what made the last woman I was with leave...Since then I really just stayed in my box, and well at least music is still there with me ya know...Never lets me down, never cheats, never lies, never judges me, doesn't care about what car I drive, or how I dress, or how I look...I think yall get the point...

So why venture here...?

Hmmm...

I really don't feel neglected, I just feel like I haven't given myself a chance really...So what the fuck...Why not venture some where, try something new...

I just study and practice day by day...

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