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| dgamer1 | PostPosted: Tue Feb 19, 2013 9:39 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Feb 19, 2013 9:21 pm Posts: 2 | | Hello,
My name is dgamer and I have been in the PUA game on and off for about a year. Mostly reading posts on here, trying out simple direct gaming strategies, and watching videos on it. I currently go to school and work full time. This comes out to be about 63 hours a week of work time. This leaves little time for me to go about sarging and such. This turned me to a method I never tried, online sarging. I am making this journal for other PUAs to possibly show me what I could do better as I learn how to do better both Online and in the field with the HBs. Here is day 1:
First I signed up for two services, Myyearbook and Hot or Not. I chose these two because the users were closest to my age (18). I populated both of my profiles with pictures and information(factual). I then played some of the matching and rating games on both for a bit just to gain popularity on both services. The services I chose are a cross between social networking and online dating services, so the more popular I am (even if it is barely any popularity) the better. Also, I gain more contacts to talk to (HBs).
Here is what I have done so far on the sarging side.
Myyearbook:
HB8: "So you're very attractive, but what's your personality like?" (No information on her page past photos and age)
HB7: "You're pretty, but what do you like to do?" (Same situation as above)
Hot or Not:
HB7: "Cute, enjoys good music, and had a shark for a pet....I'd say you have me interested. What's your favorite band?" (Profile showed she was very much so into metal which works out because I play in a metal band that plays show regularly)
This is all I've done so far today, I have some work to do now. Thanks to anyone who posts on here and give me pointers!
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| dgamer1 | PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2013 3:34 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Feb 19, 2013 9:21 pm Posts: 2 | | Day 2: So I did some more work on the online sarging. I've basically given up on hot or not because it is really not user friendly unless you pay. Now I'll focus on meetme. I pretty much send a quick message to HBs that live closer than 20 miles. That is as far as I'm willing to go if things escalate to a meet up. Here are a couple of examples from what I've been sending HBs on meetup.
"So you're super attractive, but tell me, why should someone go out with you?"
"You're beautiful, but what's you personality like"
I usually stick to openers I've found on this forum that have been stickied and then change them for the situation. The ones above are the ones I use for girls who just don't seem to put much on their profile for me to go on. I improvise a bit for ones that do such as:
"Cute and listens to metal. Fantastic! You ever go to shows."
A couple of girls who posted on their profile that they like marijuana a lot I was able to get a conversation going with them. Some flirting but nothing out of the ordinary to mention. I'd usually end the conversation with giving them my number and telling them something like:
"Since you're interested, here is my number ###-###-####"
Anyway, I'm starting to get a little better at picking out HBs to try and game for a bit. It's only been 24 hours since I started this little experiment/program so no meet ups yet...
My current concerns are that for fake profiles. These are always going to be there. The way I've decided to deal with this danger is to do nothing beyond flirting online(no erotic dirty talk or nudes) and wait til I can meet them in person before I let things escalate further. This mainly protects me from creeps/extortion(been known to happen)/police(I'm 18 so technically 16 years olds are legal but I'm not gonna chance it).
Thanks ahead of time for reading my progress and for any tips. Cheers!
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| Irishweaver | PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2013 7:08 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Oct 19, 2012 1:40 pm Posts: 52 | | -Get her number, stop giving out yours. That way you're the one in control of the interaction.
-16 Years old are not allowed on most dating websites, so you're okay in that department. Unless she appears to be lying about her age, you're pretty safe, and can always plead that she was dissimulating it (and you'll have paper record).
-I wouldn't send nudes or ask for them, but a bit of dirty talk/talking about sex goes a long way, at the right moment of course.
-Try (I know it's hard) to veer the interaction towards a discussion rather than an interview. The best is to exchange a few messages on the site and them move towards IM, text or Facebook. It allows for a more organic conversation, and you'll both be making statements and discussing them, instead of asking questions.
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| callmered | PostPosted: Wed Feb 20, 2013 7:31 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Dec 09, 2012 9:01 pm Posts: 21 | | I'm using meetme/myyearbook also so I went ahead and subscribed to this thread. I'm curious to hear about your experiences.
As Irishweaver pointed out, I wouldn't give out your number like that. Most pua's tell or ask HB's to give their number.
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