Hi friends,

a couple of months ago I met a girl from my faculty, we had some short chats but nothing more, I had seen her holding hands with a dude so I didn't invite her out or anything. Last week I met her in a party, she came to talk to me, she was alone there and I was with a friend, we stayed in the bar a couple of hours talking. She told me she had arguments with her bf and she was living with her sister after he kicked her out. I did some kino, and around 3 the party was finishing we invited her to my friends home for a late drink. My apartment is close to his so after that she came to my home where we had sex. During sex she wasn't talking at all, but was fucking like an animal

After that, she put on her clothes and told me that we should keep this a secret and pretend that nothing happened in front of others. I said no prob, a couple of days later I wrote her "hi, how are you?" she replied with just a "good". I saw her a couple of times but she was with her friends so I couldn't talk to her, I wrote her again if she has time to meet again and didn't get any reply...

Do you think there is a chance to hook up with her again? Is there anything I could do? In fb her status is still "in relationship"

In my opinion, I think it was more of just a one night type of thing. She was probably so fustrated and narrow minded that she didnt really care what she did. So when you started comforting her and giving her attention she probably decided to burn off some steam and fuck your brains out. She is probably still hoping to be with her bf. If she needs you she will reach out....maybe. Again im not a master so if anybody else has any thoughts please share.

you are right, I wrote her again, and didn't get any reply again, so I don't have any reason to contact her anymore.

Call her a slut ... then say that you hate her for using you ... say you felt a genuine connection and thought that she was being real. Then call her a fake. Then ask to met up again to discuss ... During the met up apologize and that you were caught up in the moment ...

Then when you met up with her go say you guys should fuck one last time. A last horrah ... Tell her that you guys should fuck one more time for her boy friend and to save her relationship.

Ku Ku Ku .... this has been done before ... mine as well burn it to the ground if nothing will happen anyways.

Girls love drama ... so make sure you really sell it.

interesting, but how do I reason to her that having sex with me is gonna save her relationship??

Offer her the fairly tale. Totally cheesy it up by saying, "I've meet many girls in my life. But, with you I feel totally different. I've never felt this before with anybody else. It's like I have this special connection with you. I know it's totally wrong and we should probably stop since you are in a relationship.

This may sound totally ridiculous if you film this and watch it. It will come out as one of those chessy drama episodes. But at the moment, to the girl, you are offering her that movie. That movie of having a second lover. It's like you give her that fantasy for that night. The fantasy the girls dream of experiencing. You giving her the absolute full range of emotions. That "I love you" ... "I hate you" ... emotions. These emotions are like drugs to girls. So give her these emotions and say.

When you isolate her say,

"This is so wrong girl. I can't believe what we have. How could you even have a boy friend and how could you do this to me? But, you know what we need? We need closure. We can't do this anymore. You know what you need? You need to forget about me. It's unfair for your boyfriend for you to be still thinking about me. It's unfair to go back to him and still be thinking about me. We need to end this. We need the Last Good bye. You know what we should do? We should sleep together so you can forget me."

Boom ... Drama!

^This. Drop it and move on.

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yeah, I'm not gonna try to contact her anymore, I wrote her 3 times and didn't get any reply. Only If I meet her on the street or if she decides to contact me.