First post but been following this and other forums for a while now.

Anyways need some advice, I'll keep it short...

There's this girl I've been gaming for a while, nothing too serious we've made out a couple times but that's it. We're in still in college so we see each other a lot and talk almost everyday. One evening I was messaging her, asking how the club was. She responds with call me. I wait a few minutes then ring her.

She is drunk and saying how she wants to see me and for me to come over. On the phone she goes on about how she ran into her ex and how she hasn't dated anyone in a while and stuff like that. Obviously I don't go meet her, it's late and she's had way too much to drink, then she calls once more saying come over again. I still don't go.

The next day she says sorry for bugging me but that's it. Anyways here's my question...should I straight up ask her what that night was about, or just leave it or what? She's stunning so I'm all for trying to keep this going and getting further, but don't know how to play this one out. Is she attracted or was it just the combo of booze and her ex that set her off?

Fist off she is attracted to you. Why is she calling you instead of some other guy to come over when she is drunk and hassn't been with a guy for a while.
Second you should of went over. She was drunk but probably not that drunk that she didn't know who she was calling and what she wanted. She wanted you to come over. You could of had her that night and then when she woke up next yo you she would of smiled and been happy it was you.
I have had relationships start like this in the past. You should of went over.

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In hindsight maybe should have gone for it but whatever. How do you think I should go forward... Just astraight up sk about that night next time we are out, or just keep going as normal?

I wouldn't even ask about that night. Here is why, now you know she wants you so you play cool and go from there. When you hang out with her, I think would be easier to kiss close and other stuff knowing that she wants it. I think if you talk to her about what has happened will only make you sound desperate. This way you don't mention and show her that it's normal and it happens a lot.

dv85

solid advice, didn't really think about it that way till you mentioned it.