Lately I have been playing around with eye contact. There have been a couple of women I feel like I had eye sex with. I have not taken it to the next level and spoke to them.

At the coffee shop the other day, I saw a women walk in and I held my gaze at her. I couldn't see if she was looking back with her eyes as the sun was to her back. I saw her again in the parking lot and we held gaze with each other until she broke into a smile. She drove off right after I smiled back. Heck, I was walking through a mall the other day and I walked by three young black women and looked at the one closest to me through my sun glasses with my head turned her way and she just came out and said hi. I didn't know how to react and just kept walking. At the time, I justified it in my mind by thinking I wasn't all that attracted to her. Another woman and I just kept looking at each, I looked away to load something in my car and then looked back at her and we held gaze upon one another until I just got in my car to drive off. She was sitting in a car with the window up. I realize I should have just gone up to her window and said hi, but I realize that I still have some approach anxiety that comes out in me making excuses for it not being the right situation.

On the flip side I have now spoken to several woman cold on the street, this is something I have never done before. I have always gotten my dates/girlfriends and f-buddies through my circle or online. It is exhilarating to play this eye game and look for cold approaches.

I've experimented a bit with eye-contact and it seems to get pretty good results. I can't remember if I read it online or just thought of it but I always think of how some animals will look at each other until one breaks eye-contact; the one who breaks contact is inferior. Sometimes I get nervous, especially if the girl is really hot, but I just keep thinking of how an animal would show that it is the alpha male and force myself to keep eye-contact. I guess it does take some practice to not look like a creep though.

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^Hmmm, I like that philosophy in regards to animals. Not saying that's the case here but it's a good way to help stand your ground from shying away.

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i think people should try this. it helps break aa and over come what ever is bothering you. HOLD THE LINE and not be defeated by your gaze.

If you are really good in connecting to woman through eye-contact, you could try to write her a funny note.

Walk up to her confident and with a lot of sexual energy. Connect to her, repeat in your head "you are my girl, I will seduce you". You communicate what you think!!

Then take her hand and give her this note.

"Would you dare to go for tea with a funny guy like me?

YES / NO

If yes, please write down your name and number below. "

Then walk away and make sure she can find you (only do this in the train, in the starbucks or library whatever...!)

Mysterious approach without any words!!! It does need a lot of preparation and strong body awareness though!

When a woman makes and keeps eye contact with you it means "Hi I'm interested in you but it's the mans job to start the conversation" It's a big flashing neon IOI....with bells on. When you walked by these girls probably said "fuck" under their breath. Meanwhile these girls are posting on some girly forum something along the lines of "this handsome guy made full eyecontact with me at the mall today and when I kept his gaze he just walked on by, is there something wrong with me?"

I strongly agree with Melodical. Far away eye-contact you should keep ALWAYS until she looks away. Then you go on about your business, she will look back very soon after - if you are still staring - THEN you are creepy and will creep her out. If not, then there was that moment that you hit her with. Eventually I would open with something subtle, or even the "man you must be shy, I was sitting/over there for at least 5 minutes and you never came to say hi."

If you have close proximity with a girl, staring into her "left" (your right) eye gives a sense that you are staring into her "soul" which to women, is always sexy.

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