| Hows that sound as a "routine to run"...
To build yourself "DOWN"...first this will only work on ladies whom you have been with for some time...but somewhere along the lines, you screw it all up bigtime...she finds you cheating with someone, you say something and she completely ignores you, you do x...she leaves...you do y...she ran away...
Well... I call this "I'm a Bad Guy."
It's a variation of the Strawman technique people use to build up another guy to a lady so that they lose interest in that guy because you made them seem soo godly or perfect when in a sense they aren't...with this you instead...
This will only work if you have memories with the lady before hand, "good times" where you were both enjoying yourself and loving each others company...
Just get the main idea of how this works and change it around so it fits what you are trying to accomplish.
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Basically when you get the moment, to talk to her before she runs away forever, or after she ignores you and breaks up with you, or whatever else it is...,
You jokingly say "I must have been such a bad guy to you"
Then you say with a serious look in your eyes, (looking into her eyes)
It must have been such a bad idea for us to watch late night movies together.
It must have been such a bad thing for us to go to dinner during the nights...
I can't believe I was soo bad to you by getting you a birthday present a few months ago..
I can't believe I was such a jerk when I kissed you for the first time at xyz...
I can't believe I was such a bad person to you when we went to the chocolate massage spa the other week, I don't know what I was thinking..
I don't know what I was thinking when I was doing (SOMETHING GOOD THAT YOU DID TOGETHER), with you.
I don't know if you feel the same way...but I can't believe I did (SOMETHING ELSE GOOD THAT YOU DID) with you and that I didn't do XYZ With you instead that day.
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Basically...you say, "you can't believe you did xyz with her" it must have been such a bad idea ...(xyz being something fun and memorable)...then you continue..."I don't know what I was thinking kissing your soft lips for the first time at yyz..." that must have been such a bad kiss (if it was, then dont mention this)...
you want to take the good times you've both had, and twist it to make all the moments you had as "bad" for you...but as you do this, she is saying to herself "...NO I THOUGHT THAT WAS GREAT"....
...When do you end with the "Im a bad guy for doing xyz with you"...thing I am trying to describe? you stop when she says...
"HOLY SHIT, NO!!!!! I think those times were AHHHHHMMM REALLLY GREATTT!"
OR whatever else she says....when you get that....well...THERE YOU GO, you have her back...because you made her realize all the good times you've had?
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Any thoughts? Ideas? Anyone tried a variation of this?...
I tried it on someone last week, that was getting cold...She turned around and we showed ourselves a phenomenal time.
- Who's done this?..myself...so feel free to share how this works, or if there can be improvements...or if I should just never use this again (EVEN though it did work).
Basically say that you can't believe, or are sorry, or
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