| Thanks brotha. Much appreciated.
I feel like I should have been a bit more in depth on where I'm coming from. So, ahem...
Three qualities I've found to be my core:
1) Decently attractive and very likable
2) Intelligent - borderline gifted
3) Recklessly social deviant (I jokingly use the term sociopath)
So if I'm confident in who I am, have my circle(s) of friends, can be entertaining and have a unique persona what's the problem?
I tried being more "mainstream media"... I just blend in and forgotten.
I tried being macho... Love my physique and hitting the gym but its not all about the bulk
I tried being fashionable... Found my style but also a lot of gay guys
I want to talk the girl in the subway with headphones in... but I can't move. Everything in my body screams "Just do it! Stop thinking!" but I freeze. I had the opener, I had a follow up, but I didn't tap her shoulder. Why?
It's more of the one's I find of value: more attractive, jobs in high places, etc. I feel inferior and it freezes me up.
Why did I jump in here?
Just as much an AFC as the next guy. I like the social experiment of it all. The challenges, the tactics, the possible improv and curveballs. I started seeing things differently. Just looking to expand my horizons in a new realm. I'm a musician, a radio DJ, a frat boy, a scientist, a political philosopher, a natural bodybuilder, a cook, a swimmer, a jack of all trades. But not a PUA...yet.
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I see it all perfectly; There are two possible situations - one can either do this or that. My honest opinion and friendly advice is this: do it or do not do it - either way you will regret it.
-Soren Kierkegaard
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