Okay, well since today is valentines day, i was going to tease this girl by starting out in the morning "I kind of need to tell you something... I'm going to call you later"

Sort of to build up tension but also to create superstition.

Well what i feel like this will do is to make her think that i have found someone else and that what I'm saying might hurt her, but when i call her I'm going to be like happy valentines, sort of to surprise her.


What i need an opinion on is if you guys think this is a good idea. something I'm worried about though is that if she feels like it's over, will it in the future make her feel like she's losing attraction to me? like to protect herself?

I think it's an excellent strategy and you do not necessarily have to use it on V-day. We do not know all of the situation so the forum can't tell you if it's a good idea. But the premise to try to get in her head and create suspense I like. But be a little bit careful b/c too much of it and not revealing what you mean can turn them against you.