I've got a lot to tell you guys, but it'll take a bit to get it all sorted out in my head and written down.

I'll add to this as quickly as I can.

Although this long story starts online, it does end with a field report, it'll just take a bit to get there.

I met this bird online last year, and even though she's from FL and I'm in the UK I decided to practice my game on her. There were long days and short ones, and times I feared I had over-stepped myself (she has a husband and kiddies) but she loved my game so much in time that photos were swapped (HB8), and we started chatting both publicly and privately. Nicknames given and received, daily private chats with online closings - this chick gave great text!

So anyway I keep her on the hook thinking it won't go anywhere - us living so far apart and all - but she decides she's so in love with the idea of me that she's leaving her husband in the fantasy of starting a new life with me! (I had one close call when some FB chick somehow got hold of a number of photos that I had shared with some mates, thought I was lost for sure, but when she finds out she decides it's either her husband or some hacker-chick that must of hacked her FB account - harhar - pulled my arse out of the fire that time!

So by now we're talking and texting on Viber - still haven't met in RL, but she quits her man (with a bit of the ol he's too controlling from me) and starts the divorce and wants to know when I'll come to the US and take her away from her (slightly lame) life. Well, at this point I'm getting enough action close to home that I don't really want to spend cash I don't need to to get laid. But then I think to myself how far can this really go? She really is pretty smoking, and I'm just your joe-average guy, and she talks just smashing head!!

So at this point the husband and tykes are out of the way moved out of state, and she's all alone now in FL so I've either got to step up and get me some of that good stuff, or let the fish off the hook. You know the saying bout a whore in the bedroom? I really thought she was, and it turns out SHE really is!

I used a groupon to get a flight to NJ and got her to meet me last week and got the f-close and much, much more!! Harhar - even got her to pay for the Hilton and the bar-tab. It was tough staying in my role the entire time, but it looks like she bought it all the way! She was enough fun in the room that even though I was planning a heart-felt but this just won't work for us good-bye - I couldn't do it. I got what I wanted, left her happy and tired, but left the hook in... (we're talking bout her getting a tat on her neck under her hairline - like my scores branded)

It was my longest game, but my first (of many I hope) internet babes that I met in person. I do feel kind of bad for the control-freak ex-husband, but if he'd been taking care of the itch I wouldn't have gotten much, right?

What I'm wondering is where to take this from here? No, she's not the "one", or any of that crap, but she is one HB, not much to talk to in RL, but you can't get it all on the first try, right? The bitch of it was that I had a sweet piece I was supposed to meet the night I got home, but was too tired from the flight and all so I bailed and it looks like I lost her.

I wonder? If I get this one to fly me to FL for a week or two, will that justify a 'new' field report? Or, just another chapter here? It'll be the same chick, but such a sweet game (shining knight, my King, the whole bit), if I can pull on round two I think it'll be worth another field report - thoughts?

Anyhow, more details later. And for collectors, I've got some great photos to share...

I think I am learning that good game = power. And I'm starting to like it. At first I just thought game with to get laid, but it's much more than that! Like this chick from FL - I'll call her Han...

Started out just gaming on the internet and it turns into 'true love' as far as Han thinks anyway. Leaves her guy, flys to NJ just to meet me, I told her to shave herself 'clean' for me (she did), and it's like she worships me - quite the head-game!

So I'm thinking to myself, what if I fell out of character and became the real me with her? Would she still be the same chick? Or is the 'game' me what she's hot for? Not that I know everything, far from it, I still count each close, still learning, but so far, what I am learning is how to be not me when I'm gaming. Is this how it's supposed to work? Right now, all I care about is getting some action, but somewhere down the line, I know I'm going to want to have a real relationship, but I don't see how this will help with that?

I compare my game with Han, with my last 'real' GF - and it's totally different! Sure, I had fun with Han, she can leave you sore for days, but talking to her? Way to shallow for me! So I guess I'm asking how does practicing my game help me to find a relationship down the road? As far as Han thinks, we're madly in love, and I'm supposed to pull up roots and move to the states and live happily ever after with this chick - that's what she's thinking. So on one hand, I think I goofed, but then I remember it's just game.

Summery:
Met on the internet
Got lots of photos
Lots of sexting
Set up a close in the states
Han paid for room and shit
F-closed a LOT over 2 days
Left her happy and dreaming
She's a HB8, but dumb as rocks

Now what?
Do I...
Drop her?
Keep playing her?
Slowly become the real me and see what happens?
Han is ok in the sack, but the rest of the time I was bored to tears!

I need some advice and direction here, please?

Ok, I'm new here, and pretty new to the whole PUA scene. So I don't know much, but I want to learn if for no other reason than to become more comfortable meeting the ladies.

But dude, this really seems f-upped to me!! PUA stuff is cool, But no pain! Doing shit that makes people hurt after the fact is like totally lame in my book so I think the secret is to do it and cause no harm.

Maybe you didn't ruin her her marriage maybe it was going away on its own that don't you think like leading her on she thinks it's love and how are you going to end it so she doesn't hurt. Have you thought about that?

Fair enough. I am not a MPUA by any means. But I'd like to think I'm not a total newb either. It's fine to have your opinion, but where is the pain here? You assume that I just walk away or something? I am trying to decide what my next move will be/should be. I agree with the whole "no pain" concept, but you have to remember the "alls fair in love and war" - right?

The whole husband thing is on Han herself, and while I may be pretty good, I don't think I'm the 'only' reason she bailed on her marriage..

I'm not a pickup guru or anything. but the whole concept of " game " is to be yourself... no wait..... be your best self! and having fun with (single) quality women..

what you discribe in your field rapport is F*cked up imho........
Maybe her marriage was crashing anyways, but you definetly poured a little oil on the fire.
thats not cool bro.... there are millions of single fish in the sea, why only game married 1's?

furthermore if i where you i would stop this before it get's worse for her sake!