Try not to think about him Korey. Keep yourself distracted. And I have that same exact problem with my boyfriend. Maybe you should just end it with him and focus on yourself for a while. That's what I need to do. But let him down easy and tell him that you can't handle a relationship right now. He might understand.

9:43am
Korey
see, that's what everyone says. don't think about him. but thaaat's the problem. i caaaan't just stop thinking about him, i've tried for 8 months now. cause i am so used to him. i won't ever go back, but it sucks that no matter how shitty he treated me, i'll always love the guy. & i know, i tried breaking up with him like 3 days ago but i guess that didn't end up working lol. he's more emotional than i am, like emily he fucking cries like a little bitch. it's so awkward, and hilarious at the same time. poor guy doesn't even know what's coming

9:56am
Emily
Well maybe you need someone else to talk your mind off of him. And that's exactly how lukas is I tried breaking up with him on tuesday and then he cried so I felt bad and said we could work things out. But I really don't want to. Since when did guys get so damn emotional?:p what does joseph cry about?


Emily is my girlfriend and korey is her friend, we kinda broke up Tuesday and I found this in her messages. When we broke up, I wasn't the one begging her to call me, it was the other way around. How should I react to this? End it? The bold part is a lie.

Our convo; I know it's my decision. I'm tired of you suggesting we break up so we might as well. < her
me; Okay. And i've said that one other time, and i say that because you make me feel like you want to. Which you do. So okay.
Her: Just call me at 5.
Her: Once is more than enough. And if I wanted to break up with you, I would. Like I just did.
Me: Okay. And okay then. I get it.
Her: I still want you to call me ( around 5:20ish)
Her: Please, I just need to hear your voice.
Her: Lukas, I don't want to break up. Just call me back damnit.
She called like 3 times I didn't answer then called her at like 730ish and talk about it.

Girls love drama!

Freeze her ass out! Talk to other girls.

You did well up to that last part!

Why give a fuck, you have lots of other options. Let her be aware of that.
Tell her it's no big deal she's a horrible kisser anyway!

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So end it? We've been dating for 4 months and I feel bad because her dad just got cancer.

i didn't say end it, I said freeze her out! Ignore her and blow her off when she acts like a douche, reward her when she starts kissing YOUR ass! If she ends it because you start acting like a man, that's on HER!

Her father having cancer has nothing to do with you. Let her know her spoiled child behavior is not acceptable, you don't play to her shit tests!

When you ignored her look how well it worked.

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How long should I freeze her out? And should I make it aware to her that I know about the messages?

The length of a freeze out is relative to the situation. By your post I'm guessing your both young? And the short term you have been "a couple" suggests that you text and talk often?

Start with 24-48 hrs see if she starts getting a little crazy.

If she still acts like that ....longer!

Be in control, every time she can't reach you she should be wondering if she will ever see you again. She should be wondering how much you like her. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.

The more time she sits around wondering what you’re doing… the more she begins to convince herself she is in love with you.

As far as the messages go, who fucking cares? That's girl bullshit! why would you let that effect you?

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Alright I'll freeze her out all weekend. My main problem is we are both still in highschool, and go to the same school. Should I freeze her out at school too? She's new so she doesn't have a lot of friends yet and would definitely say something.

If you gonna spy, dont ever get caught, and never let a girl know what you know...Its your edge. So you shouldnt ever let her know u have seen the messages. But hey thats just me, and im sneaky like that, you can do it your way...

Too who? You? So, you were busy, the dog ate your reply button, your parents grounded you making out with your sister's friends.

Other girls at school? So, other girls find out your a bad-ass, mysterious and won't tolerate school girl drama! Gee how horrible!

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What happens if she doesn't contact me at all during the freeze out?

Easy make it longer, and move on in the meantime, there are lots more!

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Okay she's called twice and I've gotten 3 messages since my last reply, should I still continue with it?

What did the messages say? Desperateness implied?

It seems to be working huh?

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Yeah the replies were pretty desperate like, so I replied completely ignoring the fact that I had been freezing her out with a picture of me with my haircut asking how her day was. Her reply "Great considering I spent all day yesterday and the night before worried about you." Not sure what to say to that.

Ignore it completely change the subject