Hey Guys,
I don’t really do much online game because I go out a lot but a friend turned me on to it and I think it’s a great supplement to the days when your not gaming (particularly Monday to wednseday). I’ve noticed that my text game needs some work. Most of the time I usually call a chick I get a number from, but even in my regular text game I have a hard time keeping the interaction going to the point of a meetup. Ive noticed that I can open really well but everytime I bring the conversation to a normal vibe the conversation either dies automatically or slowly drains away to the point of me chasing a bit. Its been happening so consistently that there is definatly something Im doing wrong. I’ve been working on this recently and trying to see that if I open too high that eventually Im going to have to bring it down a bit but not to the point of it going to low. When I open sometimes I go over a lot of profiles and send first thing that comes to mind and do like 10 of them. Other times I try to find something really fitting if I find the chick attractive enough. Trying to calibrate and find a real balance hear. Ive also noticed that a lot of these girls aren’t on this that much and/or not fully commited to their online dating account. I also noticed that there are a lot of fucking tall chicks on here. That being said, I can definatley use some pointers. Ill post my profile at the end and Here are some of the covos Ive had that didn’t really go anywhere:
Bisexual 7 (usually takes about a day to respond)
Me: Hey I have some cool tattoo ideas for my second tattoo and was wondering since ure a painter if you can help me out with the design.
Her: I mainly paint abstract but I could maybe give it a go? ☺ I'm _____ btw
Me: Hi ____ my name is Dom. Yeah I really know what I want I have alot of ideas. I have an obsession with Julius Caesar so Im gathering all different symbols related to him just need someone to put it together for me. What tattoos do u have?
Her: I have a Dali elephant, vintage key, Capricorn sign, roman numeral 33, rose &leo sign, two quotes, a paintbrush, an Indian girl with headdress and a rose and butterfly thigh piece
Me: Cool Id like you to show me sometime. Are they all special in some way?
Her: Yea they're all meaningful to me
Me: Cool me as well. Is the indian girl as cute as you;) So what did u do for new years?
Her: Haha smooth. And it was good It was my birthday
how was ur nye
Me: O well happy birthday were u born on the first or the 31st? My new years was great I went to go see Armin Van Burren . Btw please say zeppelin is your favorite band
Her: 31st is my bday. I LOVE LED ZEP & armin van buren? I'm so jelly
Me: So your older than everyone else ure age. Burren was sick. Yeah Jimi Page is my biggest influence Im like a little kid still when I watch him play. Did u ever see te Zeppelin Desert DVD
Her: No I never saw it I bet it was so great
Me: Well how about I show u one day lemme get ure number and we can discuss it over the fone
FINE’
19 year old 8 (she message me)
her: haha I love pomegranate
me: Lol Ive perfected how to eat them as well thats peoples biggest hurdle when they want to try it out
me: just saw your profile theres no such thing as laughing to much. I have a laugh that is very contagious and makes others laugh as well
her: Hmm looks like we'll get along just fine then! Lol I just laugh easily
me: Well of course. If you ever seen the movie Amadeus about mozart his laugh is exactly like mine
her: Hahahaha
her: Wait OMG that is crazy
me: My names ____ whats yours. Did u see that movie?
Her: __ yeah
Me: Cool I actually havent seen it in a while. So ure analytical too wede have a real fun time arguing and laughing together
Me: Where you from?
Her: Ny
Me: No I mean l like where you live at
(didn’t text back right away reopen below)
Me: Im from queens btw
Her: Ah srry feel asleep for a sec
Her: Bk here
Me: Oh lol im gonna go to sleep soon as well maybe we can talk some time lemme get ure
(forgot to write number)
Me: number
Me: lol
Me: forgot the word
(didn’t text back so I reopened)
Me: Well my number is _____ hit me up if youd like
Her: Hey! Sorry just got this! Will do
Me: Hey Lena so did you get ure big lips from your parents cuz neither of mine have em and I got it somehow
Her: Hi! Yeah I did
Her: What's ur nationality?
