You never actually did though.... Don't you get it? You probably do quite well with redheads because they are the women you are least attract to.

Paramount it's all over your words, in your mindset. If I was to go play poker and thought fuck I can't beat this guy, he is too good for me, I'll never beat him and I'll play poker poorly because of mind set. Now I said this about poker, but this happens when I play pool, game girls, or anything else. Your mind is a special feature in your life, it will define your reality, in your case you thought blondes were harder to get, so they became harder to get.

Your problem was very basic and yet you didn't understand that, you created your own issue then refused to own up to it. Get the fuck over it bro, your mindset fucked you, anyone with a lot of experience at doing anything could tell you that.

Blondes are a dime a dozen and honestly any girl who changes their aesthetics is usually a fuck load easier to have sex with, yet here you are bitching about them... some culture changes exist but nothing big enough for you to game a hair color differently. It really says a lot about your game and neediness, it's equally hard(actually easy) to get any type of woman, once you treat one differently you make it easier or harder, but that is on you not them.

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Dude you are probably White so you get them by default.

There is your reality and then there is actual reality. Actual reality is that blonde women are the TOUGHEST to get, especially if you are a Brown or Asian guy in a lot of cases. I mean come on, when was the last time you saw (if ever) a guy who is Brown with a beautiful blonde girl or even a blonde girl period? I have never seen it outside of myself. Blonde women being tough for me to get just confirms the reality, it isn't about mindset. You can convince yourself you won't struggle with any kind of women until you get hit dead in the face by the reality of it. The reality has hit me in the face often.

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If memory serves me correctly he is indian, I've seen tons of blonde women with brown guys and asian guys.

I've banged several blonde girls, shit isn't harder, in my experiences blondes are super easy. Blonde women aren't any harder to get.... No doubt in my mind this is a false conception.

You live in a low blonde per capita area, go out and pay attention it happens all the time. Don't support the bull shit thought the blondes are harder it simply isn't true. Fuck I've had blondes bring me valentines day chocolates when I worked valentines day and I wasn't even dating them, hell I wasn't even into game at that point.

If you said dyed blonde hair(a physical trait women went out of their way to gain) in your geography seems more difficult I could understand that but hair color has shit to do with it.

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Homie...Im half black half puerto rican. Im as coffee colored as they come.

heres my type...an HB!

she could be Latina, Asian, Black, Redheaded, Greenheaded...Blonde! It doesn't fucking matter!
My game is tight and Im only interested in seeing how much fun she makes me have in the process of gaming her, I could number close right in front of my blonde target and still manage to seal that close with her.

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Dude, here is my experience. Black women, Redheads, and Brown girls are the only ones that are overwhelmingly nice to me. I have rarely met those nice blondes you guys have, most of the ones I have known in real life were FAR from that. Again, location matters I guess. The area I am in has a lot of British and Irish descendants so natural blondes aren't really that common but I am going by my experiences based on childhood to now, I have never really had success with blonde girls until recently.

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Paramount - people have given you a reason for that. Which do you think is the most likely; that all blonde girls are harder to get than girls with other hair colours, or that you have created such an illusion in your own head and therefore make it harder for yourself.

You probably had a few negative efforts with a couple of blondes and so created this image, then continued to have negative efforts with blondes because you decided that they are all very hard to get with.

If you do not wish to change your mindset and start getting more success with women, then fine. But to continue saying that blonde girls are "harder" to get is just pure wrong. They're not. They only are if you make them harder to get. SOME blonde girls will be harder to get than SOME brunette girls, yes, true. But then SOME brunette girls will be harder to get than SOME blonde girls as well.

What you choose to believe is entirely up to you. Continue to think they're harder and get no success with them. Or start to believe that they're just the same as other girls. It's of no consequence to me, it leaves more blondes for me!

