So I work with this girl. I don't normally shit where I eat but I never work the same shift with her and I'm quitting soon so idc if things get awkward. Anyway I covered someone's shift and ended up with her and she showed pretty strong signals that she was into me (such as "I'm so excited we finally get to work together!" and "Invite me to parties I need more friends!"). So a week later I took her to a club, it was a big group of my friends and I invited her literally 20 minutes before we left and she came along lol.

We get there and she gets super sloppy drunk and we dance for 20 minutes or so. Normally I make out after the first couple minutes dancing with a girl but whenever I spun her around to dance facing me she felt hesitant and wanted to spin back and grind her ass on my dick. I was gonna take her home that night but she ended up going to the bathroom, got kicked out for being too drunk, then took a cab home (I was unaware of all this as I joined my friends and she said she was gonna come back; everytime she went to the bathroom she came immediately back to join me). This was 3 days ago, she called me the next day to tell me she doesn't normally get like that and apologized and all that.

Anyway I havent been in too many relationships. I'm actually ready to settle down for a relationship (or at least fwb if she's down). So what should my next step be? Should I call (or text, what's better now? I used to only call but now ppl tell me to text) and ask her to dinner and then try to kiss close at the end? Or how should I go about doing this. Like I said I don't have too much experience and would like some input. Thanks!

Call or text. I wouldn't do dinner just yet as that's kinda high pressure. I'd ask her out for some coffee or maybe some lunch. Something casual to start out with.

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Yep. If the girls drinks, I like to meet her for a beer. Not as casual as coffee but not as high pressure as dinner, very laidback.

Also, don't kiss her at the end of the date. Kiss her before that (assuming she's showing she wants it) so you can use the rest of the date to establish yourself as a sexual person in her mind and not just some cool guy who kissed her at the end of the date (not saying thats what will happen if you kiss her @ the end, but doing it before relieves a lot of the pressure and is all around a better idea IMHO).

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