Me: lol well maybe we can introduce them to eachother. Im an Italian
Stalion what about u?
Her: Lol wow you did not hesitate to say that
Me: Well why should we keep them apart it will only make ure lips hate you more
FINE’
High 7 (her name was veryuglyduckling)
Me: so like when are u gonna turn beautiful. Like how long will I have to wait ?
Her: Omg you're one God damn shallow man! Nah just kidding. Haha i know. Ive been waiting too. Hope not in vain tho. Lol
Me: Dont worry the right one will wait. Lol jk so whats with the name?
Her: Hahaha so a person needs to be pretty just to find the right one. Harsh truth in life right?
lmao oh yeah the name. I just wanna get it over with during the signing up. Thought i can change it right after. Lol idk how to. I'm just using the app. Lol
Me: Well beauty isnt everthing but attraction is necessary. I see the beautiful swan inside of you
Her: Lol hey thanks! Hehe but i'll totally sound hypocrite when I say the looks of a person doesnt count. Cuz definitely it does. You wont know that they have an awesome personality when you didn't give em a chance. And why did you give the chance in the first place? Cuz of how they look. So yeah. Everyone is shallow. We just dont wanna accept it cuz we think we're better than others. Haha real talk. Lmao you hate me now dont you? Lol
Me: Thats was some real Socratis sort of evaluation right there. Its both but I have to be honest in the long run only thing that will keep people together is personality and friendship. Attraction subsides but ugly ducklings get more beatiful so dont see how that will be a problem for u
(didn’t text back tried to reopen)
Me: So what are your plans for the weekend?
(I know I know this is really lame attempt lol)
FINE’
7 (she opened me)
her: I thought I was the the only one constantly falling when climbing up stairs.
Me: Omg seriously. I feel so clumsy at times. We shoukdnt go up stairs together we would be catastrophic. I woulndt mind tending ure wounds tho
Her: Unless me hold each others hands lol. For some reason though it only happens to me in the subway. The most embarrassing part is people stop to ask me if I'm ok haha
Her: *we hold
Me: Aww haha. Lets practice together so it doent happen anymore
Her: That sounds good to me
I'm _____
Me: ___ I never heard that name my names _____. Lemme get your number maybe we can talk some time.
(I thought she flaked on this but she actually texted her number and I didn’t notice)
Her: Im at work until 11pm ..My number is ________
(so I tried to open her up again before I called cuz I noticed a few days later and she most likely wouldn’t have known who called her)
Me: Hey whats ure work schedule like today? I can give u a call later on
FINE’
High 7 she said that she wanted someone ambitious
Me: I worship Julius Caesar. Are you sure that is t too much ambition for you? You look cute by the temple btw.
Her: Thanks....
I just finished translated de bello gallico. caesar isn't too bad, a little cocky but not much more than any other of the romans
Me: Wow thats pretty cool. Do you speak latin?
FINE’
Low 8 (on her profile said she has a problem telling a guy that she is attracted to that she wants to kiss him)
Me: if you asked to kiss me and I said no winked at you and pushed you away to tease u a bit would that turn u on?
Her: Mhmm. It would.
Me: Good me too. Id then just kiss you for only .05 seconds and push u away again. Would u get pissed and want it more?
Her: Hmmm
Me: Well I dont see how u would have a choice in the matter anyway
Your tge first person I seen call him Morrisey (Jim morison)haha whats up with that
(diverted the flirty talk to get an actual response from her. She doesn’t answer so I text back later on)
Me: Hey you oww me a kiss
FINE’
A lot of times I take too long to text back cuz Im not on the app all day
8.5 (She waited about a month to actually hit me up)
Me: Hey I was born in Ozone Park. Whats your favorite Italian dish?
Her: Penne ala vodka
Me: O yeah Im good at making that but ure gonna have to clean up
Her: Ummm do you mean what I think you mean?
