we had a bust up last wknd basically with her shit testing me at 4am

ok so i rang her.

first she answers and then hangs up. rings a min later. srry i'm just leaving work can u ring me back in 30 mins. ok i believe this.

i wrote down what i wanted to say:

So I said:

I want you to listen... Rather than writing things down in an email I want to speak in person as a mature adult. As a close friend I deserve this and I want to speak with you before you go to Poland.

I'm not here to judge or to say negative things to you. My text might have said this wrong and this is why I want to meet. I'm not going to say anything that will add stress. Its things as a close friend to think about when your in Poland.

I want to meet Friday night.

If you dont want to meet this shows you dont care anything about me as a friend or casual partner whatever. (she replies ...I never said I didnt want to meet)


ok so she agrees to meet and i say i'll meet wherever i dont care i want to meet. so i said her apt but her flat mate might be there.

then i say coffee near her place.

then she jumps in the bitch and says lets meet at the coffee shop in the cinema. i say 7.30 and she says i will be there after work but i'lll wait for you.

she prob meeting a friend after there at the cinema.

when i meet i am going to say lets go for a walk because i dont want to meet in that place.


ye she sounds more intrigued in the drama and didnt really sound like she gave a shit on the phone.

my voice was trembliing for some stupid reason and she probably picked up on that.





soooooooo....

shes expecting me to be all lecturing her and all. I want to dress up really smart like i'm going out.... i want advice on what to say to her then say my piece and say i'm going to a party. have a good holiday because shes going bck to her country. how to play this . thanks

I'm confused. What exactly are you trying to accomplish?

-W

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ideally i want her to realise she treats me like shit and that she missed out and that she wants me back.

then i want her back on my terms. i have the control and she either likes it or takes the high road