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PostPosted: Tue Feb 19, 2013 5:26 pm 
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This is excellent advice for PUAs, imho:

http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your ... u_are.html


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2013 9:38 am 
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This is excellent advice for PUAs, imho:

http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your ... u_are.html

Agreed but this isn't exactly news, this has been in and out of science studies since the 70s.

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This is excellent advice for PUAs, imho:

http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your ... u_are.html
That's a terrible advice for PUAs, imho, cause there's nothing worse than seeing a guy strike a fake pose:).

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This is excellent advice for PUAs, imho:

http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your ... u_are.html
That's a terrible advice for PUAs, imho, cause there's nothing worse than seeing a guy strike a fake pose:).
You might be missing the point. It's not about striking a pose when someone is watching, it's about preparation -- and how "power poses" help your inner game.


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This is excellent advice for PUAs, imho:

http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your ... u_are.html
That's a terrible advice for PUAs, imho, cause there's nothing worse than seeing a guy strike a fake pose:).
You might be missing the point. It's not about striking a pose when someone is watching, it's about preparation -- and how "power poses" help your inner game.
I agree with some of your point but it doesn't help your inner game. Your inner game is your self-esteem and self-confidence, I've had good body language way longer than I've had those. That said you need to have good body language to feel more confident, an essential part of gaining self-confidence is actually changing your body language.

A good pose makes you feel more confident but you don't actually have more self-confidence.

Most self-help books will include you fixing your body language, my own confidence program has it as lesson #2, it is essential to gaining self-confidence overall but at the same time it doesn't give you inner game. You'll still have all those underlying issues, self-esteem, self-confidence, inner turmoil doesn't disappear because you straighten up.

Associate you really do have to fake it before you make it... you do have to fake good body language until it is habit, it may take a minute but it is absolutely 100% necessary in pick up. So necessary that I hope that you didn't turn some one off the fact, please stop giving input until you have more experience and knowledge on the topic.

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Danger42 you really do have to fake it before you make it... you do have to fake good body language until it is habit, it may take a minute but it is absolutely 100% necessary in pick up. So necessary that I hope that you didn't turn some one off the fact, please stop giving input until you have more experience and knowledge on the topic.

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Jesus, I was just providing a link that I think has some value. Guess I'll go back to lurker mode. Hope some of you just watch the video and get something out of it.

Vic, you ask me to stop giving input until I have more experience. Weird, that's what I thought the point of forums was. My mistake! Sounds like you're one of those experts in everything. Grats!


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Danger42 you really do have to fake it before you make it... you do have to fake good body language until it is habit, it may take a minute but it is absolutely 100% necessary in pick up. So necessary that I hope that you didn't turn some one off the fact, please stop giving input until you have more experience and knowledge on the topic.

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Jesus, I was just providing a link that I think has some value. Guess I'll go back to lurker mode. Hope some of you just watch the video and get something out of it.

Vic, you ask me to stop giving input until I have more experience. Weird, that's what I thought the point of forums was. My mistake! Sounds like you're one of those experts in everything. Grats!
Actually it wasn't danger I was aiming at lol my bad.... It was the other poster bro sorry my mistake. That last comment was actually suppose to be directed at Associate.

My apologies.

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In that case, I apologize for the misunderstanding. Game on!


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I personally really enjoyed the video. While it has been known that body language affects how others see a person, I haven't come across research that has shown a PHYSIOLOGICAL change from a POSTURE. That is where this research is amazing!

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