Guys,

This is kinda embarrassing to talk about, but fuck it, here goes!

Basically, I just started seeing (and banging) this new girl. It's all good apart from one fairly major thing : Even when we're screwing and I'm hard and fully inside her, I just can't cum!

I think this is purely psychological because :

1 .When I "fly solo", everything goes as it should
2. I'm very sexually inexperienced
3. I have a physical disability. Even though I personally am 100% fine with this, and feel good about myself, I think it plays on my mind in the bedroom! Certain positions I can't do etc, so this is both frustrating for me & shitty for her! This girl has been REALLY kind & SUPER understanding about everything. But I think the longer it goes on, she'll eventually get bored/frustrated & look elsewhere...

I should point out that although I can't finish at the moment, I've made her come more than once, so I guess it's not ALL bad! Haha!

p.s. Should I cut down on the old "flying solo"? Haha!

Cheers for any advice fellas!

Hey, don't worry about it. We're not here to judge.

If I had to put money on it, I'd say it's linked to anxiety. Whether that anxiety has to do with your lack of experience, your handicap, or a combination of the two, I don't know, but I'd definitely point to that as the root of the problem. If you can "fly solo" without any trouble, then it's the presence of the girl that's triggering the problem, unless it's something physical that's making you uncomfortable, like a condom or something.

I think you should research anxiety and how to deal with it. I'm no psychologist, but based on my limited experience, that's what I think is causing the problem.

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MrGiggles

Thanks for your reply. Your advice was very helpful! Much appreciated!