Picked up this chick in July. Had another day 2 with her which went fine. But instead of following it up I flaked on her. I just didn't think she was my kind of girl and I never gave her a call.

Two weeks ago, too bored and too horney on a sundaymorning: I called her up out of the blue and made a date. She was quite surprised to hear from me, but I just made some excuses about being busy.

Last Saturday. I picked her up at her place, drove her around the countryside for an hour and then went to my place to have diner. Within minutes we were cuddling and she was grinding her ass into my crotch. Both our bodies were definitely craving for sex.

After 20 minutes of fooling around in the living room, I proceeded to foreplay, no resistance whatsoever. Only when we were both naked, I already sucked her pussy and she is jurking me off:

Me: I want to put it inside you...
Her: Is'nt it a bit too fast?
Me: Horney people like us should live in the moment...
Her: Fuck me, I want to feel you!

And that was the only LMR I got. It was just token resistance extremely minimum. Needless to say, we had sex. I could tell she was very experienced, she did positions I didn't even know existed.

The weird thing was, I was supposed to cook for the both of us, but I got a nosebleed (this happens once in every two years or so, but usually during a date haha) and she did it for me and told me to sit down and relax while she cooked. She didn't talk much and she disliked the food later on. Actually, we never talked much.

Then I took her in the car to take her to some friends. We never spoke much, but she then started asking questions about Valentine's day and how we could go to a movie or have dinner or something.

Now this is the weirdest thing. She has no money. And I mean nothing. Not even to buy shoes and stuff. Now that's okay with me, but she was clearly expecting me to take her out on "treats", i answered we could have dinner at my place and thought I was home safe...

... but then at the end she asks me for money to take the bus to her home later that night and I refused. I told her I didn't like the whole situation. I felt like I was being pushed in some sort of prostitution deal or something.

The next day I spoke to her on the phone briefly. She was with a friend and would call me later on, she sounded neutral. She never called back, I called her about 4 times and left her a text saying i'm sorry (I know it's lame, but I was wondering if I could prove my theory of her looking for a guy to be a caretaker), but to my surprise she completely flaked!

Now weighing in the pro's and cons of this girl, I'm glad its over and I ve got a new date lining up for next weekend, but I really don't have a clue how to turn easy girls like this into willing fuckbuddies without the fuss of her problems.

Any advice guys?

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Get a clue! She threw the pussy at you because she thought you would help a chick out (financially). You showed her your balls and said no and she got pissed. Probably griped and bitched to her friends at home mean and cheap you are to not even give her bus fare (she thought you were going to throw her a $20, and would have been mad with anything less than $10, but the fact that she didn't even get the $2 the bus costs probably fueled the fodder). She's NOT an easy lay. She's a pricey lay. And there's no telling when she'd cut you off to string you along. If she kept spreading it, it'd be too easy so she'll wean you off then keep you hungry. Listen, you got what you wanted, on to the next one.

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Let me get this straight.
1. You drove her around the countryside - $0
2. You had dinner at your place (SHE COOKED, you do nothing) - $0
3. You fucked at your place - $0

Then she asked for 10$ to get the bus and you got pissed? You, sir, are the cheapest douche I have ever met. Even fuck buddies help each other out and give each other treats from time to time. You treat her like a piece of FREE meat and you wonder what went wrong? Easy or not, and believe it or not, these women are still human with emotions, you don't have to be nice, but you can't treat them like craps and expect them to put you on a pedestal later on. There is a fine line between an alpha male and a douche.

Cost to fuck a decent chick - a bus fare.
Cost to fix your terrible stingy personality - PRICELESS!

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A bus fare here costs $2. Are you really that cheap? Even if you never wanted to see her again it is the humane thing to do to help her out. Ive had a girl joke about feeling like an escort when paying for things after sex and it was simply a way to tease. Dont take buying girls things so literal ..

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Fucking amog! This is an example of wildlife trying to become a pua. You have got a lot to learn buddy. Try being nice to girls instead of being a useless dildo.

no offence but your a cheap fucking cunt basterd. She fucks you and asks for money for the bus and you cant give it to her? If i was there i would of knocked you the fuck out seriously.

And taking her for treats (like a date) and u say she trying to get money from you? wow, cheapest basterd ever

your a cheap fucking cocksucker who cant help a girl after she opens up to u. I can understand if she asked for you to buy her 600$ shoes that would be a no, but a busride and a date to the cinema is a fucking must after she trusts you enough to have sex.

sorry for all the cussing but i feel really bad for the girl