Dude, I am not going to ignore going after blondes. Thing is, I have just realized something that is true for me. Growing up from Middle school to now I never really placed women in categories, heck, I never even knew what a blonde was until I turned 14 or so. I have just realized that from being a little kid to being me right now, blonde women have just had the history of being tough for me to get. It was after high school when I realized this and in college it became magnified as I have bad experience after bad experience and then I developed this mindset. Yet I do agree, part of my original post was to show how improving my mindset and not putting them on the pedestal has helped me.

Also, I have never really seen Brown men - Blonde women couples in real life before and I go to a school that has both. Then again, I have never really seen blondes here date minorities in general and I go out A LOT.

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All of these opinions about hair characteristics (color) not having an effect on your sarges are bullshit. I'll have to concede though that your mindset can affect your sarges in a major way.

Here's the study on why blonde women, generally speaking, are more difficult to sarge than other women with different hair color: http://link.springer.com/article/10.100 ... 012-0158-6

This is like fighting a Juijitsu practitioner who practiced everyday for 5 years versus fighting someone who just watched Juijitsu on YouTube for 5 years and still has to practice one technique.

To even the playing field though, you'll have to get more practice sarging blondes so you can nail a woman who's used to being blonde for the rest of her life (18 years at the very least). If you can nail one after 6 months or 1 year of daily field sarges then you're good.

Let's put things in the proper perspective. This isn't a simple "grab your balls with both of your hands and slam them on the table" scenario. You'll have to change your mindset and practice everyday so (natural) blondes are easier to nail.

It's called genetic selection dudes. Get over it.

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Yeah but where was the study? You go to some areas blond isn't so special, here in Utah and blonde isn't so special. Your point would be true if the study took place all over the world but I find it hard to believe that is true. Of course in countries where blonde is special they are going to get more appreciation. You base a lot of your work on science don't stop now with a study that is based in one area. Geography is important as it is what may add or detract value.


Your game should always be reactionary anyways, you should be a responsive male as all women aren't the same regardless of hair color.

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Again, this mentality that all women are same regardless of ethnicity or hair color is wrong. People do not even know how easy Black women and Indian women are for me, like I hardly have to try with those two races at all. All I have to do is say yes but generally I am not into Black women and there aren't that many Indian girls in my area. Redheads are easy for me to but I need just a drop of game to get them.

Latinas and Asian girls generally get with me too if I play my cards right in most cases. White brunettes can be difficult but not impossible.

Blondes have been NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE for me to get with until the past few recent months. You say geography, I live in the southeast part of the US and we generally have a lot of English and Irish descendants here, some Scottish people too but not many Scandinavians or Germans. I skipped a trip to Sweden the past December due to my insecurity about race and travel but I have just noticed this over a long period of time since middle school to now. I have rarely had cases where a Blonde (teacher, classmate, or stranger) has been kind to me, there have been very few cases but believe me when I say this, there is just something about Blonde girls in the south that makes them 10 times harder to game than any other kind of women out there for me.

A part of this could be due to my mindset, growing up I had a lot of bad experiences with Blondes (treated like crap by them, bullied by women like that, looked as a 2nd class citizen by them, etc.) which has to an extent screwed up my mindset with them.

I will say this though, out of all of the different kinds of women I have met in my life, Blondes have been the MEANEST. Don't get where the stereotype of them being fun and kind came from. Again, this is just the deep south so I don't know how other areas of the world are like. I would assume that a blonde in Scandinavia is a little more, well, how do I say it, humane?

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LOL I think you've left out some more salient details. Like 99.99999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999%.

I can gaurantee you, you didn't nail this blond girl because you ignored her. There's more to it than that.

FOr example, if you had no value to her at all, she would simply ignore you back.

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So if a redhead dyes her hair blonde, she won't want to sleep with you any more?

And if a blonde dyes her hair red, then she'll be down to hook up?

I'm stunned by how little credit you're giving women in general.

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of course, value is important

if you are not a decent looking guy and if there is no interest in you at the start then you are screwed, good point

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Hahaha, lol you got bullied by blondes? The reason you think blondes are harder to get is because you're way too soft. If you let a woman bully you then why the f. do you complain about this?