Me: Hmm not sure. Im a good cook but dont like cleaning up afterwards lol. Whens the last time u had penne alla vodka?
Her: Umm probably over a month ago. Are you Italian?
Me: Thats good so tasting mine wont e redundant! Yea Im Italian. Aside from that do you like Italian guys?
Her: Who doesnt lol
Me: Lol not me What are ure plans for this weekend?
Her: I don't have anything planned. Its been a rough week so I doubt I'll go crazy
Me: O sorry to hear that are u stressed out?
(this was a bad reply I should’ve pushed for something more like us hanging out I try to reopen several times)
Me: Hey still not goin crazy
(again)
me: Hey whats up. Did you have any Italian food latley?
FINE’
Noticed that when you reopen has to be almost like your opening from the beginning again that catches her attention. It can’t be some bullshit opener
Nice 8 (had a funny profile)
Me: Im still trying to figure out if your joking about your self summary and its pissing me off lol. Anyway I like your mask and its a good thing you dont wear a cape cuz I once almost punched out one of those fake super heroes in san diego. Have u heard about those
Her: Well, that's what the quotation marks are for.
Me: So then u really do fight crime. What are u a cop?
(didn’t reply and didn’t know what to say to reopen)
regular 7 (into fashion)
me: lol are you the type of girl who likes to dress her boyfriends?
Her: yeah I don't mind it if they want my help
Me: Just as long as it doesnt make me look like a straight man I dont care. So where did you move to nyc from?
(LOL really fucked up here)
her: What do you mean? Ur not straight? Lol I'm from CT
me: Shit I was gonna say homo but sounded offensive crap. I meant to say make me not look like a gay haha.
(thought she woulda texted back to this don’t think its actually cuz of what I said. Maybe I exressed some weakness with the apology)
FINE’
High 7 (likes guns n roses)
Me: slash is one of my biggest influences. Would u be a guns n roses groupie?
Her: I would say more along the lines of devoted fan, I mean groupie ? Really ? There all old and saggy now no thank you. Lol
Me: Well I meant in the past haha buy its ok u can be my groupie
(didn’t text back reopened)
me:Hey what is that a tattoo of on ure arm?
(again this is weak)
FINE’
7 but tits and ass a 9
me: Healthcare management I sprained my ankle, you think you can help me out?
Her: Sure. Work in an orthopedic office come here we can take care of you
Me: I busted it playing soccer. After Im healed and ready to play again U can be my cheerleader
Her: lol as long as its indoors
Me: Yea wouldnt want you to freeze to death. So how much more time do you have to finish school
Her: i just started new major, so a while!lol
Me: What made you decide to do that?
Her: Well I've been a medical assistant for four years and I want to do soemthing else ... I need to be a boss! Lol
Her: I look at my office and I know I can manage the hell out of it lmao
Me: So you have a little bit of a tony montana in you? Thats attractive. Im sure you can take over with my help
Her: Lol
Me: Haha. What do you got planned for this snowy weekend besides taking over
HIGH 7
Me: your picture against the wall is my favorite!! Lol jk. When do u finish school
Her: Thanks! Lol
I have a couple semesters to go
How's your day so far?
Me: Thats good lemme know if you need help studying. Im going to my apartment to take some measurements of stuff that I need to buy at home depot. U?
Her: Aw, that's sweet of you. I'll keep that in mind
Some plans got cancelled so i've had time to catch up with a few things.
Me: Oh yea what were u supposed to do ton
(no answer I should have reopened with this one)
low 7
me: an italian in queens who mentions every sport except futbol te one that counts. Tsk tsk. Anyway ive been working in te city past couple of years an Im convinced that pigeons have evolved they arent scared of humans at all. They arent supposed to even survive the cold. There taking over!
Her: Those pigeon have more street smarts then most of the people I come in contact with in the city pretty sad. When they come near me I squirm like a small child.. People usually find it hilarious
Me: Haha one almost flew into my head and I dodged it like someone through football at my head people were like wtf
Me: What is art music?
