This is an odd sticking point, I admit.

I'm reasonably new to the game, but I'm feeling pretty confidant, I've gotten over approach anxiety and in 4 days in Hamburg went of 6 dates with women. My issue is that these women are "falling for me" and I don't mean onto my bed, they have developed a romantic interest. I'm sure we all have a sort of code of conduct to some degree, and I don't believe it's right to say "yeah be my girlfriend, bang her, and dump". As a result, I'm at a loss here.

My theory is that as I am younger, my age range for dating is reasonably 16-20. As a result, the girls confuse feelings of lust with love, and immediately develop strong feelings of emotional connection due to immaturity.

I am kino-ing, and making eye-contact escalation (works wonders), along with playful negs and a casual disinterest but I'm really at a loss.

Tell them you aren't interested in anything serious. This puts you out of the wrong if you DO in fact sleep with them.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Yea, man you got to get that under control right away. You don't want women stalkers. Tell them up front. Sounds like you have what they call a 'high value problem'. You are almost doing too good.

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What you sow is what you reap

The issue is that women want that thought that there's a relationship being built. It's like a strip club, strippers would make less money if before a lap dance they said "I'm just here because you have money, and there's no chance you'll be getting my number", people like the fantasy of something more.

I actually have a similar problem here to be honest except my girls all range from 18-24. At this point I haven't managed to nip this problem and it DOES result in stalkers. I've learned to de with them though. Usually ignoring them with a large explanation after a week about how you can't deal with a relationship right now and if we hang out its just as friends blah blah. I normally get a response like 'let's restart our friendship' and then they dissapeared! It's nice and simple.

I work with a lot of women and get to bounce ideas if them sometimes. They say the first thing they hate and that turns them off a guy is saying 'I'm not looking for anything serious!' And they have even walked off on dates when a guy has said that. It's hit and miss. Pre-game I said that to a girl and we dated for a year.

Phrasing and delivery is key here. How do you deliver it Fly Swatter?

I had this problem before (and lots of stalkers). This used to be my sticking point but it's no longer a problem. The best way to address this is with a proper Exit Strategy. You don't have to lie or say you love them too. Since girls too often confuse lust with love, you're actually doing them a favor when you bang them.

So your Exit Strategy is to make them fall out of 'love'. How? Do the opposite of attracting them.

For instance, instead of giving them the eyefuck, look down and act non-dominant. Brag. Be needy. Be a super ultra-AFC. They're gone in no time. Of course, since they had great sex with you (make sure you give these girls the greatest sex ever), they'll always come back for more great sex. You'll just be a sex object and not a boyfriend material anymore.

However, the one girl who sticks with you through thick or thin (when you're alpha and when you're ultra AFC) not just for sex, then that's your 'true love'. Take care of her. Those girls come rarely. Make sure that 'one' girl didn't have a boyfriend or husband when you had sex the first time. When they're super hot about you, girls will lie about having husbands/boyfriends just so you can bang them. These types are not the 'one.' Just saying.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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My problem with this part is reputation factor. I guess that's an inner game issue

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