Her: There is supposed to be an "and" oops ! That sounds silly I had to go back and read that ! Good job paying attention !
Me: Lol cuz Im really into music so I was like wtf is that. What u doin ton?
Her: Just home watching the knick game with brother I was out last night and today so just relaxing how about you
Me: Just moved into a new apartment was really tired yesterday but tonite prob gonna celebrate
Her: Oh that's exciting congrats!!! You moved into the city ?
Me: Yea its a big headache but Im pretty happy. Nope moved to astoria. Like it over here a lot
(didn’t text back tried to reopen was pretty busy during this one and wasn’ttexting her that often)
me: How was your superbowl weekend
her: Hey! It was okay nothing crazy just stayed home and watched it with my brother how about you ?
Me: Sry for late reply. Still gettin settled in my new place. I did the same watched it here and ate alot of treats. How much do u love this snow right now?
FINE’
I’ve noticed that after reading a lot of these that may not be aggressive enough when going for the meetup. Below is my profile. I have to update my self summary and think that honesty about yourself hits the hardest but I don’t want to sound weak or like every other chode on this website. I tried to take as much from forums and implemented it as possible but don’t think its hitting viewers hard enough. Any pointers would be cool as well
MY profile
My self-summary
Its kinda hard to sum me up in a paragraph.
My wittiness can sometimes cut through ice and Id like to think that my boyish charm can get me through anything
I embrace life to the fullest and believe that "The World is Yours" as Scarface taught me when I was a young boy, and impossible is not a word I understand too much. Mediocrity/normality is Boring! and I go through life the way I want to.
What I’m doing with my life
I always like progressing at something. Whether its playing an instrument or making money or learning a language, I hate wasted time. I do like to rest at times, but only after a fulfilling time doing things. I currently work for a marketing/software company. Music is a big part of my life as well as cool new types of business ideas that will make me filthy fucking rich.
I’m really good at
Learning quick. Getting into and out of crazy situations and making people enjoy their time with me.
I love making people have a good time and its very satisfying to me when I make other people happy.
Im also very good at falling when I go up a flight of stairs
The first things people usually notice about me
My Lips
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Im a huge Marlon Brando fan (mostly the black and white stuff), Entourage, and l love Game of Thrones, as well as Greek Mythology. Sadly I had a cool library that was destroyed by that motherless whore Hurricane Sandy!
I love all food period ... but Italian food is, and always will be, heavyweight champion, regardless of what anyone thinks.
Music is a huge part of my life and this list can go on forever but I really like all genres. Ive begun to like Electronic music Chris Vargas especially (anything that will make me dance) , Zeppelin Guns n Roses (huge influence on my music), Mozart (A gift from the gods.... nuff said), Black Eyed Peas, David Guetta, Lady Gaga (yes she is a good freagen musician), Kanye West, Andrea Boccelli
The six things I could never do without
POMEGRANITES (I get sad when there out of season)
My guitar, music
Fam friends of course but thats like default for everyone
Futbol (soccer as the Americans say it)
FOOD
And probably my penis
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The universe and taking over
On a typical Friday night I am
I hate typical nights
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I could fly
I’m looking for Girls who like guys Ages 20–31 Located anywhere For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Well, you can message me if you want to but below describes the type of girls that I date:
A girl who can hold a conversation about anything and talk about interesting things. Has certain things in common, but she can also show me something new.
Has high self esteem, is attractive, very independent, and educated. She has a huge passion about life or something in particular that she loves.
She has strong relationships with her friends and family and surrounds herself with good positive people.
A girl who can turn a boring night into an adventure.
If you think that you are this type of girl and think that your chill, message me
FINE'
BTW BE AS CRITICAL AS YOU FUCKING NEED TO BE!. I dont care for criticism. Any insite and helpon this will be greatly appreciated.
CHAT